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HurdyGurdy Tue 22-Aug-23 22:05:24

I really fancied a roast beef and horseradish sandwich for lunch today.

All fine, until I tried to open the new jar of horseradish sauce.

I have almost no grip in my hands, so couldn't open it with just my hands. I tried running hot water over the lid, I tried both of the gadgets I have for opening jars, but I couldn't squeeze the jaws tight enough to move the lid.

I tried tapping the edge of the lid on the worktop, and I tried piercing the lid to release the pressure.

But ultimately, I think it's just down to my useless hands.

I do struggle a lot with using my hands (holding a toothbrush or hairbrush, for example, or moving pans around the cooker), but I can usually work around it.

But today just overwhelmed me and I ended up just sobbing in frustration. I ended up with roast beef and wholegrain mustard (which was an already opened jar), which was nice - but just not what I'd looked forward to.

Has anyone got any ideas on how I can open jars in future or a "wouldn't manage without it" gadget to recommend, please?

Candelle Fri 25-Aug-23 13:36:42

I was very pleased to see this thread as I struggle with opening a container of pills. Talk about 'child-proof', unless we are very lucky this little plastic jar of pills defeats both Mr C and myself.

I will look at buying at least one of the suggested tools (we have two already but they can't cope with this small plastic cap).

Thanks HurdyGurdy for the thread: I am sure it has helped many people.

missdeke Fri 25-Aug-23 13:23:06

For jars I have found this invaluable, www.ebay.co.uk/itm/404284122397?chn=ps&_trkparms=ispr%3D1&amdata=enc%3A1Vicu0F5-QH6wYArePhyNnQ47&norover=1&mkevt=1&mkrid=710-134428-41853-0&mkcid=2&mkscid=101&itemid=404284122397&targetid=1816459698125&device=c&mktype=pla&googleloc=9045041&poi=&campaignid=19097601017&mkgroupid=152525099668&rlsatarget=pla-1816459698125&abcId=9303862&merchantid=764137349&gclid=CjwKCAjwoqGnBhAcEiwAwK-OkWH1V1TyWe_9ORnOPA8RjThV8FhWN3Nbrhkdcu5XdL55rETRVf7gwBoC85wQAvD_BwE. I have arthritic hands and have tried all sorts of gadgets but this type is definitely the best.

4allweknow Fri 25-Aug-23 12:55:31

You are not alone. I struggle at times especially with wider tops. I have tried all the gadgets and they all need strength to either squeeze handles together or prise a top off. My latest one is a Brabantia. This has circular grips of varying sizes so deals with a jam to a large gherkin jar. The principle seems to be, give it a squeeze to get the jagged edge grip onto the lid then turn. Best one so far. Sure there will be an ekectric gadget out there.

MadeInYorkshire Fri 25-Aug-23 12:53:21

There are several gadgets out there as others have shown, but I find the simplest thing to use is a silicone mat, which you can also use to take things out of the oven with, and stop things from slipping! My hands are arthritic and sometimes numb, and I do have a jar opener, but find the mat easier.

Something like this ....

www.amazon.co.uk/HAUSPROFI-Silicone-Resistant-Non-Slip-Microwave/dp/B08CKK468F/ref=sr_1_6?crid=1ASKX2Q8KER73&keywords=silicone+mats+for+kitchen&sprefix=silicone+mat%2Caps%2C212&tag=gransnetforum-21&qid=1692964334&sr=8-6

glammagran Fri 25-Aug-23 12:50:33

We got this which I can on most (but not all) jars.

glammagran Fri 25-Aug-23 12:43:15

Callistemon21

You could tap all around the edges of the lid with the back of a knife.

Or buy one of these:

We recently ordered one of these and found it to be utterly useless for my painful wrists. We sent it back.

grannybuy Fri 25-Aug-23 12:43:08

I have one of the opening devices in Callistemon’s picture, but it often doesn’t work for me.

pen50 Fri 25-Aug-23 12:35:01

Another vote for a Jarkey here; couldn't manage without mine.

