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dogsmother Thu 21-Sept-23 10:11:57

Anxiety, age related, my late terrier did this in her last year quite a lot. She became quite deaf and eye sight was failing too. These thing’s obviously didn’t help. She had access to dog flap so this would sometimes be outside or inside. She was only comforted by a visit stroke and then back to bed by either of us. There was no question of dementia a very sharp little dog. Sounds like yours could be similar.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 21-Sept-23 09:22:18

Our dogs have always had beds in our bedroom. They like our company and we like theirs. I think yours wants to be with you and is trying to tell you so.

Witzend Thu 21-Sept-23 09:15:56

I don’t suppose this is what you want to hear, but when she was still quite young, our dog used to bark at night - not non stop, but enough to be a flaming nuisance.
Eventually we let her sleep in our bedroom - on the floor beside our bed.
Problem solved.

Smileless2012 Thu 21-Sept-23 09:08:15

Good advice from Georgesgran and talking to your neighbours is also a good idea bevisp1 so they'll know that you're not ignoring the problem and are trying to find a solution.

Good luck.

bevisp1 Thu 21-Sept-23 08:02:18

Thanks, maybe I’ll inform the neighbors that that’s what I intend to do. I had in earlier days did this, it’s like the dog cottoned on and then started the barks louder. I realized he thought he’d won as I’d go to see him. Just concerned about the neighbors hearing. Thanks for your advice

Georgesgran Thu 21-Sept-23 07:24:53

Kennels won’t stop dogs barking, either day or night. Dogs will bark at each other and others will join in. Remember, once kennels have fed and bedded the dogs down, they are left overnight, even if the kennel owners live on the premises.
Read your post again - ‘when I go downstairs’ - so the dog has won! He’s got your attention and knows that if he barks, you’ll go to him. I think it will take time and you might have to buy earplugs, but if you know he’s fit and well, warm and fed - you need to ignore him and he will learn that barking gets no results.
Is he a daytime barker? Never give a treat to distract him - he will think that’s a reward, so if you want to give him a biscuit, do so when he’s quiet and again the penny will drop - quiet, I get something, bark and I don’t.
It’ll take time and patience.

bevisp1 Thu 21-Sept-23 06:01:27

After a series of nights waking from dog barking, I am at my ‘teather’
It’s been going on and off since summer, so not every night, it’s random, starts with a yappy bark & can get louder to full bark. Have tried ignoring him, sometimes goes away. That isn’t enough now, just lately it’s about 3am and just when I feel something has work, half hour later starts again. This morning this has been the pattern since 2.45am. My husband has also tried, with his more stern voice. I’m currently up since 5am just to keep the quiet. Googling any reasons why this could be happening. Anything from hunger, need to go outside, maybe too much sleep in the day, lack of exercise-try taking him out for a small walk later like evening. Or simply anxiety, or fear of being alone.
I have just tried on Spotify calming music/noise for dogs! He doesn’t seem ill, when I go downstairs to reprimand him his tail is wagging and running about all around the lounge. I think he wants my attention, he has me at home a lot, even though I work 2 days.
Im adamant that he is not going to sleep upstairs in my room.
Anyone have any suggestions not mentioned other than maybe getting a dog behaviorist or trainer to help the problem. btw he was unwell last week & on medication, and could be causing him some behavior problems, but he has been all of the above way before this recent event. Also he’s had spells in kennels while we had holidays in July and august, wondered if the kennels just let dogs keep barking in the night.