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When should you take down greetings cards?

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Pittcity Thu 13-Oct-22 07:28:29

We were married on my birthday. So every year we have a double lot of greetings cards.
This year we had a family gathering and so have more than usual.
My usually uncluttered lounge is very cluttered and I would like to take them down. DH wants to keep them up.
At Christmas we have 12th night but just how long should you display other cards?

HeavenLeigh Thu 13-Oct-22 21:30:20

I generally have birthday cards up 5/7 days before I take mine down,

Floradora9 Thu 13-Oct-22 21:29:26

I do not send Christmas cards and any we get are left in a pile not displayed. Birthday cards a week .

Prentice Thu 13-Oct-22 20:02:59

MawtheMerrier

Whenever you da** well please!
Your cards, your house!

Oh yes, this is so true.
If a few days is enough, or a few weeks or a month or so, it is entirely up to you.
There are no rules, thankfully.

Alioop Thu 13-Oct-22 19:26:28

Birthday cards come down the next day because my birthday is over. Christmas cards come down the day after Boxing Day along with the decorations.

Hellogirl1 Thu 13-Oct-22 15:16:49

Twelfth Night for Christmas and New Year cards, after 7 days for birthday cards.

Callistemon21 Thu 13-Oct-22 14:50:49

SunshineSally

Chardy

SunshineSally

Ooh I’m definitely on my own here ? as we leave ours up for a month!

Oh no you're not on your own, SunshineSally!
And if it's a big birthday, even longer.

Phew! ? Though I have to confess to having a wooden Mothers Day card still up from 2 years ago! Far too nice to discard ?.

I've got a wooden Mothering Sunday tag which a DGD made for me years ago still hanging up.
She insisted on writing it herself without help and she knew how to spell my name (she didn't ?)

Grannybags Thu 13-Oct-22 14:47:29

A week for birthday cards.

Christmas tree comes down on 1st January (if not before!) so the cards go then too.

Callistemon21 Thu 13-Oct-22 14:47:00

HettyBetty

If you don't like the clutter pin up some string then use some tiny craft pegs to hang them like bunting.

Yes, I'd do that.

Hang them from ribbons with tiny pegs as you might do with Christmas cards?
It would keep surfaces uncluttered.

HettyBetty Thu 13-Oct-22 14:41:38

If you don't like the clutter pin up some string then use some tiny craft pegs to hang them like bunting.

brook2704 Thu 13-Oct-22 12:25:39

About 2weeks for the regular ones but the cards from my DGC usually stay up for ages

MiniMoon Thu 13-Oct-22 11:47:41

About a week here, or as soon as I need to dust. I'm not sentimental either, so they go straight into the recycling bin.

pascal30 Thu 13-Oct-22 11:47:07

If they are very special and handmade it can be years...

SunshineSally Thu 13-Oct-22 11:46:34

Chardy

SunshineSally

Ooh I’m definitely on my own here ? as we leave ours up for a month!

Oh no you're not on your own, SunshineSally!
And if it's a big birthday, even longer.

Phew! ? Though I have to confess to having a wooden Mothers Day card still up from 2 years ago! Far too nice to discard ?.

Nightsky2 Thu 13-Oct-22 11:42:37

2 weeks or less.

Athrawes Thu 13-Oct-22 11:39:48

When I feel like it - usually when Christmas and New Year are definitely over. Birthday cards, the same. I tend to keep them though rather than throw them out

Kim19 Thu 13-Oct-22 11:09:34

Your birthday. Your cards to do with as you wish. The anniversary is negotiable I guess. However that's a very encouraging get out when you say your husband won't notice their absence.

Farmor15 Thu 13-Oct-22 10:42:22

Often till the next celebration - so it might be months! Apart from Christmas cards.

paddyann54 Thu 13-Oct-22 10:40:06

Until the day after the birthday ,then they go in the box for GD's school who use them for crafting .I'm not sentimental about stuff like that ,I usually tell folk no cards or presents .If they want to give stick some cash in a charity box

Kalu Thu 13-Oct-22 10:35:08

Whenever I feel they have served their purpose. Special ones are put away in my treasure box, the oldest being my mother’s first valentine card from my father. It’s beautiful.

Granmarderby10 Thu 13-Oct-22 10:15:39

Pittcity you do what ever you want to do in your own? ?

I don’t understand how greetings cards that are sending good wishes and love etc - could be considered as clutter. ..really?
I think they are rather lovely especially from children.

Greenfinch Thu 13-Oct-22 10:09:25

Five of us live here so cards up for much of the year. They come down when the next event occurs. We start with Mother’s Day in March followed by DS in April, then 2 grandchildren in May, Father’s Day in June,DH in July, Wedding Anniversary early August followed by my birthday in the middle of the month. We then have none up until the Christmas cards start arriving. I love having them up. It feels like a celebration.

gillgran Thu 13-Oct-22 10:06:33

Pittcity, belated Birthday & Anniversary Wishes to you & your DH.

At Christmas we take down all decs. & cards by 12th night.

For others I leave them as long as possible, I feel if folk bother to remember, buy & give/send cards to me/us, I should display for a decent time.
Also I don't have to dust...!! wink.
(We are rather a cluttered house, but today we are starting to clear our sitting room ready for the decorator next week).

Witzend Thu 13-Oct-22 09:47:41

Dh had a big birthday a few days ago - lots of cards on top of the piano. I’ll leave them for a couple of weeks, which will save me dusting it - they’re taking up all the space not already taken by photos of Gdcs.

I blu-tack all Christmas cards to sundry painted surfaces - that works well here. They all come down on 6th January.

Jaxjacky Thu 13-Oct-22 09:45:59

About 10 days, then in the recycling, apart from Christmas ones which stay up with the tree and other decorations.

Chardy Thu 13-Oct-22 09:38:58

SunshineSally

Ooh I’m definitely on my own here ? as we leave ours up for a month!

Oh no you're not on your own, SunshineSally!
And if it's a big birthday, even longer.