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Pj wearers taking children to school,

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HeavenLeigh Fri 23-Sept-22 09:28:13

I live in a town, and was walking out at 8am to pick up some shopping, and while I have heard that some mums do this I’ve never actually seen it, but there in front of me three mums in full pjs walking along with their children quite happy, no coats, I felt overdressed I must admit!

biglouis Fri 23-Sept-22 16:21:40

I go around in kaftans all the time - including going out (rarely done and always by car or taxi). I just throw a coat on top. I cant remember the last time I got dressed in "proper" clothes. However I dont wear any clothes in bed and always have a shower when I wake up. At 78 I dont give a dogs damn what anyone thinks. Ive made my contribution to the community.

MissAdventure Fri 23-Sept-22 15:43:54

There are all sorts of excuses, if anyone feels the need to excuse what they do, or how they choose to present.

snowberryZ Fri 23-Sept-22 15:36:39

Height of laziness and I can't believe people are makung excuses for them
No excuse for not getting dressed.
I grew up in a really poor, deprived area. Our parents managed to get dressed in the mornings somehow.

Chestnut Fri 23-Sept-22 15:22:06

MawtheMerrier

How good it is in this world of economic crisis, war in Ukraine, nuclear threats from Putin, catastrophic floods in Pakistan and climate change, that stressing about what other people wear on the school run can still feature in anybody’s thinking. hmmhmm

It's good for our mental health to worry about the small stuff as it takes our minds off the big stuff. Who wants to think about all those massive worries when we can think about mums in pyjamas, Harry & Meghan, what's on TV, and the best way to sort through old photos. These things keep us sane.

Norah Fri 23-Sept-22 15:03:13

MawtheMerrier

How good it is in this world of economic crisis, war in Ukraine, nuclear threats from Putin, catastrophic floods in Pakistan and climate change, that stressing about what other people wear on the school run can still feature in anybody’s thinking. hmmhmm

I meant to quote Maw.

Norah Fri 23-Sept-22 15:01:37

Also - Queen's funeral, royal family, if Charles and Camilla are tired.

Callistemon21 Fri 23-Sept-22 14:58:11

? Cheers ?

GrannyGravy13 Fri 23-Sept-22 14:55:02

Callistemon21

GrannyGravy you deserve a medal!

Ha Ha, the now not so little rascals have turned me to drink ??

Millie22 Fri 23-Sept-22 14:52:23

Oh I do love a thread about loungewear/pj's/any other early morning attire.

Several weeks since the last one.

Callistemon21 Fri 23-Sept-22 14:49:44

GrannyGravy you deserve a medal!

GrannyGravy13 Fri 23-Sept-22 14:44:38

In all honesty I was often surprised that I got the right children at the right school with all their relevant accoutrements. Even on the day when there was a teacher training day and they shouldn’t have been there ???? (they will never let me forget that one)

In hindsight I have no idea how I coped, or indeed how our business survived

MissAdventure Fri 23-Sept-22 14:38:18

Because the teachers are at work.
I know several who wear pjs to take their own children to school.

aonk Fri 23-Sept-22 14:35:45

It does matter what parents wear to take their children to school. After all you won’t find the teachers in their pyjamas. Nightwear is for night time. Onesies are for babies and young children.

Callistemon21 Fri 23-Sept-22 14:28:21

GrannyGravy13

I will put my hands up and admit that with a newborn baby and older children to get to school I frequently through my coat over my night wear, threw them all in the car and jut opened the door outside the appropriate school and deposited them as close as possible. This was repeated with the youngest two of the five,

I would then go home shower, feed baby (again) and get myself into the office along with all the paraphernalia needed for baby, it really was work, sleep repeat for several years.

I didn't have a car and it was a long way to walk to school, pushing a pram.

So yes, I got dressed. After all, one had to keep up standards in Richmond-upon-Thames wink

GrannyGravy13 Fri 23-Sept-22 13:56:15

….car

GrannyGravy13 Fri 23-Sept-22 13:55:54

Oh dear, I have driven to collect the children from school with rollers in. In my defence I never got out of the

welbeck Fri 23-Sept-22 13:49:32

why were you dismayed to see women out in the street in rollers and hairnets, esp as a child ?
was that some attitude your elders put into you.

Mizuna Fri 23-Sept-22 13:40:48

It doesn't worry me what parents wear on the school run. (An aside: when I worked in TV the early morning newsreader used to come into the studio in his pyjamas and put a jacket, shirt and tie over them to read the news. The viewers had no idea he had pyjama bottoms on under the desk.)

Razzamatazz Fri 23-Sept-22 13:27:14

Do you remember the women in rollers and hairnets? As a child I was always dismayed seeing them out in the street!

As for pjs, I went to meet my son in Newcastle one lunch time, and two girls were at the bus stop in the flimsiest fake satin pjs. No one gave them a second glance except me smile

HettyBetty Fri 23-Sept-22 13:26:06

I rarely wear my nightie downstairs, never mind outside. Only on Saturday mornings when I strip the bed and pop down to put the sheets in the machine before I have my shower.

Nightwear is for upstairs and sleeping. I would try hard not to judge anyone who goes out in pjs though.

Barmeyoldbat Fri 23-Sept-22 13:25:16

Agree with you Maw, what on earth does it matter, often hang my washing out in my dressing gown, take the bins out or go to the car in driveway to get something out that I have left in it all in my dressing gown and I live on a main road. But I have cleaned my teeth and had a quick wash over on getting up

MawtheMerrier Fri 23-Sept-22 13:17:32

How good it is in this world of economic crisis, war in Ukraine, nuclear threats from Putin, catastrophic floods in Pakistan and climate change, that stressing about what other people wear on the school run can still feature in anybody’s thinking. hmmhmm

GrannyGravy13 Fri 23-Sept-22 13:09:51

I will put my hands up and admit that with a newborn baby and older children to get to school I frequently through my coat over my night wear, threw them all in the car and jut opened the door outside the appropriate school and deposited them as close as possible. This was repeated with the youngest two of the five,

I would then go home shower, feed baby (again) and get myself into the office along with all the paraphernalia needed for baby, it really was work, sleep repeat for several years.

Lexisgranny Fri 23-Sept-22 13:07:25

I bought a pair of tracksuit bottoms with a sweatshirt type top in a medium weight material and when I got them home realised that they were virtually the same as pjs bought from a totally different shop some time previously. Maybe I could get away with it, if paired up with trainers! How would anyone tell?

lovebeigecardigans1955 Fri 23-Sept-22 13:06:51

I couldn't bear to go out in nightwear, even if it was just to collect get the bin. Just for my personal pride I have to be properly dressed.

No matter how bad I've felt (physically or emotionally) I must wash and dress every day. The one exception was when I had pneumonia and couldn't stop coughing for long enough to make the effort - spent six weeks lolling about on the sofa. I don't want to go through that again.