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watermeadow Wed 12-Apr-23 09:15:09

Half the world is male yet they are responsible for almost all of the wars, crime and cruelty.
I think it’s time we phased them out, keeping just a few as sperm donors. An all-female world will be peaceful (mostly) and will concentrate on the important things, not power and aggression.
It’s no use saying, ‘My darling little boy’s not like that’, remember every world leader was some mother’s darling.

GagaJo Wed 12-Apr-23 12:02:21

BrightandBreezy

Lol. I don't think it would be a more peaceful world with only a few men to go around all the women. Think of the fights and competition for the few men available. They ones kept as sperm donors would soon have a willing hareem desperate to free them to be an 'only' with them. Could make a great novel or fantasy film though. 😄🤔😳

Herland. Charlotte Perkins Gilman.

Ziplok Wed 12-Apr-23 12:03:16

I think, watermeadow that your statement about men is rather a sweeping one. Not all men are as you describe, (I’d even suggest the majority are not), and not all women are sweetness and light, gentle, caring beings, either.

GagaJo Wed 12-Apr-23 12:03:28

Callistemon21

Who would do the ironing? 😲

Same person who does it in our house. Mr. Nobody.

Kate1949 Wed 12-Apr-23 12:09:35

Well we have to agree to disagree then. I do think men get a raw deal. I could easily be a man hater. My father was a monster. However, and I have posted this before, when my lovely nephew joined in a conversation at work he was told by a woman 'As a white, heterosexual male, your opinion is of no interest'.

Norah Wed 12-Apr-23 12:22:42

No. I like men, love my man to bits.

Perhaps you have a better holiday post?

pascal30 Wed 12-Apr-23 12:23:35

Kate1949

Well we have to agree to disagree then. I do think men get a raw deal. I could easily be a man hater. My father was a monster. However, and I have posted this before, when my lovely nephew joined in a conversation at work he was told by a woman 'As a white, heterosexual male, your opinion is of no interest'.

What a sad place the world would be without tolerance and understanding and appreciation of difference.. I feel for your nephew...what a horribly prejudiced comment

sodapop Wed 12-Apr-23 12:38:05

TerriBull

Very late April Fool's Joke maybe???

Otherwise a pretty awful thing to say about half of the population and a very blanket statement attributing all of the world's ills to men per se hmm

I agree, can you imagine the outcry if that statement was reversed.
Misandry rules angry

Kate1949 Wed 12-Apr-23 12:39:18

Yes indeed pascal and he's such a sweetheart.

Wyllow3 Wed 12-Apr-23 12:40:37

Whereas I feel a bit for your nephew re exclusion

for heavens sake - that is exactly what has been happening to women and PoC over centuries at home, at work , in terms of clubs, in terms of educational opportunities - right now in the police and fire services

surely he realises why a woman might say that? that he has experienced what has happened to women and PoC for so long!

Kate1949 Wed 12-Apr-23 12:44:00

I've never heard a man tell a woman that her opinion is of no interest.

Kate1949 Wed 12-Apr-23 12:44:50

I think she was rude and ignorant.

MayBee70 Wed 12-Apr-23 12:47:49

We’d still have Patels, Bravermans and Truss’s though sad

Blondiescot Wed 12-Apr-23 12:53:01

Kate1949

I've never heard a man tell a woman that her opinion is of no interest.

Oh sadly, I have - many a time over my working life, in fact. But I certainly wouldn't tar all men with the same brush.

Kate1949 Wed 12-Apr-23 12:56:56

That's a shame Blondiescot. I worked in the Civil Service for 40 years. I met many men who thought they were superior but they thought they were superior to everyone not just women. I just used to think 'Think what makes you happy but you are wrong.'

Jackiest Wed 12-Apr-23 13:44:48

There are plenty of nasty women around just as there are nasty men. Men have had the power in the past so more opportunity to do wrong but that does not make them worse than women.

MrsKen33 Wed 12-Apr-23 13:59:17

No, no. Mine is a bit worn out now but still quite good in most departments. A world without men, what an awful prospect. All those bitchy women un diluted

kittylester Wed 12-Apr-23 14:03:33

I'm with kate1949.

Norah Wed 12-Apr-23 14:06:14

MrsKen33 A world without men, what an awful prospect.
All those bitchy women un diluted.

Agreed. A truly boring thought.

Philippa111 Wed 12-Apr-23 14:21:55

Rant coming on!

Mothers get blamed for everything... It's time people, and that includes men, take responsibility for their own behaviours.

Mothers do the best they can from their own experiences of mothering and mothers ,like everyone else, have their own difficulties and faults. No mother wakens in the morning and says, 'I wonder how I can be a bad mother today?'

My own mother was cruel and messed up. I don't blame my mother and I have taken steps to heal the things she got wrong. I can see where my father and society in general didn't support her mental health issues and let her down. Women were mostly deemed hysterical and not taken seriously if they had mental health problems. My generation are the children of that generation of women.

Do you ever hear people say, 'I blame their fathers'? Rarely.

Blaming and belittling mothers is, in my opinion, another way that men (and sadly some women) can put women down and not take responsibility for their own behaviours.

Kate1949 Wed 12-Apr-23 14:24:05

I blame my father.

Callistemon21 Wed 12-Apr-23 14:41:32

Do you ever hear people say, 'I blame their fathers'? Rarely.

Yes we often do, because a lot of fathers just bugger off (excuse the expression) and leave the mothers to bring up their children alone, often struggling without much money and support.
How often do you see a news item about a mother struggling to heat the house, feed her children and she is more often than not described as a single mother; we always ask "where is the father in all this?"

It's not just the news - looking around at our DGC's friends, it seems to be so prevalent now.

NanaDana Wed 12-Apr-23 15:10:19

Click-bait. I guess I bit! grin

GagaJo Wed 12-Apr-23 16:20:04

Kate1949

I've never heard a man tell a woman that her opinion is of no interest.

Have you never been in a meeting where your input was discounted? Only to hear very similar points forwarded by a man and discussed with gusto?

No? Lucky you.

AGAA4 Wed 12-Apr-23 16:29:00

No I wouldn't want a world without men. It's just that some of them need retraining. 😀

Thoro Wed 12-Apr-23 16:39:35

Do I remember a two Ronnies sketch of a world run by women?