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Lucca Sun 12-Feb-23 20:02:07

Been in hospital for two weeks and noticed a couple things. One : husbands /OHs. Visiting “ I couldn’t find thatblue coat . Is this it ?

Urmstongran Sun 12-Feb-23 20:03:59

❤️ it Lucca!
I’m sorry to hear you’re in hospital though. x

Lucca Sun 12-Feb-23 20:04:53

“Where is your hairbrush ?”
“What should I do with those ripe bananas ?
“What tartan slippers ?

Lucca Sun 12-Feb-23 20:12:50

Also different working styles among the medical staff.

“ I’ll be back in a minute with the commode” I.e. 15 minutes..by which time too late possibly for the poor woman.

Or the “ I’ll be back in a minute “ and means it.

“ yes we”ll give you a wash soon… maybe this afternoon “

“Yes why dont we give you a wash right now and fit in another two before lunch !

Grannybags Sun 12-Feb-23 20:15:53

That made me laugh Lucca as my husband has been in hospital for the past two weeks and it's been me trying to find everything he's needed. I managed ok with clothes but it was all the gizmos he suddenly decided he couldn't live without along with the chargers - none of which were where he said they'd be!

Sorry to hear you've been in hospital flowers

GrannyGravy13 Sun 12-Feb-23 20:17:03

Lucca sorry you are in hospital sending (((hugs)))

Grannybags Sun 12-Feb-23 20:21:38

Also a lot of 'this is what's going to happen today/tomorrow' which OH would mentally prepare himself for. Then a change of shifts when the next lot would come in with different ideas of what was going to happen!

kittylester Sun 12-Feb-23 20:23:44

Sending love Lucca.

GagaJo Sun 12-Feb-23 20:27:13

Lucca, how are you doing? Is it an open ward?

I'm thinking of you and hoping you're comfortable and that you have the company of those you love.

Germanshepherdsmum Sun 12-Feb-23 20:43:52

Sorry to hear you’re in hospital, I’ve missed you. x

Urmstongran Sun 12-Feb-23 20:48:14

Has the bedtime drinks trolley been round Lucca?
“Horlicks, please”.
Or is that a thing of the past?

Do you still get woken up at 6am while it’s still dark?
🤣

SueDonim Sun 12-Feb-23 20:51:51

I’m sorry you’re in hospital, Lucca and hope you can escape soon. flowers

Your dh’s efforts seems consistent with how my dh operates. I got whisked into hospital with acute appendicitis, many years ago. I asked Dh to bring me a wash bag, including face flannels. He brought in some dish cloths and rather grey ones at that! confused grin

As for the way wards do things - only believe what they say when it happens! wink. I know hospitals are hard-pushed in many ways nowadays but it’s quite discombobulating for patients when things don’t happen as expected.

Lucca Sun 12-Feb-23 21:15:56

It’s all quite amusing except when it’s not !

Lucca Sun 12-Feb-23 21:17:59

No Horlicks UG but lots of tea . I’m the only one on ward who can walk and shower myself quite sad teally

Lucca Sun 12-Feb-23 21:19:04

Then you have the night time wailers …

Lucca Sun 12-Feb-23 21:20:11

We had one who said same four things from 3 am to 11 am…

Urmstongran Sun 12-Feb-23 21:21:37

Aw Lucca yes that is sad that you’re the only mobile patient. I bet you get called upon to help sometimes, because you’re ‘just passing’.

Have you got stuff to read to pass the time? If not, what helps best? x

Urmstongran Sun 12-Feb-23 21:23:00

That must be distressing and exhausting in equal measure.
Would ear plugs help?

Lucca Sun 12-Feb-23 21:23:58

Urmstongran

That must be distressing and exhausting in equal measure.
Would ear plugs help?

Yes got some then they moved her

Lucca Sun 12-Feb-23 21:25:23

No1 son coming from Oz for three weeks to look after me ! 🥰

Lucca Sun 12-Feb-23 21:26:54

Urmstongran

Aw Lucca yes that is sad that you’re the only mobile patient. I bet you get called upon to help sometimes, because you’re ‘just passing’.

Have you got stuff to read to pass the time? If not, what helps best? x

Watched a load of downton.. I don’t even like it apart from the gorgeous dresses!!

Callistemon21 Sun 12-Feb-23 21:31:39

"Did you bring my charger"
"No, you had it already"
"Oh, must be on the last ward I was on"
No wonder the hospital can offer a choice of chargers! 🙂

It's the flabby, bendy toast for breakfast too. 🤔

Sending best wishes, Lucca

Jaxjacky Sun 12-Feb-23 21:58:49

Tough times Lucca with side entertainment.x

JenniferEccles Sun 12-Feb-23 22:45:17

Hello Lucca. I had noticed you hadn’t been posting for a while, but I am sorry to hear you are in hospital.
I hope you will be released soon.
Hospitals aren’t the most restful places are they?

V3ra Sun 12-Feb-23 23:08:52

Thinking of you Lucca.
It can't be easy but I hope it's helping.
Lovely news about your son coming home for you 😊