Germanshepherdsmum
My son’s state school education, by no means ‘amazing’, has, we think, been a positive benefit. Yes, he is very bright and got straight As and a First, but going to state schools has in no way disadvantaged him in the employment market even in the still-stuffy legal profession where he is now a partner. A potential employer knows what advantages a private education brings and that, even with parental support and their own bedroom, the same results from a state- and a privately-educated candidate are not truly comparable. One of my son’s university friends, from Eton, no less bright, has not fared so well … Having endured a couple of arrogant, obnoxious, entitled privately-educated trainees, who seemed unable to think for themselves because they had been spoon-fed their education and the way to pass exams, I always favoured the state-educated when interviewing, and didn’t regret it.
Agreed totally. So so many of our friends and OH' colleagues sent their children to private education at top schools, and most of them did not do as well as ours who went to the local Comp. They had to learn to organise themselves, mix with very different people, and so much more. In fact, throughout their career, this ability to mix and adapt, has been a massive plus.