The comment about people wanting her (and other royals) to embody some kind of fairy tale character is spot on. This is why poor Meghan gets it in the neck.
Is it just so one can complain about them and show off one's superiority?
When the Queen died I listened to a rendering of Pachelbel's Canon in D. It felt to me just then as if it reflected the stability of the dead queen and of what a constitutional monarchy is for.