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biglouis Tue 03-Jan-23 13:22:50

There was recently a thread on MN where posters expressed the view that using sh**t and f**k were ridiculous and there was nothing wrong with the actual words.

Probably most of us use swear words in moments of stress or anger, including stubbed toes and banged elbows. However I was brought up to believe that people who expressed themselves mostly by swearing showed a poor vocabulary and lack of intelligence.

Mostly I steer clear of people who are constantly effing and blinding. My father worked on the Liverpool docks as a young man and I never once heard him use the F word.

Callistemon21 Thu 05-Jan-23 19:43:14

JaneJudge

the funniest thing about this thread is the silent nigel slater video but I don't know if everyone else can see it grin

Ive got 'How to make Easy Arancini'

How did she know I'd planned that for Saturday dinner? 😲

VioletSky Thu 05-Jan-23 19:42:32

I always roll a double 1

volver Thu 05-Jan-23 19:36:41

Aye, have a go. wink flowers

VioletSky Thu 05-Jan-23 19:34:52

My turn?

volver Thu 05-Jan-23 19:32:00

GN goes into meltdown, people leave en masse, the end of the world is nigh. 😱 🤣

volver Thu 05-Jan-23 19:31:02

Wibble.

JaneJudge Thu 05-Jan-23 19:25:48

Yammy

No, I haven't got Nigel Slater I've got Tips for getting your kids creative. With their language maybe?

why are we all getting different adverts? I've got him folding his arms and talking but I can't him as I'm on mute I've also had an unfortunate ear accident today blush

Witzend Thu 05-Jan-23 19:22:53

I suppose I was very badly brung up, re swearing. We frequently heard it in our house, from my father anyway, though never the F or the C word. And he was considered posh by many people, going by his voice, anyway.

Bloody and bugger were more or less everyday language, and we regularly used to hear loud, rolling, alliterative curses, when e.g. he was unable to find something in the cupboard under the stairs. ‘Crap and corruption! Shit and seduction!’ etc.

My mother would pretend to tut-tut, saying, ‘Really, John!’* but she’d be laughing underneath. She put it down to 6 years of WW2 in the RN - I never once heard either of his parents say anything stronger than ‘Blast!’

*Not his real name.

Yammy Thu 05-Jan-23 19:22:46

No, I haven't got Nigel Slater I've got Tips for getting your kids creative. With their language maybe?

Yammy Thu 05-Jan-23 19:19:51

VioletSky

Yammy of you have a personal problem with someone, why not discuss with them in PM?

To other readers this just looks like an unnecessary personal attack

Do you mean yourself violet sky and what most people would consider uncouth language that you see nothing wrong in saying or writing? I can tell you in a PM what I think about your language if you want me to.What would you think if you had a child or grandchild who repeated it at school or somewhere else public?
It might look like a personal attack I consider it retaliation for nearly every stream being spoiled by a certain person's vitriolic comments that have gone on for years.

JaneJudge Thu 05-Jan-23 19:13:43

the funniest thing about this thread is the silent nigel slater video but I don't know if everyone else can see it grin

VioletSky Thu 05-Jan-23 19:12:23

Shh

Yammy Thu 05-Jan-23 19:10:25

volver

I don't want PMs from certain people. I will block.

You've got your answer violet Sky.

Kryptonite Thu 05-Jan-23 19:04:46

Miriam Margolis is one to be wary of. She can be hilarious but spoiled the episode of Australia the other night with her foul mouth. Not suitable for my mum after all. 😒

VioletSky Thu 05-Jan-23 18:57:44

I guess I'm not a lady

Chestnut Thu 05-Jan-23 18:49:32

For the same reason we talk about 'the F word' instead of saying it out loud. We are ladies.

JaneJudge Thu 05-Jan-23 18:28:10

I know right? grin

VioletSky Thu 05-Jan-23 18:12:43

When it comes to swearing , this is onething I really truly do not understand?

I don't see the difference between typing fuck and typing f**k

Isn't it realistically the exact same thing?

Why do we do that?

Chestnut Thu 05-Jan-23 18:07:42

biglouis It was the time when Philby and Maclean had defected and the news was full of it. One day while watching TV I casually remarked to my mother that they had f****d off to Russia.
Another wonderful story! Thanks for a good laugh. 😂

Romola Thu 05-Jan-23 18:02:15

A brainy German boy I knew was staying with an Anglican vicar's family for some months to learn English.
One day at lunch he enquired of the vicar "Is Kant well-known in Britain?" Well of course he pronounced it in the German way and the children could hardly contain themselves. But the vicar, without losing a beat, and glaring at his children, merely responded: "You are referring to the 18th-century philosopher of the enlightenment."
(Brainy German boy did become a distinguished professor.)

Chestnut Thu 05-Jan-23 18:01:45

Let's get back to swearing! 🤭
After all, that is what the thread is about.

VioletSky Thu 05-Jan-23 17:55:24

Blocking would be a definitive response

So tired of all the personal stuff on threads lately

volver Thu 05-Jan-23 17:53:24

I don't want PMs from certain people. I will block.

VioletSky Thu 05-Jan-23 17:51:49

Yammy of you have a personal problem with someone, why not discuss with them in PM?

To other readers this just looks like an unnecessary personal attack

Yammy Thu 05-Jan-23 17:46:49

volver

I only post on the threads where I have something to say.

I tend not to make the kinds of posts that say "ohh, you're so right xxx! I definitely agree with you!" Doesn't make for good discussion, I find.

I posted positively about Happy Valley recently, I think...

"I only post on ones where I have something to say......"
which is nearly every post and most of your posts are critical. You have posted positively on so few posts that you can remember them and admit it.