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travelsafar Thu 29-Jun-23 12:09:59

I dont want to fall out with neighbours but their visitors tend to park part way over my drive access. Its so annoying because if i have anyone calling they can't park in front of my drive or even on it. I struggle to get off the drive as well, especially if visitors car is one of the new jeep type vehcicles, i just can't see as my car is a small one. Sorry for rant i know parking is an issue everywhere, it just really annoys me, especially if there are spaces a couple of car widths along the road!!!

Chardy Mon 03-Jul-23 14:36:32

I was fined in 2019 for parking next to a dropped kerb (I didn't see it!) by a traffic warden. Is it worth finding out if that's the case now where you live?

M0nica Mon 03-Jul-23 13:48:34

People were constantly parking across an uncle's driveway, which needed to be kept clear in case he had to rush his wife to hospital.

He rang the police, who came and gave the offending car a parking ticket. After that had been done about a dozen times, people stopped blocking his drive.

Theexwife Mon 03-Jul-23 12:35:15

MrsKen33

It is illegal to block a driveway so people cannot exit a property. Think of a fire. The police should be able to sort that out.

It is not illegal unless there is a dropped kerb.

It is not actually illegal to park on somebodies drive, it is private land and therefor a civil matter.

Bella23 Mon 03-Jul-23 12:13:08

We have this problem not with the neighbours but with people coming to the village to walk dogs or funerals!!! No car park at the church there is a car park at the other end of the village. We put stones on either side of our drive to stop people parking or large farm vehicles from turning. We were told by the parish council it was illegal and I think painting strips would be too.
I think making a nuisance of yourself as others have suggested might work or park your own car in the space for quite a few days. They will have to look elsewhere for a park.
Do you know any of the family on friendly terms to ask? We could not see when driving out and for next doors trees and they refused to prune. I waited until their son-in-law was around and approached him and he kindly pruned all their hedge and overhanging branches.

NannaFirework Mon 03-Jul-23 10:29:37

They are cheeky so and sos. This is one of my big bares!
Knock ask them to move as they are blocking your drive - they are relying on you not knocking - bloody cheek 😡

MadeInYorkshire Sat 01-Jul-23 11:28:15

I have a similar issue, the one side of my drive entrance is usually blocked by another car - I now realise why - I have a double car driveway but only 1 dropped kerb, but there is a dropped kerb a few yards up, where there is no driveway, so in fact they're doing it correctly by not covering the dropped kerb there! Not that anyone with a scooter or pram couldn't cross the road as there are dropped kerbs everywhere! Only way to sort that is to have a dropped kerb put in on my other half, but no money to do it with, but it's very irritating as in order to park on that bit and not go over the bit of grass as well really is a knack! So I always do that as others just drive over my grass and churn it up!

Hetty58 Sat 01-Jul-23 10:53:48

Frogs, - in a similar way, my son-in-law just leant on the horn until a neighbour's visitor came out to move his car. SIL yelled at him 'You're taking the (effing pee) mate, move that pile of (poo) before I do it for you!' The poor little chap went red in the face and quickly moved (to block another drive) then fled inside.

Hetty58 Sat 01-Jul-23 10:40:09

travelsafar, snap - I have neighbours with five vehicles as well. They never park on their own drive. Another set of neighbours have several vans. I don't even drive - yet I've had visitors who've been unable to park anywhere and so couldn't stay!

Here (London) it's an ever increasing problem, especially since the next road became 'permit only'. I've got two spaces on my drive - if it can be accessed - and regularly knock on doors asking them to move the vehicle blocking it!

Mamasperspective Sat 01-Jul-23 10:32:36

Is the kerb dropped where they are parking? Is your drive straight or at an angle? Do your visitors ever park in that space outside their home? Sorry for all the questions but this information is limited. If your drive is at an angle it could be part of the problem. Is your drive wide enough to park further over? Or could you perhaps reverse on to make getting off the drive easier!

Wyllow3 Sat 01-Jul-23 08:52:48

I like Lathyrus solution too. for me it would be a first port of call before involving the council etc.

Thankfully, as it can be a problem in my road, my bit has quite a few people with no or only 1 car and all houses have driveways. But there is someone who parks opposite my drive and I'm not very good at getting out, it's a narrow road, I had a word and she was nice. The being older and white hair helps a bit.....

Grammaretto Sat 01-Jul-23 08:44:40

Nation of car owners!
Unfortunately OP your neighbours are probably so thick skinned they wouldn't understand if you asked them politely.
An older lady 75 and disabled, has plenty of space outside her own house but her next door neighbour has several cars and visitors who park across her garage drive.
When she hobbles round to ask them to move, someone comes out, moves their vehicle, waits for her to move her own car and then drives straight back!

I think the loud voiced DS is the way to go, I'm sorry to say.

My DS shouted out my window recently when he saw some new neighbours (of mine) walking their cat on a lead yes really into our garden to acclimatise it to it's new area!

They scuttled off and later came round to apologise.

LRavenscroft Sat 01-Jul-23 08:20:56

I can see people pull up in front of my front drive. I open the window and start shouting at them. Where some friends lived in Exeter, if anyone parked in front of a certain matronly dragon's house, she would stride out and in a very military cut glass voice shout 'B.. orrff! waving her diamond beringed hand in a dismissive action - they would flee in terror never to return. Sadly, she is long passed but it did the trick.

jocork Sat 01-Jul-23 08:13:54

Try living opposite a primary school! I park on the road as it is unsafe to reverse out of my drive and it is difficult to reverse in as it is quite narrow. My daughter parks in the drive as her car is smaller and she doesn't use it every day as she commutes by train. I often avoid coming home when I really want to as it is school pick up time and I know the whole road will be in chaos. Inconsiderate parents ignore yellow lines and block drives regularly. Occasionally the police send members of the neighbourhood team round causing quite a panic. I ended up speaking to them to explain that I was blocking my own drive so they didn't ticket me!

