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I just want my younger body back!!

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travelsafar Tue 06-Jun-23 09:06:22

To be able to hop skip and jump, walk, run, twist and turn with out pain.
To hear clearly, see without a cataract haze, to have a full set of teeth with no fillings.
To have pain free joints so I can put my own socks on, do up fastenings with out fumbling fingers.
If I could go back to my younger body I would cherish it more, put only healthy things in it, exercise more and maintain it's health and beauty even more. What do you miss most about your younger body??

fancythat Tue 06-Jun-23 18:21:41

Tizliz

Tizliz

Callistemon21

I have been wondering if there are some exercises I can do to help matters

I was shown armchair Pilates a few weeks ago - it's not actually done in an armchair but on a dining chair and some of it standing up, holding on to the back of the chair.
If only I could remember the exercises .....

There is a video on the NHS site, I do these about 5 times a week.

www.nhs.uk/conditions/nhs-fitness-studio/chair-based-pilates-exercise-video/

And this.

fancythat Tue 06-Jun-23 18:20:34

Callistemon21

Sorry, that doesn't work as a link but if you Google, there are several.

Thank you. I will take a look.

Barmeyoldbat Tue 06-Jun-23 17:27:46

In many ways I am happy as I am, nearly 75 with very few wrinkles, a size 10 instead of 16 and 18, I can still ride my bike and I am happy with life BUT I have an autoimmune condition that has moved on another stage and my worry is will I still be able to have a liver transplant or am I to old. Need to ask next time at the hospital. I am in pain from it but have a painkiller that works so will be restarting my seated Pilates classes next week. I just wish I had more energy. I will carryon loving life

AGAA4 Tue 06-Jun-23 17:02:25

It's my energy I miss the most. I was on my feet all day in my job and would come home and do my housework and cooking and rarely sat down till after 9pm.
Now if I do the hoovering I need a rest!

Primrose53 Tue 06-Jun-23 16:54:06

I used to love sports as a teenager and played hockey until I was 27 when I had my first baby. I also played tennis and loved swimming. I played tennis and badminton in my 30s and 40s. We always had dogs so I walked miles with them. I did yoga in my 50s and enjoyed that.

In my 40s and 50s I used to cycle a lot and although I still have my bike, my cycling friend gave up years ago and I don’t go so far now or so often.

Now I try and have a few miles walk a couple of times a week but I do my stretching and balancing exercises every morning and I think that keeps me a bit supple.

I don’t really have much in the way of health issues and have had no replacement hips, knees etc. I often think I should do a lot more exercise but I have tried a few exercise classes and I did not enjoy them at all. I also tried zumba and spinning but didn’t enjoy those much either.

I only enjoy swimming now if it is as warm as a bath!

I was so slim and petite when I was a teenager and I remember our family GP asking me what I wanted to do when I left school and I said a PE teacher. He laughed and said “my dear, you are much too petite for that.” If he could see me now! 🤣🤣

Callistemon21 Tue 06-Jun-23 16:53:58

I've downloaded it.

This pilates-inspired workout is suitable for people who have difficulty getting down on the floor and prefer the support of a chair.

It's not the getting down on the floor - it's getting up again!

Callistemon21 Tue 06-Jun-23 16:52:39

Thanks Tizliz
Funnily enough, I was just saying yesterday that I should start doing them.

Tizliz Tue 06-Jun-23 16:26:56

Tizliz

Callistemon21

I have been wondering if there are some exercises I can do to help matters

I was shown armchair Pilates a few weeks ago - it's not actually done in an armchair but on a dining chair and some of it standing up, holding on to the back of the chair.
If only I could remember the exercises .....

There is a video on the NHS site, I do these about 5 times a week.

www.nhs.uk/conditions/nhs-fitness-studio/chair-based-pilates-exercise-video/

Tizliz Tue 06-Jun-23 16:21:11

Callistemon21

^I have been wondering if there are some exercises I can do to help matters^

I was shown armchair Pilates a few weeks ago - it's not actually done in an armchair but on a dining chair and some of it standing up, holding on to the back of the chair.
If only I could remember the exercises .....

There is a video on the NHS site, I do these about 5 times a week.

sandelf Tue 06-Jun-23 16:14:17

Irony... I was one of the early diagnosed M E cases. Of course there was not even the suggestion of help as clearly we were mad and or malingerers. Lost my 'good' job and most of my 'friends'... After the shock and 6 months of being barely capable of anything, I realised no-one can help and started reading around how athletes live and eat. I built a routine of eating, supplements, and self care (this took years). Slowly health and energy rebuilt. That interest in 'what works' and self help has persisted so that now I am pretty good for 70xxx - it feels a bit weird but there we are. I now think 'M E' is a portmanteau diagnosis and the collapse it describes has many roots so there never will be one solution. - And I have come across the mad and malingering too.

M0nica Tue 06-Jun-23 16:14:13

I come from a family who have lived fit and healthily to an advanced age, I have inherited the family genes and I am duly grateful.

What I miss is my stamina. I used to be known in the family as the 'Duracell bunny', because I could keep going when things needed doing and never seemed to rest (ADHD, did help).

