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Today is a very sad day

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Katek Wed 20-Sept-23 08:44:24

My beautiful big cat is making his final journey to the vet. He's almost 20 with kidney disease and has been failing for a while, but now refusing food/drink and not moving from the sofa. It is time. I know this is the right thing to do but we will miss him.

crazyH Wed 20-Sept-23 10:18:42

Very sad day for you and the family. flowers . I know. We had to do it for our beautiful softie Rottweiler. Called the vet to the house - all of us were beside her to say our goodbyes and of course, we were crying. But the Vet and his Asst were so disrespectful. As they carried her out to the Van, they were joking and laughing. Not very professional.

Nannylovesshopping Wed 20-Sept-23 10:15:01

So sad for you but the right time to say goodbye, I’m sure he has had the most wonderful life with you.

maddyone Wed 20-Sept-23 10:13:55

It’s so hard, but you’re making the best decision in the best interest of your lovely cat. Sending you virtual hugs and flowers

GrannySomerset Wed 20-Sept-23 10:13:12

Salad? iPad having a mad moment.

GrannySomerset Wed 20-Sept-23 10:12:17

Great picture, BigLouis, I would love another ginger cat but fear I am too old now. Very salad about this.

25Avalon Wed 20-Sept-23 10:11:32

What a beautiful cat Katek. You will miss him so so much. Today is a hard day for you and you have my heartfelt commiserations. Be brave for him. flowers

TillyTrotter Wed 20-Sept-23 10:09:10

Such a terrible decision to make Katek but it is made out of love for your beautiful Boy.
He was so lucky to have been so loved and you are doing the kindest thing for him now but many of us know how very hard it is to say Goodbye. 🐈‍⬛ ❤️
Gorgeous photo- he looked adventurous !

Naughtyneine Wed 20-Sept-23 10:04:06

It's the hardest part of having a pet...to know when it's time to let them go but it is also the kindest and final gift we can give them...in thanks for all the love they give to us. All of us will be with you in spirit today.

biglouis Wed 20-Sept-23 10:00:56

My nephew was very upset when his 18 year old cat had to be PTS a few years ago. She was having fits and had become blind. He swore he would not get another cat. Then one of his friends brought him a ginger kitten in a box and he could not refuse. Today the kitten has grown into a lordly big ginger cat with the usual stripy tail.

GrannySomerset Wed 20-Sept-23 09:53:06

Even though you know it is the kindest thing to do it still hurts. I have held each of our cats as they received the injection because it seemed important that they knew they were loved right to the end. DH could not get out of the car! Today will be so sad.

vintage1950 Wed 20-Sept-23 09:45:17

flowers I've had to have 3 cats put to sleep. The oldest was 20, like your lovely mog. A horrible business but you're doing the right thing. All best wishes.

Georgesgran Wed 20-Sept-23 09:42:34

💐. Foxy said it all. X

Witzend Wed 20-Sept-23 09:39:05

I’m so very sorry, Katek - I do know how painful and what a horrible decision it is. 💐
Once had to go through this with both cat and dog within 6 weeks, having had both for over 14 years.
The only comfort is that you’re doing the kindest thing for your pet.

Scribbles Wed 20-Sept-23 09:30:49

Here's a (((hug))) from me, too

Lomo123 Wed 20-Sept-23 09:30:34

Oh he's beautiful. Know how you feel, I had an old stray he eventually trusted me enough to come indoors. He slept in a basket back of the dining room. He passed away in the night, couple of years ago. I was heartbroken. 💐.

Smileless2012 Wed 20-Sept-23 09:21:41

Sending you (((hugs))) Katek it's heart breaking but you know you're doing the right thing flowers.

dogsmother Wed 20-Sept-23 09:15:54

Oh Kate this is 💐 for you with a cyberhug.
Was there with my 15 year old dog earlier this year and all you can do is be the best you can for him today xxxx

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 20-Sept-23 09:11:58

I’m so very sorry. Yes it is the right thing to do but so very difficult. He has had a wonderful long life thanks to you and will fall asleep knowing he is truly loved. Thinking of you and your dear boy. 💐

Sparklefizz Wed 20-Sept-23 09:11:21

I'm so sorry Katek. I know how hard it is to go through this and my heart goes out to you.

I love the photo ... he's a handsome boy and looks a cute character, and will live on in your memories and in your heart.
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ginny Wed 20-Sept-23 09:10:34

💐

Primrose53 Wed 20-Sept-23 09:08:33

It’s a huge chunk of your life. We’ve had to do it with a cat, several dogs and 2 horses and it never gets easier. Just focus on the good times you had and know that he had the best life with you.

Katek Wed 20-Sept-23 09:06:30

Thank you all for your kind words and understanding. Very much appreciated.
This is the boy when he was 12, this is how I will remember him

Aldom Wed 20-Sept-23 09:00:54

My thoughts are with you. I remember when the time came for Shosar, Rupert and finally Jemima. All dearly loved cats. I remember each one with love, as you will remember your lovely boy cat. flowers

BladeAnnie Wed 20-Sept-23 08:59:25

I'm so sorry and thinking of you today. We had to do this for our dear old boy 6 weeks ago and it left me heartbroken 💔. But remember you are doing the last kindness you can for him after a wonderful life 💐

Foxygloves Wed 20-Sept-23 08:59:16

My heart goes out to you but you have given him his best life , and when you think about it, to fall asleep in the arms of those you love and who love you best is a privilege not granted to many of us.
Sleep well, faithful feline friend flowers 🌈