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Phoenix's Curse

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kittylester Fri 19-Aug-22 11:47:58

Written in 'honour' of our ex sil - commonly know as the ar****le.

tickingbird Sat 20-Aug-22 20:12:22

It was a posting of a nasty text which included nasty reference to a specifically male body part.

Shock, horror! A male body part? Quick, bring the smelling salts! Whatever next??

eazybee Sat 20-Aug-22 19:52:06

Her departure has nothing to do with Phoenix and this thread is not the place to air grievances.

tickingbird Sat 20-Aug-22 19:49:31

Well I’m not a member of any clique but did exchange PM’s with Phoenix once. She was a lovely, kind lady with a great sense of humour.

RIP Phoenix flowers

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 20-Aug-22 19:36:38

Indeed so. Not irrelevant at all.

GrannyGravy13 Sat 20-Aug-22 19:33:13

eazybee

Quite right.
The topic of Maw was completely irrelevant so why introduce it?.

Because she was in contact and still is with the family and friends of Phoenix

eazybee Sat 20-Aug-22 19:28:32

Quite right.
The topic of Maw was completely irrelevant so why introduce it?.

Hithere Sat 20-Aug-22 19:04:16

I thought this thread was to honour Phoenix, not to discuss internal politics of GN

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 20-Aug-22 19:01:15

There is a mafia and its members always have their fingers on the report button. And the ‘spirit of GN’ is not applied fairly and equally to everyone. As a result valued posters have gone and vowed never to return. This is not, however the place to discuss it.

FannyCornforth Sat 20-Aug-22 18:33:19

You’re telling me!

Jaxjacky Sat 20-Aug-22 18:32:08

I don’t think there’s a Mafia, but if you’re asked to abide by the spirit of GN and don’t then there may be consequences.

FannyCornforth Sat 20-Aug-22 18:21:51

I think that posters just use the term ‘GN Mafia’ because it’s a handy, vague, amorphous umbrella term.
You can blame whoever you prefer to blame.

merlotgran Sat 20-Aug-22 18:19:17

I believe Phoenix’s first husband worked for the royal household and they had a staff flat at Windsor Castle.

Another piece of trivia is that she once owned a flock of sheep.

lixy Sat 20-Aug-22 18:02:48

I didn't know Phoenix but I was aware from references to her in previous threads that she was a respected and admired lady.

I have enjoyed reading the quotes others have posted here, thank you. I shall be thinking of the Curse of the Gammon and all of you too at Christmas!

Angela73 Sat 20-Aug-22 18:01:30

kittylester

Maw asked for her name to be removed after GNHQ wanted her to undertake not to post on any threads started by one particular member. She was not prepared to do that, understandably in my view

Not very democratic?!

GrannyGravy13 Sat 20-Aug-22 18:00:25

I suppose it depends on your definition of mafia

There are a fair few GN members who meet up in real life (I do with other local members) so obviously we know more about each other and are by definition closer.

Then there are those of us who due to distance email each other (like pen friends) and are also close.

Should we/I not post on threads due to our friendships ?

FannyCornforth Sat 20-Aug-22 17:46:00

Honestly, there is absolutely no such thing as ‘The GN Mafia’.

kittylester Sat 20-Aug-22 17:30:46

Maw asked for her name to be removed after GNHQ wanted her to undertake not to post on any threads started by one particular member. She was not prepared to do that, understandably in my view

JenniferEccles Sat 20-Aug-22 17:27:27

The latter I fear NanKate

NanKate Sat 20-Aug-22 17:23:35

I miss Maw too Jennifer I hope she returns. I don’t know if she left by her own choice or if the Mafia were involved ☹️

Kalu Sat 20-Aug-22 17:23:10

Yes, she was Fanny. Stoical and brave as she shared her experience of being terminally ill.

FannyCornforth Sat 20-Aug-22 17:02:22

Rachel was on R4’s You and Yours (or similar) shortly before her death, wasn’t she?

Callistemon21 Sat 20-Aug-22 16:39:14

www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/1279496-Do-we-have-any-famous-people-on-here

I love Framilode's post ?

Callistemon21 Sat 20-Aug-22 16:33:54

Quote:

phoenix 28/05/2020 21:40

I have done several radio interviews, and had a rather cheeky conversation with Prince Charles at a dance when I lived in Windsor Castle, but definitely NOT famous!

Callistemon21 Sat 20-Aug-22 16:30:03

Yes, I remember that, she did mention it in a post.

FannyCornforth Sat 20-Aug-22 16:28:27

kittylester

And she lived at Windsor Castle, I think.

Did she? You can’t leave that hanging Kitty!