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BlueBelle Sun 18-Dec-22 14:45:28

I have new neighbours moving in this week I know the family and they are decent people but I m in a bit of a pickle the lady has just come to ask me as they can’t get their wifi put on until after Christmas and have children could they I use my password for a couple of weeks and they d willingly pay me to do that I d feel terrible to say no but will it make any difference to my plan (which is wifi only with a landline but as long as I don’t use the landline for outgoing calls I pay no extra)
Hope this makes sense
On the whole I can get by technically but not very clever about all the out of normal stuff

Marydoll Tue 20-Dec-22 21:00:26

You will be bald BB by the time this thread peters out.

BlueBelle Tue 20-Dec-22 20:46:06

Pulls hair out

MamaB247 Tue 20-Dec-22 20:41:12

Just tell them you only have a basic internet access it's not unlimited WiFi and your on the cheaper deal because you only use it when needed and when you've asked BT for advise they've advised you'd not be able to use much more than what you are using as your on a particular deal. Tell her you only get 500mb a month .

Marydoll Tue 20-Dec-22 20:00:40

BlueBelle

Thanks everyone but it is all done and dusted as I stated before ….by all means carry on talking about internet but please DONT give me any more advice I ve done what I needed to do and agreed with the advise of the majority on here
Thanks again

Why doe no-one read, what BlueBelle has already posted?
She has already dealt with the situation.

Shizam Tue 20-Dec-22 19:58:10

You can buy a temporary wifi package I believe. A dongle or something like that? They can visit somewhere like currys to sort. If that fails, they can have an old-fashioned Christmas. We did survive without it back in the day quite successfully!
Do not share your password. It’s the first rule of online world, as warnings about scams and spams keep telling us. So just say, sorry, I can’t do that.

Fudgemonkey Tue 20-Dec-22 19:19:29

Change the password afterwards though

BlueBelle Tue 20-Dec-22 19:10:25

Thanks everyone but it is all done and dusted as I stated before ….by all means carry on talking about internet but please DONT give me any more advice I ve done what I needed to do and agreed with the advise of the majority on here
Thanks again

Kelsey1964 Tue 20-Dec-22 19:01:33

I haven't read through all the replies so someone may have suggested this but on most modern routers you can set up a guest network with a separate ID name and password that can't access any of your devices on your main network, I haven't a clue how to do it just a suggestion by my partner who is tech savvy, maybe a friend or relative could help

RillaofIngleside Tue 20-Dec-22 18:42:13

You really should not let them use your WiFi. They could download porn or worse and there is a security risk to your banking and other personal information. I'm afraid it should be a polite "no". Maybe they can use their own phones to tether for their own use .

Blossoming Tue 20-Dec-22 18:14:27

Gypsy it depends on your WiFi network, obviously, and you have totally missed the point about broadband usage.

ordinarygirl Tue 20-Dec-22 18:02:43

I think that the signal may be weaker when not in your home so the wifi may not actually work in the new neighbours home. can you suggest using the public library? the library usually allows a few hours free access to library members.
Alternatively you may find that local supermarkets have free wifi to customers.

buffyfly9 Tue 20-Dec-22 17:20:52

Please don't do this. There could be all sorts of problems flowing from your decision to say yes. You could end up falling out with your neighbours over maybe a dodgy download by one of the children or even one of their guests. I'd go with the nice box of chocolates idea and explain that your internet provider is not happy with the arrangement. In your laudable attempts to be a good neighbour you could end up having a row with them. !!!

LondonMzFitz Tue 20-Dec-22 17:06:37

Late to this but please say "No".

If someone asks a favour, there are two answers and the requester should expect to receive "No"; they are putting you out, they must realise this.

I work from home a great deal and there is no way I'd compromise my security / my employers security by allowing someone else - a family, indeed, and who knows how many visitors they may have in coming weeks - access to my Wifi.

"No, that doesn't work for me". Don't apologise, you've nothing to apologise for. It's a very cheeky ask.

4allweknow Tue 20-Dec-22 16:55:41

You might find you are in breach of contract allowing another household to access your internet. Companies may not be enamoured about this as someone losing business. Definitely
check with your provider. How long have the new neighbours known they would be moving. Sure services can be connected with a couple of weeks notice normally.

Jackiest Tue 20-Dec-22 16:21:03

If we all worried about the very small chance of how things could go wrong no one would ever help anyone and what a sad world that would be.

Hobbs1 Tue 20-Dec-22 16:07:54

Most TV’s have freeview and apps pre installed so they would have plenty of stuff to watch without having Wi-Fi. I may be scaremongering here and I’m not tech savvy, but if they have your password, would they be able to download films and games which would be billed to your account.

Dynawritecat Tue 20-Dec-22 16:01:55

I would say sorry but no. In fact I think it's a bit of a cheek. They can use mobile data or hotspots. You just don't know what they would be using your WiFi for. They should have come to some arrangement before this. I would never ask someone I didn't know to do this.

Marydoll Tue 20-Dec-22 15:57:48

Gypsy, Blossoming is pretty IT savvy.
You have totally missed the point about internet security and possibly compromising BB's account with questionable accessing dodgy sites or downloads.
Nothing at all to do to do with broadband speeds.

Gypsy Tue 20-Dec-22 15:41:40

@blossoming. There's 5 people living in my house. We have 3 smart TVs and a Sky box with 2 minis and a booster. We all have mobile phones, we all have laptops. There's blu ray players, dvd recorders, all with smart capabilities. If anyone should have WiFi / router difficulties, it should be us. All fine

Nannashirlz Tue 20-Dec-22 15:41:15

If your neighbor got kids they could be gaming etc which does use a lot of data If you don’t want to offend your new neighbors why don’t you tell them you only have a basic plan and are limited and unfortunately you can’t help them. Personal I’d never dream of asking anyone for their passwords or if could use their broadband etc

Marydoll Tue 20-Dec-22 15:40:31

Words fail me!

How many have come on here and not read the whole thread and the information given by those of us, who actually know what we are talking about.
I need to withdraw, I'm getting ratty at some of the irresponsible advice given. advice given by posters.

Gypsy Tue 20-Dec-22 15:32:58

Change your password. Say, "Howdy Neighbour, please feel free to use our WiFi and have a lovely Christmas". Have a great Christmas yourself and change the password back afterwards.

Caleo Tue 20-Dec-22 15:22:18

I used to know two individuals who refused requests as if the requests were faintly humorous. My friends, one my old headmistress, and one a world wise old man, were able to dismiss unwise or unwanted ideas with a light -hearted smile.

Blossoming Tue 20-Dec-22 15:12:14

Just to correct a misunderstanding.

Usually WiFi is unlimited as long as you have a router so it won't cost you anything extra

Not true, many routers have a limit on the number of devices that are allowed to be connected to a WiFi network. Also, the purpose of a router is to connect you to Broadband and very few contracts will allow you unlimited broadband. Those that do allow it are expensive. If you (or they) go over your limit you will be charged extra.

There are also the security aspects as mentioned above.

My advice, in words of one syllable, is don’t do it.

Dempie55 Tue 20-Dec-22 14:57:41

100% you should say no to this. Never give your Wifi password to anyone. You have no idea what they might be looking at, and it's just such a bad security risk.

I would tell new neighbours you've taken advice from your provider and they have told you it would be against the terms of your contract, so you sadly have to say no.