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Feeling out of step?

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MawtheMerrier Tue 15-Nov-22 11:26:54

Bless me GN I cannot tell a lie but speaking from a distinctly minority position it seems I must confess the following GN sins-
I like Joules (also Seasalt, White Stuff, Boden and Emma Bridgewater, but have gone off Hotter) and I take exception to my style choices bring disparaged as frumpy
I still consult Delia, Nigella and Jamie-also Katie Stewart
I would not have Bisto in my kitchen - there are excellent stocks in sachets in the supermarket, including turkey
I don’t care for turkey anyway , would rather have a couple of ribs of beef
I hate Tesco and never shop there either in person or on line so I was happy to snooze through the wee small hours, as well as the big ones
I won’t even give a thought to Christmas decs until 10 days before the Day, and that’s only because I am having the whole extended family here on the 18 th, otherwise that would be “decorating” weekend
So as I said, clearly in a minority of one but I take comfort in the Scottish saying “They’re a’ oot o’ step except puir wee Jock”

Katyj Tue 15-Nov-22 15:50:51

Well if your out of step I certainly am ! I’m also out of the loop whatever that means 🤣

Farzanah Tue 15-Nov-22 15:43:00

I’m with you on gravy SueD Went out for Sunday lunch on holiday and the meal came floating in gravy. Couldn’t eat a bite.
I always imagine Hotter shoes with the Velcro fastenings I used to get for my mum. I know they don’t all have them. I buy some travel clothing from Rohan, and horror of horrors, they have replaced Eco with Hotter shoes…… Apologies to Hotter fans.

SueDonim Tue 15-Nov-22 15:34:22

I don’t like gravy, be it Bisto or loving hand-made from carefully curated ingredients. The smell of stock makes me 🤢

GrannyGravy13 Tue 15-Nov-22 15:31:12

Just realised another 50% of my wardrobe is from Boden 😱

GrannyGravy13 Tue 15-Nov-22 15:29:05

I think I have always been a little out of step

Have never looked at Hotter shoes.

Really dislike Tesco’s

Turkey is one of my favourite meats.

Callistemon21 Tue 15-Nov-22 15:05:32

Is there any insult more potent than being told you look frumpy or your taste in shops is frumpy?

Is it ok if you admit it yourself?

Callistemon21 Tue 15-Nov-22 15:02:46

As long as you do exactly what Delia tells you, everything will be fine 😬

Yes! Although I still can't boil eggs!

Sometimes I defect to Mary or the Hairy Bikers, just to liven things up.

I don't like the Bisto gravy granules although the powder is ok in moderation.
You can buy organic frozen stock.
I've given up making my own.

I do like turkey but no-one else does and I couldn't eat a whole one.

I don't mind Tesco (hangs head in shame). They helped when no other supermarkets could and the staff at our local one are friendly.

I'm frumpy. 😁

MawtheMerrier Tue 15-Nov-22 14:11:40

Tee hee M0nica know the feeling! grin😈

M0nica Tue 15-Nov-22 13:51:33

Dare I admit, that when I see a thread where everyone agrees, there is nothing I enjoy more than posting an alternative view.

mrshat Tue 15-Nov-22 13:48:48

I'm with you Maw on most of your opinions! I do still like HOTTER! Comfort is all. Christmas decs I can leave unless I am hosting! Live and let live, I say! Just enjoy yourself your way.

Sarah74 Tue 15-Nov-22 13:44:39

I think it would be a bit weird if there was a big majority on GN who liked a particular clothing brand or type of food or whatever. There seems to be a fairly wide age range on GN (? 45-90) with people from different countries, different backgrounds, different ideas.

MawtheMerrier Tue 15-Nov-22 13:43:33

No, of course I’m not bovvered!
(If I was I’d duck down and keep quiet.)
Just pleased that others have felt able to agree and disagree on choices, sometimes a thread can be too much a case of everybody appearing to be on the same bandwagonsmile

Oreo Tue 15-Nov-22 13:41:08

I love Christmas and will put the decs up on 1st Dec but understand other people have different views.

Oreo Tue 15-Nov-22 13:39:11

Does it bother you MawTheMerrier ?
So what if more people don’t like Joules clothes than you thought, you likely as not don’t like the ones they do.
Make your mantra ‘I don’t care what other people think’ makes life a whole lot easier.

Iam64 Tue 15-Nov-22 13:23:43

I’m happy to be ‘out of step’. I’m with you on likes maw. I’m sorry about Hotter and Ecco - limits my choices

nexus63 Tue 15-Nov-22 13:18:51

i am very out of step, probably have been my whole life....i hate christmas, arguing with my son to go to his for christmas day, have not put a tree or decorations up for years, never use bisto as i very seldom have hot food, christmas dinner will be sandwiches and salad sitting in my pjs, i will not be doing a "christmas shop", will give christmas cards to neighbours who give me one and they will sit in a pile on the unit, please understand i am not an unhappy old scrooge, i just don't see the point in all the fuss.....so to all the gn....bah humbug..lol

kittylester Tue 15-Nov-22 13:06:06

I agree with most of what you say Maw though I had gone off Joules. I do use lazy garlic but not Bisto. I love the ritual of making gravy by deglazing the pan with wine and then gently reducing it with stock to the right consistency.

Blondiescot Tue 15-Nov-22 13:00:29

I'm been out of step all my life, so nothing new there! You do you, Maw!

Blossoming Tue 15-Nov-22 12:43:01

Oh Lathyrus please start that thread!

dragonfly46 Tue 15-Nov-22 12:42:14

I too agree with everything you do Maw except I am a great believer in Gravy granules. I love being able to make gravy with my boiler tap at the last minute after serving up the dinner and washing up the pans!

After all how are they different from Lazy garlic etc which btw I do not use!

Blossoming Tue 15-Nov-22 12:39:52

Maw I don’t think you’re at all frumpy and I’m grateful for you introducing me to the wonderful eBay Seasalt outlet!

Christmas decorations only come out on the Sunday before Christmas.

Kate1949 Tue 15-Nov-22 12:27:20

No Christmas decorations here until a week before Christmas. I've never been interested in 'things'. Material things I mean - bigger houses, posher cars etc. I'm not competitive or ambitious in any way.
We get ribbed by family for loving Wetherspoons. Lunch and a large glass of wine for two people about £14. What's not to like?
I do love Bisto gravy granules though. Only since the lovely James Martin said his mum makes great gravy with them on the hob. He showed us how and it's great.

henetha Tue 15-Nov-22 12:17:52

It's being different that makes the world interesting. Imagine if we were all just clones of each other.
I've always felt out of sync with everyone else anyway. We should all do/wear what we want as long as it doesn't hurt others.

Farzanah Tue 15-Nov-22 12:15:11

I would hate to fit in.
What I do find tricky as a grandparent is listening other doting gp’s. I love my family, but am not as embroiled in their lives as others seem to be. We have our own lives and interests and meet up every few months when we are all free.

Lathyrus Tue 15-Nov-22 12:13:11

Can we have a discussion about what frumpy is?

Or shall I start a different thread about it?