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kittylester Wed 17-May-23 18:05:10

Following on from reports that the Duchess of Sussex has had her £140k engagement ring 'enhanced', I wondered if anyone else has had their engagement ring changed?

DH bought my ring all by himself and, thankfully, I really love it although it was considerably less expensive. I wouldn't contemplate changing it but wondered whether other people have changed their rings and why?

Sawsage2 Sat 20-May-23 18:23:49

In 1967 I had quite an unusual one with 3 sapphires. Over time I put weight on (I was then 10st) my fingers swelled up and I had to go to the fire station to have it cut off. I was very upset about it.

JudyBloom Sat 20-May-23 20:54:24

No, I haven't changed my engagement ring, I love it as it is, a modest ring with three stone diamonds set in platinum.

Bijou Sat 20-May-23 21:52:45

Couldn’t afford an engagement ring. My husband bought my wedding ring in 1945 whilst serving in Palestine. It has never been off my finger since. 1946.

biglouis Sat 20-May-23 23:56:51

My parents were married during WWII - very quickly by special lisence. You could only get low carat gold rings then so my father bought my mothers wedding ring from a pawn shop so she could have 22 ct. She always considered it unlucky.

nipsmum Sun 21-May-23 11:14:44

I got my Engagement ring in 1965. I loved it then and I love it now. It would need to be resized for me to be able to wear it. I will keep it for my granddaughter's . I lost my wedding ring about 16 years ago. It also was too small and I wore it on my little finger but it was lost one day when I was at work. Since I've been divorced since 1989 I don't wear any rings now.

Gwenisgreat1 Sun 21-May-23 12:11:03

I was forced to get a new engagement ring after our house was broken into and the ring stolen! Mind you the replacement had to have a new sapphire put in after losing the original.

rugbymumcumbria Sun 21-May-23 17:34:45

Mine wore so thin I couldn’t wear it anymore. I took it to the jewellers along with my Mum’s and Grandma’s and had them made into one ring. Except they didn’t use my diamond. It was too small !

Floradora9 Sun 21-May-23 21:25:49

Deedaa

I've still got the receipt for my engagement ring which we bought in 1970. A very tiny diamond in an interesting setting, although it is 18 carat gold. It was the vast sum of £32 10s. My wedding ring was £8 10s.

Just about the same price as mine bought in 1964 from H. Samuels . It is still in good condition . I hjasd in expanded when my finger got damaged but now finger is back to normal and I am afriad it , and my wedding ring , will fall off .

Georgesgran Sat 27-May-23 14:51:41

We were engaged in 1971 and the jeweller showed me a selection of rings under £70 and I selected a sapphire and diamond cluster, although I’d seen an emerald that was £82 - out of budget.
Years later, I saw a second hand emerald and diamond cluster in white gold which I preferred, so got that and a delicate white gold wedding band - my original was very wide, yellow gold.
The rings (and others) were stolen and after lengthy, heated negotiations with the insurance company, I bought a fabulous pear shaped emerald surrounded by diamonds. Going to Egypt one year, I was leaving the emerald at home, so bought myself a channel set diamond band, which is now my everyday wedding ring. Despite being widowed, I love my rings and still wear them.
NB - I’ve taken pictures of myself wearing my jewellery, as this was one of the issues raised by the Insurance Assessor, despite having some receipts to hand.

Greyduster Sat 27-May-23 15:16:28

We couldn’t afford an engagement ring, and I never asked for one, although there was a lovely jewellers round the corner from where I worked that had some beautiful Victorian rings which I always admired. DH always said he felt bad about it, so he splashed out on my wedding ring which is a broad hoop of 22carat gold. For our 1st anniversary when we lived in the Far East, he had an eternity ring - a full hoop of diamonds - made for me and in 1971 my darling three year old son flushed it down the toilet! I had to wait until our fortieth anniversary for a replacement (much to his relief, I chose only to have a half hoop!).

Debbi58 Sat 27-May-23 16:56:25

Both my rings have been enlarged due to arthritis in fingers , just glad they could be enlarged, wouldn't like to have chosen new ones