Fleurpepper
she is paying for it, with HER money- and then the sale of her home, which is VERY valuable. I can only imagine they want her to move to a cheaper home so there is more left eventually.
But that’s not their decision, it’s hers, and if she doesn’t want to move to a cheaper home they can’t force her. It depends on whether they authorised to act for her as Lasting Power of Attorney, and if so, whether they are acting for sound financial reasons - for example if the funding source won’t sustain the level of expense. If you or DD are sure of the facts it might be worth reporting to SS as a safeguarding concern. If the family does have her Lasting Power of Attorney, they have to include her in all decisions as far as possible and any decisions they make on her behalf have to be in her best interests, and where possible, with her agreement. If whoever is acting as her Attorney is going against her wishes, they could end up in serious trouble. If you know there is an LPA in place and you have concerns, report it to the office of the public guardian, and they will investigate. If an attorney is acting improperly, the court will appoint an independent guardian to act for her.