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(11 Posts)
Stoker48 Mon 20-Apr-26 09:13:36

We are currently on a cruise.
Mostly over 70s.
UK departure.
They have a daily “ newspaper” with a crossword.
One of today’s clues is :
Illegitimate child -7 letters.
We have some of the letters so know it starts with a B, second letter S and ends in a D.
It is obvious what the word is.
I’m very broad minded and rarely, if ever, get on my high horse, but we were shocked at this word being used in a crossword in 2026.
“It’s no longer used in legal context and is considered an offensive and seaming term” so say Google.
What do you think?

AGAA4 Mon 20-Apr-26 09:20:02

I think it's unacceptable in today's world. No child is illegitimate. Horrible outdated word that is now a swear word.

Beechnut Mon 20-Apr-26 09:25:24

A name for a file, I’ve recently learned.

NotSpaghetti Mon 20-Apr-26 09:26:21

I think I'd make a formal complaint about this.
What are the compilers thinking???

Marzipan22 Mon 20-Apr-26 09:27:41

Awful. I'd complain.

grumppa Mon 20-Apr-26 10:10:32

I assume BUSTARD would have fitted as well. No need to have used the word they did,

Stoker48 Mon 20-Apr-26 10:15:45

Thank you for you prompt replies.
Reassuring that we are not the only ones who thought this was well out of order.
Is a formal complaint too strong?
Hate making a fuss but think it’s well out of order.

Stoker48 Mon 20-Apr-26 10:19:48

God point, grumpa

nanna8 Mon 20-Apr-26 10:23:47

Stuck in the nineteenth century, aren’t they ? I do ancestry research and it still makes my skin crawl to see people described as ‘ bastards’ on the church baptism rolls. I wouldn’t complain, just feel sorry for people with this attitude.

Magenta8 Mon 20-Apr-26 10:31:52

I am sure I am not the only GN born out of wedlock and I agree, it is offensive to use it in this context in this day and age.

As far as I am concerned, it has come, through common usage, to be a relatively mild swear word that means somebody who has done something one disapproves of. I use in this context myself occasionally.

NotSpaghetti Mon 20-Apr-26 10:48:10

Well if nobody complains they will go on using such words and see it as OK

By not speaking up we are complicit, as Niemöller would have said.