Sulking, needy, mardy neighbour!

But that’s quite different Shysal it’s an arrangement you ve both agreed on and happy with and obviously the said lady in the original post had a similar arrangement with Parlours new neighbours
Just get on with your own life, help if asked and don’t for goodness sake feel competitive with the neighbours

I walk straight into my 91 year old neighbour's house at the same time every morning, but that is because she unlocks for me to bring in the newspaper which I buy for her since she has had shingles and cannot manage the walk to the shop. If I call at any other time I wouldn't dream of letting myself in, and ring the doorbell. I watch out for her kitchen blind opening and closing so that I know she has gone to bed/woken up, but she knows that and appreciates it.

I'm with Redhead on this, tempting though your husband's retaliation is!

I have just been chatting with my neighbour actually, a friendly comment about lawn mowing and nothing more. I know they are there if we need them because they have said so, but I certainly couldn't be doing with anyone walking in without knocking, or knowing my business.

I wouldn't be roped into such childish behaviour. I would assist if asked and help if required but wouldn't get involved otherwise.

Some people compartmentalise their friends .

They are might be friendly with you , but don't like it - if you mix with their other friends !

By visiting on " her " day you've upset her routine .

The behaviour of my father's neighbours never ceases to amaze me :

I've known them for about 35 years , but only got to know them better since I moved in with him about a decade ago .

One man refuses to speak to me , because I joined a chorus of people , who very gently objected to his lengthy car washing during the drought .
He stormed off inside his house leaving his wife to come out to switch the water off .

They both seem to find my struggling with heavy shopping highly amusing as they drive off from the local shops leaving me with my overloaded trolley .

She is fond of telling me that my father is taking too long to die .
Three sets of neighbours have continually interrogated me about a man , whom I employed for DIY .
He came with an old friend from the church .
They are completely obsessed with them .
Two years on and I'm still being asked about them .

I feel like making up a story !
Asking me if they are a couple is their favourite question .
And here's what I feel like replying ,
yes they are , but in fact we both share him with five other ladies .

We all have our allotted day for long sex sessions !

Mine is Tuesday either before or after my pensioner's discount shop in Iceland !

There’s a lot to be said for a nod and a hello how are you, I have no neighbours I drop in on, nor them me although I know I could get help if wanted and I would give any one a hand if asked.

Why would you worry if the neighbour goes in on a regular basis, it’s not your business is it ? and it may have been an happening for years

You explain your the newbies so stop worrying what arrangements others have had before you. and don’t start to be competitive just enjoy, being

How awful! I expect your DH is teasing a bit - but making a point of calling to check on a frail neighbour (whilst keeping boundaries) is a pleasant thing to do.
I am also amused - are you from Leicestershire / North Northants, just moved there, or both? And please don't reply if you'd rather not say!

I have an SK next door. Her war-cry is “I’ve lived here for over 40 years, so I know A better than you do. Our children grew up together”- she hates my friendship with A….just saying.

I’d be the grown up here and simply ignore her. Doing anything else would give her the attention she’s after.

I agree. There may be history you don’t know about,

I’m extremely glad that I live in a village where we’re polite, and would be helpful if need be, but there’s no ‘popping in’. I’d rather live in the middle of a field than have neighbours like that. I’m not exactly a neighbourly person though would always help someone in need. I think we’re all like that here.

Isn’t that their problem, not yours?
Perhaps your neighbour is happy that she walks in?
Who’s to say what others do.
When you say seemingly she goes over at the same time etc etc how do you know she does not like the other couple associating with anyone but her. Or is that neighbourhood gossip?
I’d resist the temptation to taunt her, it sounds childish . Be polite, be friendly but keep your distance .

stupidly territorial behaviour.. I feel sorry for your neighbours if she just lets herself into their house. Why don't you invite them to yours for a cuppa?

Mrs S K sounds very needy and I feel sorry for the people she drops in to see as it seems they can't be friends with anyone else.

Mrs Sulky Knickers
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She sounds very odd.

No thank goodness and I have to say that I'd be very tempted to do what your OH has a mind to do.