Suzejp Fri 25-Aug-23 12:09:30

Love the jar key

Baggs Fri 25-Aug-23 11:57:36

We have a good hard wooden step on which I bang hard to open jars. It breaks the seal and then they open no bother.

Alderess Fri 25-Aug-23 11:47:33

The jar key is the only thing I need to open new jars. It releases the vacuum and even works on those big gherkin jars with a narrow lip the grippy things cant hold

Purpledaffodil Thu 24-Aug-23 23:28:01

Tea towel in sink, inverted jar on top, ordinary knife slipped between lid and jar and pulled outwards until vacuum released. No hot water and no stabbing at lid . Friend gave me this tip and it works every time for me. 😀

Doodle Thu 24-Aug-23 20:06:25

My Jarkey has just arrived from Amazon. Looking forward to using it but got nothing to open 😊😊😊

Oldbat1 Wed 23-Aug-23 14:52:21

Another vote for a Jarkey. I used to struggle but not since having a Jar Key easy peezy - i used it with every jar now.

Auntieflo Wed 23-Aug-23 12:31:42

Jar Keys are just the job. I had one sent to me by a chutney producer, after I wrote to them explaining that although I loved the product, I could not open the lid.
Another great thing is a Baby Boa, and it is long enough to put round most things.
But nutcrackers also for things like bleach lids and mouthwash lids.
We GN's can find a solution for most things. 😊

HelterSkelter1 Wed 23-Aug-23 12:24:09

Rubber gloves have to be dry. I think I will keep an old pair specially in a drawer.

Farzanah Wed 23-Aug-23 12:20:57

Rubber gloves always work for me, even with the tightest lids. It’s like magic since I’ve discovered this!

Doodle Wed 23-Aug-23 12:15:54

I’m getting a jar key too though. Good advice thanks.

Doodle Wed 23-Aug-23 12:15:33

Jars with screw lids which are difficult to open need to be tapped sharply against something hard like a concrete step. You need to knock it hard till you hear the pressure release. I have never failed to open a jar with this method but it does need to be a hard knock against something solid.

Blondiescot Wed 23-Aug-23 11:45:43

Callistemon21

You could tap all around the edges of the lid with the back of a knife.

Or buy one of these:

I've got one of those and they are brilliant for opening all kinds of things - jars, bottles, packets.

Jane43 Wed 23-Aug-23 10:43:14

Arlme

Canalboatgranma

Hi, I have a device called a Jar Key, it looks like a bottle opener. You put it against the edge of the jar and it releases the pressure which then makes it easier to open the jar. They seem universally available, eBay, Amazon etc.

Second the jar key it is absolutely brilliant.

Another vote for the jar key, it is excellent for lids on jars but the bleach bottle tops still defeat me.

HurdyGurdy Wed 23-Aug-23 10:37:37

Thank you all. I knew I could rely on Gransnetters.

I have ordered a jar key, which hopefully will work better than the other two gadgets I already have.

I really think the issue lies with me and my silly weak hands, although I have noticed my husband and my son have struggled to open jars when I hand them over, so it's likely a combination of over tightened lids as well as me not having the strength.

If my husband/son forget to leave the bleach bottle lid loose, I have had to resort to clamping the lid between my teeth to open it!

Oldnproud that gave me such a giggle. Thank you 😊

Lovetopaint037 Wed 23-Aug-23 10:01:32

I use the gadgets mentioned but for opening toilet cleaner or bleach I always use a pair of old fashioned nutcrackers. It always works.

Bellanonna Wed 23-Aug-23 09:58:39

I use a steak knife to lever lids off. Once I hear a pop I know I can twist it off. Boiling water does work well with bottles but DH has to pinch the bleach bottles to open them. They always defeat me.

Charleygirl5 Wed 23-Aug-23 09:39:47

As I was reading this thread last night I was trying to open a tiny container of lubricating eye gel. I usually get the hospital staff to open it for me but I resorted to boiling water, simples.

It is minute and too small for all of the gadgets I possess.

I even have problems removing the cellophane a lot of jars come wrapped up in nowadays and that is before I reach the dreaded lid!

I am partially sighted so that is a great help.