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Officially grumpy old women?

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Hildagard Mon 22-Aug-22 13:50:05

Does this qualify me as a grumpy old woman! Have just been into a local Marks and Spencer.
A non service dog in the food hall! , a little boy on a scooter in mens wear, and hardly any tills open!
Is it you early for a G and T!

JenniferEccles Fri 26-Aug-22 13:23:58

How about children who persistently kick the back of your seat on planes?
Yes we all know children get bored on flights but that’s no excuse to cause annoyance to other passengers.

This behaviour was a pet hate of our neighbour. He told me once that he didn’t bother mentioning it to the parents, he just stood up, turned round and in a very clear firm voice told the child to stop the kicking.
He said it always worked.
I guess he was lucky not to have some irate father giving him a mouthful!

Pollyanna2 Fri 26-Aug-22 11:06:34

Just a thought ... sometimes it's hard to know if a dog is a 'help' dog or not ...

Esmay Thu 25-Aug-22 16:42:58

Do you think that we should dress like Hells Angels ?!
I think that I want to !

pascal30 Thu 25-Aug-22 12:51:21

I SO agree with you Calendar Girl

Nannylovesshopping Thu 25-Aug-22 11:55:03

Esmay I def want to join your gang!

ExDancer Thu 25-Aug-22 10:36:16

What about children pushing loaded trolleys around? Those trolleys get heavy and are difficult to steer at the best of times. Not long ago a child caught the back of my ankle with a wheel, it wasn't until I got home I realised it'd drawn blood.

Hildagard Thu 25-Aug-22 10:28:01

Count me in Esmay!

MrsKen33 Thu 25-Aug-22 10:19:37

Yes Esmay not the scooter bit but the last two suggestions I could go with

Esmay Thu 25-Aug-22 09:01:30

Yesterday , I met up with some ladies at a local cafe .
When one of them received a water saving notice on her phone - we all decided that we have turned into grumpy old women .
I didn't read mine .
I've been super careful with water .
Haven't we all ?

Bikes and dogs in cafes /shops annoy me too .
The other thing which infuriates me is having people pushing in front of me at the chemist and supermarket as
" I've got work . "
Or "I'm parked . "

All of us had just spent hours on the phone trying to get through and listened to recorded music and messages .

We'd ordered coffee , but felt like G and T's and frankly wondered about wacky baccy .
After all ,it's all you can smell around the area .

I 'm wondering if in future we aren't going to turn into a bunch of foul mouthed , abusive , mobility scooter riding , dog owning , boozed up splif smoking old grandmas !

Anyone want to join my gang ?

Tanjamaltija Thu 25-Aug-22 06:16:42

If you leave a dog alone in the house it might cry / bark and annoy the neighbours - and you have to live with (near!) them... so maybe it's better to cnance the ire of a couple of shoppers... and the staff did not say anything.

valchoc Thu 25-Aug-22 00:20:14

Went into a so called revamped M and S. In Llandudno today to find cafe is manned by machine where one has to pre order requirements !! Won't be going there again !!

Skyblue2 Wed 24-Aug-22 20:36:21

I did a double take yesterday when someone brought their dog into the hotel swimming pool and spa area. It looked like a labradoodle and came complete with its own bed, carried in on the arms of its owner!

icanhandthemback Wed 24-Aug-22 18:44:42

I wouldn't have a problem with a dog in a food hall as long as it was well behaved and not sniffing the food. Similarly, with the little boy on a scooter as long as he wasn't scooting around recklessly.
However, I'd definitely frown at an early G and T! winkgrin

happycatholicwife1 Wed 24-Aug-22 18:39:07

Thank you so much.
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hamster58 Wed 24-Aug-22 18:02:58

I hate to see people put their children in supermarket trollies with shoes on, exactly where we then put food. I’ve thought that for years, so was a grumpy not so old woman!!

LucyW Wed 24-Aug-22 17:59:39

I am a total dog lover but fail to see why any one really needs their dog in a pub or restaurant with them. I appreciate it is necessary when it is a support dog but I know some visitors with dogs have been unhappy when they weren't allowed access to a museum I work in. I honestly don't think any dog wants to wander round a museum and unless it is needed as a support dog it would be happier left at home.
Also on a number of ococcasions parents have just let their children roam free around a large, multi storey building. Not all children want to do the free worksheets and are not really interested in the type of exhibitions on show.

aonk Wed 24-Aug-22 17:22:23

I have a policy of not frequenting places such as shops, cafes etc which allow dogs inside. Unfortunately for me they are now allowed in John Lewis which is one of my favourite stores!

Barmeyoldbat Wed 24-Aug-22 17:20:36

Back to school soon thank goodness, that just leaves dogs

Alioop Wed 24-Aug-22 17:01:01

Kids flying around shops on Wheelies I think they are called. A young boy nearly knocked me off my feet and had the cheek to give me a filthy look. They shouldn't be allowed.

Barmeyoldbat Wed 24-Aug-22 15:36:46

It’s the same with children, I asked a small boy to stop pushing and hitting me when I reached in to get a chicken. He came up to me and spat at me. His dad was with him, I asked if his son had a problem, autistic etc. no was the reply, he is just a little so I told him his son just spat at me when I asked him to stop pushing me. He replied he blew a raspberry at you, So I asked him if would like me to demonstrate what he did. Also told him he needed to improve his parenting skills or his son would turn out to be a horrid child and walked away with the son screaming she called me horrid. Yesterday I tested positive for covid, just wondered if it was the boy spitting at me.

Gabrielle56 Wed 24-Aug-22 15:10:20

Well! There was a non service pooch in MY M&S too in Horwich Bolton on Monday! Disgraceful carry on.... And on Sunday at carnforth station cafe a trendy(Wannabees) older couple had a lovely spaniel trying to say hello to us and the bloke....picked it up and sat it on his lap! Yuk! They had no control over the poor pup and I got impression it was lockdown puppy that had the gall to....grow!? Ridiculous. And a scummy daddy with an annoying nasal squawk trying to be the perfect parent whilst letting us all know how clever his kid was.... (Looked pretty thick to me)

MrsKen33 Wed 24-Aug-22 15:07:53

Sadgrandma I completely agree with you. We frequented a lovely hotel for years then it became ‘ dog friendly’. I told the owners we wouldn’t be booking again. Same with cafe’s.

Hildagard Wed 24-Aug-22 14:56:15

When someone walks towards you on their phone, just say ‘boo’ have done that quite a few times, with various responses!

Sadgrandma Wed 24-Aug-22 14:52:13

I agree with Jennifer Eccles about children sitting in the main part of shopping trollies with dirty shoes. I once heard of a woman who unpacked a packet of bacon at home only to find it had dog poo on it yuk! I am also surprised that dogs seem to be allowed in cafes everywhere these days, and I am put off by hotels that allow dogs in bedrooms. Never allowed years ago.

Crazymum Wed 24-Aug-22 14:44:44

Children sitting in the food section of trolley . Dirty shoes where you putting your food . Also my local convenience store has a cat that lies on top of boxes or displays. because "it's cute " they won't send it out .