... it happens.
Distressing incidents cause emotion. We should be 'allowed' to discuss it, and them.
DAR You posited an argument in abstract terms about 'absolutism' suggesting that there were no 'absolutes'.
I countered that by highlighting an actual case. That of the torture / abuse of a young child by his parent who was found guilty of deliberately inflicting cigarette burns to his body. Which, I argued, could unequivocally be said to be wrong in absolute terms. Pointing out that there were indeed "acts" as you called them, which could be deemed wrong - always wrong, absolutely wrong.
Somehow this is deemed "gossip" and an "attack" on you. I've no idea why. It was a counter argument with an example to prove it.
You gave examples of how torture could be deemed to be the only alternative. Therefore it is debatable whether it's always wrong. I said that the torture of a child cannot be the subject of an ethical debate - for obvious reasons, torturing a child is simply absolutely wrong.
Good Morning Monday 20th April 2026


