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You’re never going out looking like that?

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Marydoll Wed 31-May-23 08:43:25

Yesterday, DH and I went for a run down the coast and DD asked me to send a photo of DH, to check his attire.
He is well known for his lack of sartorial elegance and he has a tendency to favour black everything.

After a few suggestions from me and a change of clothing, he was reasonably presentable and was allowed out. 😉

Hetty58 Wed 31-May-23 08:25:17

Galaxy, same here - it's pretty chilly out there first thing. Drizzle this morning, so a raincoat with hood (and absolutely no point in hair brushing).

We had to wear (sparkling white) clean underwear - in case we got run over by a bus. I always found that hilarious, as my underwear would hardly remain clean should that happen!

merlotgran Wed 31-May-23 08:21:19

Dylan could do with a tidy up as well. Peggy has already had her hot weather trim!

Blondiescot Wed 31-May-23 08:19:34

Oh yes, I loved the punk scene in its heyday and used to dress accordingly, so you can imagine my mother's reaction to that. Although I was naturally blonde, I used to bleach my hair peroxide white and according to her 'only prostitutes looked like that'! The more she criticised the way I looked, the more I wanted to dress and look that way.

rosie1959 Wed 31-May-23 08:19:26

My parents were not keen on my dress in the early 70s Staypress Harrington jacket Ben Sherman shirt and brogues and a Crombi
As for Boris he is walking the dog I don’t dress up for this activity either. He’s probably like my DH doesn’t give a flying fig about style statements

Galaxy Wed 31-May-23 08:18:19

My dog is up at 6. I put a coat over my pyjama top, dont brush my hair and pull some joggers on.

Foxygloves Wed 31-May-23 08:16:35

Does Boris perhaps feel duty bound to prove that Englishmen can’t do casual?

Foxygloves Wed 31-May-23 08:13:50

Sarah79

I can’t abide Boris, but he’s only out walking the dog - he’s wearing the sort of scruffy ‘gardening’ clothes that most of us wear dog walking?

Speak for yourself!
I would not dream of embarrassing my dog attired thus. 🐶

Sarah79 Wed 31-May-23 07:57:05

I can’t abide Boris, but he’s only out walking the dog - he’s wearing the sort of scruffy ‘gardening’ clothes that most of us wear dog walking?

M0nica Wed 31-May-23 07:52:55

For some reason it was thick black tights that my mother objected to. This was in the early 1960s. Her phrase was ' I am not having you going out like that, it makes you look like a student!' I never quite got the point because I was a student!

I only once did the 'You are not going out like that' game with DD. It was a summer Saturday morning . She was about 13 and DF was just about to take her to her dancing class. She was wearing the dancing schools dance 'uniform' of a bright turquoise shiny Lycra long sleeved leotard and leggings. Over it she had put a short skirted, shortsleeved, bright orange sun dress. The sight was - blinding - . I insisted she change the dress for something more muted and less clashing.

TillyTrotter Wed 31-May-23 07:40:12

Reaction to the BJ photo - what a lovely dog 😜?

TillyTrotter Wed 31-May-23 07:39:31

The words I heard most often were “you’re not wearing those ridiculous heels out of the house” (as if I would have got them to wear indoors!
They were always wooden platform shoes and they made me 4 inches taller. Very fashionable in the 70’s and I had to travel on the train to Birmingham to buy them in Ravel.
I always wanted longer legs. I thought my father was just a spoilsport.

Foxygloves Wed 31-May-23 07:30:53

How many of us had that ringing in our ears in our teens when our Mum or Dad saw us dressed to go out?
I remember my mums insistence that I change out of my jeans, tucked into knee length black suede boots which I was wearing with my snazzy little leather bomber jacket -if I wished to accompany her into town on a shopping trip. (Dear Mum did tend towards the Ladybird Peter and Jane school of dress for shopping. )
I cannot imagine what she would have made of this style statement.
But I am happy to say neither my father nor DH would have even thought about walking the dog dressed like this. Carrie really needs to have a word.