Now, an hour or so in the garden, and I am knackered. We have just returned from a short holiday in Scotland, the journey up there was a catastrophe, 16 hours instead of 7, and the exhaustion of the travelling, never really cleared all weekend, nd rather took the edge off it. Ten years ago, one good nights sleep and we would have recovered.

By the way, Calendargirl, I, too, was always modestly endowed, but it never ever worried me, I was always really thankfully to never get beyond a B cup.

Callistemon21 Tue 06-Jun-23 15:43:20

Sorry, that doesn't work as a link but if you Google, there are several.

Callistemon21 Tue 06-Jun-23 15:41:25

Minute Senior Pilates Chair Class- to build Core Strength in a Safe and Gentle Way
YouTube · The Girl With The Pilates Mat

I haven't watched this one but there are several on YouTube

Callistemon21 Tue 06-Jun-23 15:37:43

I have been wondering if there are some exercises I can do to help matters

I was shown armchair Pilates a few weeks ago - it's not actually done in an armchair but on a dining chair and some of it standing up, holding on to the back of the chair.
If only I could remember the exercises .....

Callistemon21 Tue 06-Jun-23 15:35:55

Juggernaut

With arthritis in my shoulders, elbows, wrists, spine, hips, knees and ankles, I don't move anywhere without pain!
I was managing fairly well, taking my painkillers if I wanted to have a 'normal' day, but since having Covid, I can't walk, with my sticks or by hanging on to DH, for more than ten minutes before the pain in my back gets too bad to even stand up.
I'm 65, and it often feels as though my life is over!

I'm sure my joints far worse since having Covid (at least twice).

fancythat Tue 06-Jun-23 13:32:55

I miss the ease of giving myself a pedicure. My feet don’t want to come up as far as I need them to.

me neither hollysteers.
I have been wondering if there are some exercises I can do to help matters.
I assume the tops of my legs are not so strong or something like they used to be.

Juggernaut Tue 06-Jun-23 12:55:27

With arthritis in my shoulders, elbows, wrists, spine, hips, knees and ankles, I don't move anywhere without pain!
I was managing fairly well, taking my painkillers if I wanted to have a 'normal' day, but since having Covid, I can't walk, with my sticks or by hanging on to DH, for more than ten minutes before the pain in my back gets too bad to even stand up.
I'm 65, and it often feels as though my life is over!

sodapop Tue 06-Jun-23 12:28:37

Same here MayBee70 I haven't been able to kneel for many years now and as for getting down on the floor that's just about impossible. Groaning does seem to help though smile

Grammaretto Tue 06-Jun-23 11:36:07

So true Calendargirl

Calendargirl Tue 06-Jun-23 11:32:04

But on a positive note….

I don’t miss having spots, greasy hair, worrying about my flat chest( still never had much in the bust department, but not bothered now), periods…

Callistemon21 Tue 06-Jun-23 11:27:54

Oh, to see without spectacles, they are so annoying.

And remembering Pam Ayres's poem:

Oh, I wish I’d looked after me teeth,
And spotted the perils beneath
All the toffees I chewed,
And the sweet sticky food.
Oh, I wish I’d looked after me teeth.

Callistemon21 Tue 06-Jun-23 11:24:16

travelsafar

To be able to hop skip and jump, walk, run, twist and turn with out pain.
To hear clearly, see without a cataract haze, to have a full set of teeth with no fillings.
To have pain free joints so I can put my own socks on, do up fastenings with out fumbling fingers.
If I could go back to my younger body I would cherish it more, put only healthy things in it, exercise more and maintain it's health and beauty even more. What do you miss most about your younger body??

When I said I wished I could skip like her, my DGD assured me, Never mind, I'd be able to skip like her when I'm a bit older 😂

It's frustrating, isn't it, travelsafar

What do you miss most about your younger body??
Everything!

MayBee70 Tue 06-Jun-23 11:11:50

I’ve forgotten what it’s like to be able to get down on the floor ( eg the other day I had to get something from under the bed) and not have to get up in stages. Or go ‘ ooh’ every time I get up from a chair. I must say, though, that my creaky joints improve dramatically when the weather gets warmer and also when I remember to take turmeric. I’ve often said that, if my younger self was transported straight into my current body I would wonder how anyone could exist like that! I walk at half the speed that I used to but ( touch wood) I am walking ok at the moment. Sometimes I struggle with walking ( I’ve bored people on here endlessly with my walking issues) and I’ve never found out why I have problems that then seem to right themselves.

hollysteers Tue 06-Jun-23 10:57:47

I miss the ease of giving myself a pedicure. My feet don’t want to come up as far as I need them to..
I hate wanting to sit down after walking for a while and I’m not liking the new slightly swollen finger joints on my left hand.
Throw in a hernia, tinnitus and gammy right arm after lymph node removal.
Having said that, I do enjoy life, glad I’m still here and just make the necessary adjustments.

henetha Tue 06-Jun-23 10:36:49

Not bad taste at all, GG13. Just funny! grin