Unfortunately the only time there was a visit from a parking warden it was in the school holidays and the only person who got a ticket was a resident who had popped home for something and parked outside his own house briefly during the prohibited hours knowing it was school holidays so wouldn't be a problem! If they sent a parking warden down every day for a week it would soon stop! There is even a big school car park but some parents park on the road to make a quick getaway rather than queue to get out! Entitled eh!

I once walked along pretending to take pictures of offending cars. A woman asked why I was photographing her car - parked half on the pavement over the yellow line - and when I said it was illegal to park there she said she had broken down! When I continued to pretend to photograph her car she got in and drove off! She was right opposite the school gates! Clearly couldn't walk a few feet further to pick up her child! At the time my camera phone was such poor quality I wouldn't have been able to read the number plate anyway but she didn't know that. I have a iPhone now so perhaps I should go out and cause panic again!

Oreo Fri 30-Jun-23 19:10:09

If all else fails, park across your own drive, and if they ask why then tell them.

Oreo Fri 30-Jun-23 19:09:18

Lathyrus

Just keep knocking when you need them to move.

Sorry could you just move your car so I can get out.
Sorry could you just move so I can get in.
Sorry I have to go out again.
Sorry I’m back and need you to move so I can get out in.
I’ll be going out again later.

Sorry can you move so my visitor can park on my drive.
They’ll need to get out again in half an hour.
Sorry can you move so my visitor can get out.
My son will be coming later so I’ll have to bother you again.

Dear, oh dear, it is a bit of a job isn’t it😀😀

That should do the trick.

😂

Oreo Fri 30-Jun-23 19:07:09

travelsafar

The spaces are there at this moment as everyone at work. Later on and weekends its a different story. Family one side has 5 cars and they use up nearly all the road. So my space in front of the drive is always being used by them and their visitors so no space for mine or when i want to get off drive.

They have no right to block your access to your own drive.You must tell your neighbours that this issue is causing you and guests who are visiting you problems, and would they make sure they tell their own visitors to leave your drive clear.

MrsKen33 Fri 30-Jun-23 17:03:10

It is illegal to block a driveway so people cannot exit a property. Think of a fire. The police should be able to sort that out.

Blondiescot Fri 30-Jun-23 16:44:01

I could come up with 1001 'creative' ways to make sure they didn't do it again!

Catterygirl Fri 30-Jun-23 16:36:01

Our next door neighbours just parked in our drive, presumably to avoid parking fees. We live in central London. As soon as my husband drove to work, I would see various cars parked up for hours. One day I put a notice on the windscreen explaining that it’s a private drive and they cannot use it. My husband works for a chauffeur driven company and comes home at odd times of day with various limousines and they knew this. They haven’t done it since. Their guests still park across the driveway though, blocking our exit.

Grannygrumps1 Fri 30-Jun-23 16:34:45

Report them to the council. If they are anything like ours they will be round like a shot and Fine them….. they won’t do it again.

Dilys Fri 30-Jun-23 16:26:11

I did have people blocking my driveway when I first moved in 3years ago but when I started leaving messages on their windscreens pointing out that I had to leave at short notice some days and it would be a crying shame if I hit or scraped their vehicle when trying to get past. It soon stopped.

Tweedle24 Fri 30-Jun-23 16:22:46

I think it is illegal for a car to prevent exit, but not necessarily entrance, from the drive in the UK. The police can have the offending vehicle towed

grandtanteJE65 Fri 30-Jun-23 15:02:28

There are two things you can do.

1 Check with your local police whether it is illegal to park as the neighbours, or their visitors, are doing. Last time I checked it was definitely illegal both in the UK and in all of Europe to block or partially block householders' ingress and egress from their property. It is also illegal to block access for the fire brigade or ambulance service.

2 Sum up your courage and go in to your neighbours preferably when no-one is actually parked across or partly across your driveway and explain nicely that they tell their visitors that parking this way is inconvenient to you. And if the police say it is illegal you can point that out too.

This problem is one that frequently is mentioned on gransnet, and as far as I could see last time someone mentioned the problem it is illegal to park in this manner in the UK as it is everywhere else.

It is no excuse that there is little or no parking available for visitors. If they must block a driveway, it should be that of the people they are visiting.

SueDoku Fri 30-Jun-23 14:56:36

Lathyrus

Just keep knocking when you need them to move.

Sorry could you just move your car so I can get out.
Sorry could you just move so I can get in.
Sorry I have to go out again.
Sorry I’m back and need you to move so I can get out in.
I’ll be going out again later.

Sorry can you move so my visitor can park on my drive.
They’ll need to get out again in half an hour.
Sorry can you move so my visitor can get out.
My son will be coming later so I’ll have to bother you again.

Dear, oh dear, it is a bit of a job isn’t it😀😀

That should do the trick.

This. Don't be apologetic - just smile and ask in a friendly manner each time. Good luck..!

Georgesgran Fri 30-Jun-23 14:42:57

They’re an awful family. Had a big local business and think they’re above the rest of us!
I can actually do a 3 point turn on my drive and often have to, as I’m not completely blocked in.
At least when and if their house is sold, the solicitor will make it clear where boundaries start and finish. The other thing is that when (nice) neighbours have visitors staying, they just text and ask if they can park in my top corner - it’s always a ‘yes’ as technically, I don’t need that area. A few years ago they had a 40yarder skip (that’s big) dropped up there and it cracked some of our blockpaving. Despite reassurances that they’d see to it, they never did, so we had the broken ones on our side uplifted and replaced.

It’s a shame really, as this is such a nice, little friendly development, bar them.