I recall, many years ago having a conversation related to me, which was about me. The First Lady remarked to the second that I was extremely houseproud. The second agreed saying that you would never find a speck of dirt on my skirting boards, but that I didn’t turn a hair when she turned up with muddy children and even muddier dog.
I think that it is often assumed that neat freaks spend all their time tidying and cleaning, well I don’t. TBH is much easier to put everything away when it is finished with, rather than be faced with a pile of stuff. Once a house is clean it doesn’t take very long to whisk through with a duster and vacuum. I got into the habit of doing this before going to work, and yes, I did have young children, actually they have grown up to be tidy adults. Children make a mess playing, as they should, but when they were very young it didn’t take long to tidy their toys away when they finished with them and as they got older they knew that they had to tidy them away themselves. My husband is also a very tidy person, so it worked and still does work for us,
I don’t say that I love housework, but I hate an untidy home. I certainly don’t criticise anyone who doesn’t choose to live the way we do, each to his/her own. What suits one family doesn’t suit another. I wanted to spend time on hobbies, not unnecessary cleaning and tidying. I do resent the implication that those who think that this makes me, and many others like me, boring!