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World book day in schools…more money for parents to spend.

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Sago Thu 02-Mar-23 16:45:20

Today is world book day our lovely granddaughter wanted to go as Dolly Parton, she loves her “ Little People Big Dreams “ books and Dolly is her heroine😬.
There are obviously 2 huge reasons why my daughter didn’t allow her to go dressed as Dolly😬.
The compromise was Frida Kahlo, but there is no such thing as a Frida costume so my daughter used her imagination.
Granddaughter was in tears because she says she will be the only one not in a costume from a costume shop!
Of course she won’t be🤞.
Should schools find another way of promoting the day without parents having to splash out on costumes?
IMHO they should home made/improvised only!

Chestnut Thu 02-Mar-23 16:55:32

My daughter was up last night making Room on the Broom things so her daughter would be dressed up nicely. In this day and age with parents working their socks off and very short of cash I think it's wrong they are expected to do any dressing up. They either have to spend money buying something or spend time making something, both of which they are probably short of.

Beechnut Thu 02-Mar-23 16:58:31

I prefer homemade/improvised and it was something I enjoyed doing for my daughter (and still do as old as she is). Her first outfit for WBD was Peter Pan. I made it out of an old crimpline dress of my mums and a friend I had at the time was quite snotty with me over it.

Deedaa Thu 02-Mar-23 17:08:03

My grandson was dressing a potato as a book character. He wanted to do the Hogwarts Express (character?) but ran out of red card. His second choice was Aslan who turned out very well although more like a kitten than a lion. Certainly cheaper than dressing a child.

Chestnut Thu 02-Mar-23 17:11:42

Just seen this which has to be the winner! 😂😂😂

Zoejory Thu 02-Mar-23 17:12:43

Chestnut

Just seen this which has to be the winner! 😂😂😂

I was just about to post that, Chestnut!

Hilarious. smile

Sago Thu 02-Mar-23 17:16:22

Daughters friends son went as Jeremy Clarkson, he was told not to mention Meghan Markle😬

Grandmabatty Thu 02-Mar-23 17:21:01

Many schools have opted for other ways of celebrating World Book Day. They recognise that in a cost of living crisis it's inappropriate to ask parents to spend money on shop bought costumes. My grandson's nursery said they could take in a book and he took his favourite in which the teacher read to his group. Others wore homemade costumes. If parents are spending money they can't afford or sewing into the small hours, they are setting unattainable standards for themselves.

pinkprincess Thu 02-Mar-23 19:47:25

When my youngest granddaughter was in primary school, she won Word Book Day two years running much to the annoyance of other parents.
Her dad, my DS2, made up the idea for both of her costumes which were home made. This was after she had , in previous years, gone as one of the Disney princesses, one of the many in the school.

LadyHonoriaDedlock Thu 02-Mar-23 20:02:04

A few years ago I was walking past an urban primary school on what happened to be World Book Day. It was playtime, and one little girl dressed as a Disney princess was not only playing football with the lads but giving as good as she got and then some.

I'd have loved to have taken a photo but of course there are times you just can't, and this was one of them. I just have to describe it in words. And good for her!

V3ra Thu 02-Mar-23 20:03:51

One local school told the children to come in their pyjamas today, presumably along the lines of "a bedtime story."
The headmaster was at the gates dressed up as The Tiger Who Came to Tea, and having photos taken with the children.
He looked amazing!

Georgesgran Thu 02-Mar-23 20:59:23

Yes - DGS1’s school had a go to school in pyjama day and take along a favourite soft too. It would help those parents strapped for either cash or time.

ayse Thu 02-Mar-23 21:07:34

My 2 granddaughters, 8, also had a pyjama day. It’s much better than having to dress them up, especially for those with limited income and full time working parents.

Calendargirl Fri 03-Mar-23 07:30:03

I’m just glad that all this dressing up for certain days wasn’t on the go when my children were in school.

I don’t think you need to be dressed up to encourage a love of reading.

BlueBelle Fri 03-Mar-23 07:42:37

It was a nightmare for my daughter when the grandkids were young however I think it looked lovely for small children in their little costumes and they love it don’t they

I totally disagree about the Harry/ Jeremy Clarkson/ dolly pardon books this should be wholly about ‘characters’ not real life people
I m sure that little boy hasn’t read Harry’s book so that’s been done for the parents and could lead to controversy
It should have a fictional only rule

Norah Fri 03-Mar-23 07:44:46

No need for the dressing up, imo.

Redhead56 Fri 03-Mar-23 09:54:05

Very willing to support charities and dress their two daughters in favourite princess costumes. My DS and DIL refuse to send their daughters to school in pjs. Because there are enough parents standing at the school gate in theirs on an every day basis.

Callistemon21 Fri 03-Mar-23 10:48:14

Calendargirl

I’m just glad that all this dressing up for certain days wasn’t on the go when my children were in school.

I don’t think you need to be dressed up to encourage a love of reading.

One primary school my DS attended always suggested fancy dress for the Christmas party. He always wanted to be a pirate, easy peasy!

And there were optional fancy dress competitions at DD's primary school for the summer fete, she came 2nd one year for something very simple. No bought costumes then.

MawtheMerrier Fri 03-Mar-23 10:53:06

Are some people over-thinking this?
Fiction/non-fiction - it’s about books and reading. Kids (mostly) love to dress up as their favourite characters and it need not take costume designer skills or loadsamoney to come up with something.
Imagination, possibly.

Callistemon21 Fri 03-Mar-23 10:56:12

And they get a voucher to spend on books 🙂

Some children don't own a book.

MawtheMerrier Fri 03-Mar-23 10:56:13

Meant to add this- DGD and DGS in “costume” and their genuinely favourite books. I think the dog enjoys it too.

Callistemon21 Fri 03-Mar-23 10:57:27

👏👏

biglouis Fri 03-Mar-23 11:16:48

Fortunately we did not have these antics when I was at school (1950s). We did have a school carnival once a year bt there was no suggestion that parents contribute money. These were the austerity years after WWII.

I quickly learned not to whinge to my mother for costumes for the carnival. If I pestered I got a slap and then a whalloping from my father. Instead I went to my grandmother who had a huge stash of fabrics and loved sewing on one of those old treadle foot machines.

I can remember a gypsy costume with a lovely red and black velvet skirt and a headdress decorated with gold coloured curtain rings. Another year I was Maid Marian with a pointy hat.

My mother would not have had a clue about dress up costumes. From the threads on Mumsnet there are far too many of these "dress up/down and pay for it" days. Parents have got enough to do without all that.

Callistemon21 Fri 03-Mar-23 11:19:00

Someone gave me a second-hand Heidi costume which I wore to any fancy dress party when I was young. It was lovely (probably very expensive) but the straw plaits on an embroidered headband stuck in my ears.

Yammy Fri 03-Mar-23 11:26:34

My GS wore his bigger sibling's t shirt that had character on it he likes and told his mum that was enough.
At my other GD school not only do they have book day but world science day as well as Pudsey bear where they take and buy each other's buns.
When I taught this was just starting and the head realised the cost to parents and chose a set of books that have Mr plug the plumber and Miss tick the teacher etc.. The children could also choose one of their own with no more than 3 props the others had to guess who they were. Then write a story to match their favourite. Cheap and no competing parents which is what it turns into in affluent upwardly mobile areas.