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Caramme Wed 29-Mar-23 10:40:31

It’s overcast here in N Cheshire this morning but I have risked putting my washing out on the line. Fingers crossed it will dry as I am fed up with damp stuff hanging around in my spare bedroom. These days my neighbour, also in her early 70s, and I are the only people who do actually hang washing outside. I assume others use tumble driers but I am wary of the costs of running these.
Last summer, one of my new neighbours who had just moved into a new build semi next-door-but-one said, ‘Oh yes, you’re the lady who puts her washing outside. My gran used to do that, but it doesn’t look very nice does it? No one wants to look at someone else’s washing. And it’s unhygienic.’ I was rendered speechless. Perhaps that was my first experience of passive aggression. She has ignored me ever since. For the record I do not ever put underwear on the line and my garden is relatively private. It upset me at the time as it was so unfriendly. I dried everything indoors for the rest of the year. I am wondering if I am doing the right thing by starting to dry my washing outside once more. It is just unacceptable these days?

Ikiesgranma Fri 31-Mar-23 12:33:28

My washing is on the line outside now. I’ve always hung my washing outside and don’t think anyone has an issue with it. Your neighbour sounds vile and she’s the one who should be ashamed. I used terry nappies when my eldest daughter was a baby and I thought a line of snowy white nappies was lovely.

Ktsmum Fri 31-Mar-23 12:34:20

I love to see my washing blowing in the wind on the line, and you can't beat the outdoor dried smell

Stansgran Fri 31-Mar-23 12:34:36

When I first came to Durham in the last century I had a line right across the garden. I had one child still in nappies and was admonished for hanging washing out on a Sunday! I bought a rotary drier which was not so visible but daft young woman that I was it never occurred to me that the bishop might be too busy to leg it up the tower of the cathedral every Sunday to view who was hanging out sacrilegious washing. Admittedly my garden had a lovely view of the cathedral but I should have said cleanliness is next to godliness.

4allweknow Fri 31-Mar-23 12:34:51

Well hanging out washing would be an inconvenience wouldn't it and then it would have to be taken in all taking time away from chatting on a mobile phone. Your neighbour is unreal, you are to be applauded for drying outside. Your neighbour is a rude upstart who doesn't live in the real world. Doesn't she know sunlight kills germs, whereas heat can multiply them. Keep doing what you are doing, my young neighbours hang washing out.

Tooyoungytobeagrandma Fri 31-Mar-23 12:40:50

Oh, I love being able to dry my washing outdoors. As I like lacy pretty underwear, I'm more than happy to peg that out as well and couldn't give a damn who sees it or if they get upset by it. Perhaps the lady who said her husband didn't like it was worried he was hoping she'd get some the same🤔. 38 dd and pround to show them off as well as my underwear😉

Kartush Fri 31-Mar-23 12:42:10

My husband hangs his work clothes and towels out on the line but because it is really hard for me to get downstairs with a laundry basket I put my stuff in the dryer. I know that sounds odd but we have a downstairs laundry where he washes his things and he put in an upstairs laundry for me

Dianehillbilly1957 Fri 31-Mar-23 12:43:43

Put it out girl, mine goes out at every opportunity, underwear an all. Even if it only partially dries, it's better for the environment, better for your purse totally free and smells fresher. Can't understand some folks and can't see
why it's a problem for her, hold your head high and your washing 🤣

baw53 Fri 31-Mar-23 12:49:42

Just tell your neighbour you are being super energy efficient using solar and wind power .I hang everything on my line weather permitting ….yes even underwear …for goodness sake it’s clean .Don’t people every see underwear on sale in shops ?

Cambia Fri 31-Mar-23 12:54:38

Oh Caramme! I would have been straight outside and hung up every outrageous piece of underwear I owned!! Not much nowadays sadly though! Take absolutely no notice. What a small minded person and so little going on in her own life that she needs to examine other peoples washing lines……
How can it possibly be unhygienic? Fresh air must be better than hung inside or tumble dried. Luckily I live in the country, nobody sees my line and in the winter I have an old fashioned Sheila maid to dry things on. The best thing ever! The old ways are often the best.

BazingaGranny Fri 31-Mar-23 12:59:06

I put my washing outside for a few hours but in a part of the garden where it can’t be seen by my neighbours. I don’t think any neighbours put their washing out at all!

