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Using your intelligence in a bus queue situation

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biglouis Wed 21-Dec-22 11:58:36

This account was on mumsnet and the responses intrigued me:-
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After picking my child up from her child minder today, I arrived the bus stop to find two women with buggies waiting.

Knowing that the driver wouldn’t let three of us on, I walked round the corner to the previous stop and got on there.

When it arrived at the next stop, sure enough only mum was allowed on - the other was told to wait 30 minutes for the next bus. I was screamed at and called a cunt and a queue jumper by one mum who tried to shove me off the bus.

I don’t think I did anything wrong, nor did the police when they turned up after being called by the driver.

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I dont feel this OP did anything wrong, mean or sly. She used her initiative in a way that I have often done in some similar situations.

When I worked alternate saturdays in Liverpool as a girl I was 2 stops on from the football ground on the weeks they played at home. Buses arrived full and there was a real scrum at the bus stop. Football fans can be very rough. I used to travel 3 stops in the opposite direction and transfer to a nearly empty bus at a stop just before the stadium. So I was already on the bus before the crowds of fans.

Do you think the OP behaved sneakily or strategically?

Delila Thu 22-Dec-22 14:53:10

All things considered, it was just a gamble and not an intelligent one. She took a chance, and it succeeded, but could just as easily have resulted in her being further from her destination and finding that others were ahead of her again. In doing what she did she knowingly placed others at a disadvantage, so there’s nothing much to admire about her action.