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Routine or Freewheeling in Retirement?

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Doodledog Mon 05-Jun-23 12:18:15

We go away a lot - nothing flash, but we have a caravan/lodge that we can go to whenever we fancy, so long-standing routines don't work for us.

I have a few social commitments that I stick to - things that happen monthly or less frequently, and we come home for those, and take the opportunity to catch up on washing and other chores. I tend to arrange things like hair appointments around the social things, so that there is more 'free time' to use as we please.

I still work, but part-time, and what I do can be done remotely, so that doesn't get in the way. I don't think I would take a job that required any sort of regular attendance now.

When my pension kicks in I might give up working altogether (or I might not, but there will be that option) and when/if that happens I will look into doing volunteering so long as it can be done on Zoom or otherwise online. I'm not sure what form it would take, but I have a lot of transferable skills that could be used by someone.

I suppose I like a mixture of spontaneity and commitment. Not having to set the alarm is absolutely non-negotiable though grin.

kittylester Mon 05-Jun-23 12:07:01

We aim to have a mix of volunteering, socialising (both independently and together) and doing nothing. Inevitably stuff crops up on the nothing days. I love to be busy but relish the odd day with nothing in the diary.

My mum used to say that it's good to have something to hang one's week on.

Sidelined Mon 05-Jun-23 12:00:18

When I retired some time ago I was glad to ditch the routines and relished the freedom to freewheel. It works for me most of the time but not always. I hate having things on the calendar and am so glad when it’s done! Post-lockdown I’m finding it harder to motivate myself - I know it’s not just me. So I’m wondering do you maintain a tight routine or are you happy not to? And why does your way work for you?