When I was house hunting, I didn’t buy one house as the neighbouring garden was full of washing and when I went three times over ten days, it was still full of washing and very obvious (a double height line!) from what would have been my garden. So perhaps I have confused and confusing views about washing on lines outside! 🙄

Sarkyspice61 Fri 31-Mar-23 13:00:26

I had a similar comment from a neighbour in our previous house. I was the only person out of 6 of us who ever put washing out. When challenged I informed her that, given the state of the planet, only extremely selfish , short-sighted people would entertain using a tumble dryer and that i was doing my bit to reduce my carbon footprint for future generations. She didn't mention it again and neither did anyone else. Let your drawers blow free ladies!

Riggie Fri 31-Mar-23 13:01:33

We just got new neighbours. Seems that the old one took her whirly washing line with her, because less than a week in, I have noticed the very young buyers (who look about 12 but I assume are older) have a new bright white line snaking the length of the garden co.plete with a prop.

grannymags Fri 31-Mar-23 13:03:06

Caramme please keep drying outside your silly neighbour has obviously never had the pleasure of fresh bedding dried outdoors x

Grantanow Fri 31-Mar-23 13:04:02

Ignore the silly b.

pascal30 Fri 31-Mar-23 13:10:39

It's such bliss getting into bed with ozone blown sheets,and fortunately I have high walls round my small garden, but I live in a very green community and imagine most people sun dry their washing. Sounds like your neighbour needs to be given a dictionary unless of course she doesn't wash her undies

GrandMareS Fri 31-Mar-23 13:13:47

So agree with hanging out washing and have never thought that my underwear would cause offence so have never hidden it. Might do now as it’s been highlighted! As a reason for NOT putting washing out, for those with severe allergies it is advised not to so pollen is avoided cling to clothes.

Mollygo Fri 31-Mar-23 13:14:05

The only time we or our neighbours mention washing hanging out is if we’re planning a barbecue. Your neighbour is rude.

DeeDe Fri 31-Mar-23 13:14:58

Now I’ve heard everything, it’s your garden and your washing
It smells much nicer drying outside, if she says anything again, politely say it’s my washing and my garden not yours!
Be wrong to put a pram, swing etc out next

Have a friend who has a rather smart privately owned townhouse style apartment, with two balcony’s one at the front and one at the rear of the property, but it’s in a historic attraction and has security gates, so has some restrictions naturally
But last summer they all received a letter saying their not to stand washing on their balconies only a few did on little low airers on their rear balconies, after receiving the letter seemed almost everyone started to put washing out as a protest, they never heard anything more..,
they wasn’t overlooked and away from the visitors public areas people don’t like to be dictated too, especially on their own property, it gets their backs up.
And that neighbour was very out of order !!!

Jay21 Fri 31-Mar-23 13:25:39

Hi Caramme
Were in East Cheshire and weather is the same. I always hang out my washing whenever the weather permits and love seeing it blowing on the line. The smell of washing dried outside rising up when you're ironing is lovely. Your neighbour is totally out of order so don't waste any more time worrying about her - the 'problem' is hers alone.
When drying indoors I use a Lakeland Dry Soon 3 tier drying rack which is wonderful. You can fit so much on it and can purchase a cover separately which helps reduce the drying time. When I bought mine it was advertised as costing 5p an hour to run and I have just looked at their site and it's currently 10p an hour which is still amazing. If you put it in a small room and close the door it also warms the room nicely. If I put damp washing straight from the washing machine I open a window a bit to avoid condensation.

Hellis Fri 31-Mar-23 13:27:55

I have always hung my washing out as do all my neighbours. Today is a bit hit and miss, as its already been brought in once because of a shower, but is back out again now. Your neighbour sounds like a snotty cow!, best ignored

Jay21 Fri 31-Mar-23 13:31:23

Coincidentally I just received this joke!

win Fri 31-Mar-23 13:35:38

I cannot believe all this talk of hiding underwear this is 2023 for goodness sake What is wrong about hanging your underwear in full view? My washing goes outside all year round and smells lovely when I bring it in. Love fresh bedding. Do what you like in your own homes

Mollygo Fri 31-Mar-23 13:37:47

Jay21
Love it!

TillyWhiz Fri 31-Mar-23 13:39:40

If she ever moans again, then just refer her to this thread! grin
Unhygienic! Never heard that one before. Sad isn't it though that there are still people who need to be educated about what we are doing to the environment.
Washing line rules!

pascal30 Fri 31-Mar-23 13:39:49

Jay21

Coincidentally I just received this joke!

brilliant