worriedgrandma
Primrose53
Worriedgrandma. I feel you want someone to come on and say he should say nothing because that’s what you want to hear but I doubt they will.
You just never know, when doing stuff like this, that you will get caught out. What about if somebody from Uni 1 came to work there and remembered him? Paths cross, people move and secrets come out.
But i am asking if student services from uni 1 may tell his fund manager employer ...
i doubt his uni friends told anyone as he didnt tell his uni friends what happened
It is difficult to be sure, but as someone who worked in a university for over 20 years, and who gave numerous references, I doubt it very much. Unless I could say good things about a student, I would just say that they attended between x and y and leave it at that. Staff don't want to blight the careers of young people, so I would be very surprised if they would say anything. If he only attended for a year, the chances are that the course leader won't even remember him - a lot of students 'go through our hands', and with the best will in the world, we don't remember them all personally.
If there had been a huge incident it will have stuck in people's minds, but someone getting caught with drugs in their room happens a lot, and if the student hadn't made a big impression in other ways, it is quite possible that it won't be remembered. Very many more students take drugs than are caught with them, so it's usually more a case of needing to be seen to be acting, although the fact that it led to expulsion suggests that there was maybe more to it than that?
If it were me, I would base my decision on the nature of the job and the nature of the request. If it's the sort of thing that a whiff of 'scandal' might compromise, or if the employer has asked for a detailed character reference then I might phone the university and speak to the course leader at the time of your grandson's studies, (but doing so will, of course, make remembrance more likely), but if it's an ordinary reference request I wouldn't bother. If the police were involved, I would think again, but look at the likes of Michael Gove, Bill Clinton, Prince Harry and more. They have all admitted taking drugs as students. Boris Johnson and David Cameron were PMs (and George Osbourne the Chancellor) and their behaviour in the Bullingdon Club was less than exemplary. People are allowed to make mistakes as students. Bankers have a reputation (deserved or otherwise) for sniffing coke off banknotes
. If a significant number of his colleagues have not done likewise I would eat my hat, and I can't see them being unduly shocked. Try not to worry too much.