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Amelia Edwards

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Oldwoman70 Fri 26-Aug-22 09:57:07

Amelia was a traveller, historian and novelist. She wrote a book called Egypt A Thousand Miles up the Nile which is said to have started the interest in Egyptology, she was known as the Godmother of Egyptology and is said to have inspired Howard Carter - all very impressive for a woman in the 1870s. There was a feature about her on local radio this morning and what was the first thing they talked about? That she was gay!

If I had achieved anything like this woman did I would not want the first thing people talked about to be my sexuality. If she had been a man would they have discussed whether or not he was gay? What has her sexuality got to do with all the things she achieved?

Chewbacca Fri 26-Aug-22 10:01:57

Q: What has her sexuality got to do with all the things she achieved?

A: Absolutely nothing, but it seems that a person's sexuality is of paramount importance these days and supercedes anything else that they do, or are, in life.

Callistemon21 Fri 26-Aug-22 10:08:27

What has her sexuality got to do with all the things she achieved?

I can see what you mean and why it could be thought of as irrelevant.

However, a woman born in the early 1800s would have been expected to be compliant, obey her father, marry at a young age and, if lucky, have a family. None of her own possessions would have belonged to her, they would have belonged to her husband, even her own children would have belonged to him. She would have been subjugated.

Amedlia must have had a very strong personality to break the mould, refuse to conform to the life that was expected of her and become an explorer.

It wouldn't have mattered if she had been a gay man because he could have married, made a woman miserable and still led a life of adventure.

Callistemon21 Fri 26-Aug-22 10:09:26

Amelia
(Why does autocorrect keep changing it?)

NotSpaghetti Fri 26-Aug-22 10:22:43

These were my thoughts exactly Callistemon21. Her being so remarkable is probably because she was brave enough to step away from the norms.

I didn't hear the programme so don't know if it portrayed her accurately or "in context" so can't comment on that.

Chardy Fri 26-Aug-22 10:47:19

I agree with OP, but good role models for minorities is a real plus as history seems to forget them.

Witzend Fri 26-Aug-22 10:51:15

It would seem to be such a Thing now, to label some notable historical figure of a woman gay, when they can’t possibly know or prove it - just wishful thinking IMO from a certain sector.

Haven’t they recently been trying to tell us that Elizabeth the First was gay? Or even a man in disguise?

Who next? My money is on Florence Nightingale!

Callistemon21 Fri 26-Aug-22 10:53:10

I didn't hear it either, so I don't know if it is a fact or a supposition.

Oldwoman70 Fri 26-Aug-22 11:04:17

She used to travel with a female companion named only as "J" in her diary but my point is that has nothing to do with everything she achieved.

I don't see why her sexuality needed to be mentioned at all but the first words were along the lines of "she is a figurehead for the LGBT community". No she is a role model for all women.

Callistemon21 Fri 26-Aug-22 11:57:29

No she is a role model for all women

Yes, I agree

Galaxy Fri 26-Aug-22 12:01:44

But if she had been married to a man that would have been mentioned.

grandMattie Fri 26-Aug-22 12:01:54

Very great lady. I’m a great admirer of Gertrude Bell.

Vito Fri 26-Aug-22 13:04:53

Completely agree oldwoman, I haven't heard of her before so thank you I will look her up .