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Not cried about it for a while

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Lucca Mon 26-Sept-22 10:36:50

I’ve not cried about my terminal cancer for a while. Been trying to take things day by day and have things to look forward to. Even had a fabulous week holiday. But this weekend I spent with DS DDIL and grandchildren and it was so nice it’s brought it into focus there won’t be that many more and now I’m sitting in my car weeping . Maybe I need a GN group hug

SueDonim Mon 26-Sept-22 12:35:43

Oh Lucca. flowers I don’t think we’ve interacted that much on GN but I am truly sorry you have this knowledge that you have to carry around with you. It’s heartbreaking, no other way to describe it. Sending a gentle hug your way. Xxxx

Nannagarra Mon 26-Sept-22 12:40:20

I too want to be in this group hug, to offer support and gently wipe away your tears Lucca. Prentice says it so well.

Auntieflo Mon 26-Sept-22 12:42:30

Sending a great big hug and a PM

Greyduster Mon 26-Sept-22 12:44:28

Let it out, Lucca. No shame in a good cry. I too send you a big hug, and my every good wish.

icanhandthemback Mon 26-Sept-22 12:46:39

Oh, Lucca, that is so terribly sad, it has actually moved me to the core. I wish I had the power to change things for you but can only send you virtual heartfelt hugs from here. ❤️‍?

Sweetpeasue Mon 26-Sept-22 12:47:53

Oh Lucca. A hug is exactly what you need. I can't think words will help too much. I know I can't think of any.
Sending the biggest warmest hug ever. ?X

Chocolatelovinggran Mon 26-Sept-22 12:51:01

Nothing to add, dear GN virtual friend, except that I wish for you as many good times as possible ? x

25Avalon Mon 26-Sept-22 12:55:53

Lucca I wish it was in our remit to do more. Here is a huge hug.

Soroptimum Mon 26-Sept-22 12:56:05

Hugs and ? Lucca.

Jaxjacky Mon 26-Sept-22 12:56:15

Huge, all enveloping hug from me Lucca ❤️

Nandalot Mon 26-Sept-22 13:00:08

Big hug, Lucca.

Enid101 Mon 26-Sept-22 13:06:20

Taking things day by day and having a cry when you want sounds like a perfect way to deal with your situation. Virtual hug from me winging its way.

sodapop Mon 26-Sept-22 13:10:46

Big hug and bisous from France Lucca keep the posts coming, we all care about you on GN ?

anna7 Mon 26-Sept-22 13:14:49

Hugs from me too xx

Lucca Mon 26-Sept-22 13:16:55

Urmstongran

Lucca a big hug from me in Urmston (where you’ve been visiting it seems). I think you’re pretty awesome. No wonder you feel weepy at the thought of not being with your family. It’s perfectly understandable but that doesn’t make it any easier to bear.

Here’s my virtual hug lady ... ??

I don’t live in Urmston …that was a random message to UG ! I’m a white rose lady not a red one !

Thank you all for the messages ?❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

sukie Mon 26-Sept-22 13:24:34

oh Lucca you've touched my heart. As I send this loving hug from afar, I'm mentally wrapping you in my arms and holding you while you cry. Thank you for sharing the way you're feeling with us, this reminder of how precious all our moments are. flowers

Mrsluckhurst Mon 26-Sept-22 13:32:43

Hugs to you Luccaflowers

Esmay Mon 26-Sept-22 13:43:43

Lucca - I'm sending you a big hug .
And I'm praying for a miracle .

SusieB50 Mon 26-Sept-22 14:06:37

Lucca big hugs ((?)) for you , you are entitled to cry whenever you want

V3ra Mon 26-Sept-22 14:07:13

Your weekend with your son and his family sounds lovely and I hope you do have some more.
You will live on in their hearts and memories that's for sure.
Big hugs from me as well Lucca ??

JenniferEccles Mon 26-Sept-22 14:25:46

So sorry to hear that you are feeling so sad at the moment. It’s perfectly understandable but no easier to cope with when feelings overwhelm you.
I would like to add my hug to you too.

MrsKen33 Mon 26-Sept-22 14:29:17

The biggest ‘cwtch ’ ever Lucca. God Bless

TerriBull Mon 26-Sept-22 14:29:46

I'm so so sorry to read your post Lucca hugs and flowers

J52 Mon 26-Sept-22 14:38:38

Sending a ginormous hug to one very brave lady. ?

Jalyn Mon 26-Sept-22 14:43:09

A big hug from me too Lucca.