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Just made a total bloomer, how to resolve.....

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hazel93 Sun 11-Dec-22 14:52:03

Long story short, so many deliveries for Christmas at the mo. I simply assume they are as I ordered so open them ready to gift wrap. Simple, or so I thought .......
DH abroad until the 23rd. and never, ever in the last 40 odd years has he bought any presents for family etc. , my job, so happily opened the last arrival. Oh shit, it is obviously his gift to me !! Answers on a postcard please !

hazel93 Sun 11-Dec-22 17:40:31

Having lived with him for decades I think I can safely say it is meant for me. How is a telescope "too specific " exactly ? Hands up how many of you have bought a telescope in the last few decades ?
Not quite the same as Hotel Chocolat I feel, which I love.Enjoy

Grammaretto Sun 11-Dec-22 18:14:03

Ah well you have now explained that he knew you are "into" astronomy.
Ok so no answer apart from it wouldn't have bothered me one bit to have no surprise at Christmas.

jenpax Sun 11-Dec-22 20:02:55

Tell him it was delivered to a neighbour who opened it in error and re wrapped it and dropped it round 🤭

Fleurpepper Sun 11-Dec-22 20:26:02

Grannybags

Wrap it back up and look innocent!

At least if it's something you don't like you'll have your 'just what I always wanted' face ready!

This - simple!

Blossoming Sun 11-Dec-22 20:34:35

Hands up how many of you have bought a telescope in the last few decades ?

Me! I bought a small spotting scope to keep in the car, mainly for birds and wildlife but can be handy for the night skies too.

I also bought a pair of very large binoculars like those used by coastguard and RNLI. Fabulous for sea watching and star gazing. Have to be used on a tripod but they are brilliant.

Normandygirl Sun 11-Dec-22 23:14:16

My DH wouldn't have a clue how an amazon parcel was packaged in the first place tbh. I could wrap it up again, slap some parcel tape on it and he wouldn't be any the wiser. smile

Hetty58 Mon 12-Dec-22 00:01:41

A takeaway was delivered - and, as my daughter's family are staying here, I assumed it was ours. Luckily, having got the plates ready, just in time - I noticed the label, for next door! So very nearly a bloomer here too.

Wyllow3 Mon 12-Dec-22 00:02:09

winterwhite

Could you say you put amazon brown paper round it and then say you half opened it before spotting that it wasn't addressed to you so did it back up again as best you could. No mentioning telescopes.
On the side of the white lie here.

I'd go for this one or version of:

Come clean on the phone - was just opening the lot, accident opening, total delighted, over the moon, (geddit?) terribly sorry etc, looking forward to using it together, etc etc

and you might something nice from the tax free too.

nanna8 Mon 12-Dec-22 00:09:10

Definitely wrap it up again. Trust me, he won’t notice. Anyway, round here the customs people check most parcels, unwrap them and rewrap them so maybe that is what happened with yours ?😇

Dickens Mon 12-Dec-22 09:35:48

hazel93

Thanks all , still having a chuckle !
Weird thing is since we moved to Cornwall earlier in the year we have been really busy and I said one evening "Look at all that sky around us, it's amazing, I can actually see Ursa Major , the Plough etc. " Didn't think he was really listening but he obviously was, think he could be a keeper !

... eek!

Do you think it possible the telescope is a gift from him to himself? Or for both of you?

The reason I thought this is because I'm sitting here looking at a telescope lying carefully on the sofa - my partner bought it some time ago as he's keen on sky-gazing. He puts it on the sofa so that it doesn't get knocked over.

You must let us know the outcome!

hazel93 Mon 12-Dec-22 09:57:23

This was meant to be a frivolous post ! Simply a chat - of course I will pretend, no chance of telling the truth. Much the same as the look on his face when I say "Does my bum look big in this " .

Squiffy Mon 12-Dec-22 10:10:22

Much the same as the look on his face when I say "Does my bum look big in this

Depends which way round he looks through the telescope?! wink grin

pascal30 Mon 12-Dec-22 10:20:05

Lucky you... I'd just use it til he gets back.. the sky must be amazing at the moment

nadateturbe Mon 12-Dec-22 11:22:00

Squiffy

^Much the same as the look on his face when I say "Does my bum look big in this^

Depends which way round he looks through the telescope?! wink grin

😁

Notyetagran46 Mon 12-Dec-22 11:23:29

My husband and sons would have prewarned me.
As suggested, rewrap it and look surprised when you open it.
I’m sure he won’t know you’ve already seen it.

Gingster Mon 12-Dec-22 11:23:55

Of course you would open it, as you’re the only one who orders presents. Silly him to have it delivered to your home

GrammarGrandma Mon 12-Dec-22 11:24:02

Whose name was on the parcel, his or yours?

Bea0802 Mon 12-Dec-22 11:32:05

Amazon gift wrap if you check a box. Gift wrap it and say to him that as it didn't have a tag wondered who it was for? So didn't want to undo the wrapping in case he knew. Very innocently of course.

Mouse Mon 12-Dec-22 11:33:21

I recently spoiled a planned surprise for me. I mentioned a book I really wanted to my daughter. Then it popped up in my feed with £5 off. Of course I bought it. My daughter is very cross as she had intended to surprise me with it for Christmas. I honestly never gave it a thought.

oldeman Mon 12-Dec-22 11:42:41

Just wrap it back up and pretend you didn't open it. If you don't like what he bought you, change the label to someone elses name so he feels guilty and buys you something else LOL.

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE.

enabenn Mon 12-Dec-22 11:50:13

Honesty is the best option. Silly thing to lie about.

hazel93 Mon 12-Dec-22 11:51:21

Well, I didn't look , simply assumed it would be something I had ordered. The package was obviously long and narrow but , and this is so naff, had ordered a couple of those rattan LED reindeers for outside , the stag arrived without his antlers so once mailed to say missing part on its way I simply thought that was it !
Antlers arrived later same day !

JLR1220 Mon 12-Dec-22 12:04:01

Tell him what happened. Maybe he bought it for himself.

Cossy Mon 12-Dec-22 12:04:14

I’d re-wrap as suggested with lots of tape, fib a bit and say damaged in transit and then enjoy it n Xmas day !!

Rosiestocks Mon 12-Dec-22 12:06:09

I'm with Normandygirl. My DH certainly wouldn't notice the details of an Amazon parcel, or anyone else's. As long as it looked like an unopened parcel he wouldn't give it a thought; but then he doesn't order much (he gets DS2 to do if for him). Good luck whatever you do.