Very nasty and unnecessary.
You know, I think there's maybe a bit of an age disparity among the Grans on here and maybe us slightly older GN'ers were brought up in an age where it was considered ill-mannered to make personal comments on people's appearance. And it's stayed with us. I do remember various relatives chiding me over such remarks when I was quite young. Especially if the person had some sort of affliction or distinguishing mark that singled them out from the crowd in a way they'd rather it didn't. I was simply told not to be "rude" about people. I guess it's stuck. But, I guess times change. But it still makes me wince.
And now, of course, we have social media which makes it so much easier to casually and thoughtlessly insult someone for the way they look and I think that's what gets me - the random and offhand way that such remarks are made.
Then sometimes when you object, you get told to 'lighten up' or that you're taking things too seriously, or you took the comment the "wrong way".
Maybe I'm wrong and possibly should 'lighten up' - I sometimes question my reaction and wonder if I'm just too silly about such things. Maybe the person who raised the 'question' really didn't intend any harm and anyway, Charles is not going to be reading GN comments... but I can still hear my relatives telling me not to be rude about people's looks and (a common phrase from that era) - "don't mock the afflicted". I'm not even going to speculate an answer to the OP's question because that legitimises it. I didn't even notice. All I saw was a man who looked immensely sad and serious. This was, quite obviously, a day he knew was coming and which he must have dreaded inevitable though it was - the day he lost his mother.
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What do you find yourself avoiding more as you get older?
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