I live in a terrace house. My neighbours have a new extension out the back that overlooks my kitchen. They've lived there for 15 years, are very quiet, keep themselves to themselves. But I found out their extension is a bathroom/toilet, so every evening they use the shower/toilet with light on but the window, although patterned glass can be seen through clearly - if anyone's in my kitchen they see a pink body (sometimes two) through their window. I tend to ignore it.
I've agonised over whether I should say something, drop them a note, but on asking 3 friends for advice 2 said I should keep quiet as the couple would be horrified (what you don't know won't hurt you) the other friend thought I should say something.
It's a block of terraces, so I think others may see them as well.
So, dear Gransnetter, what would YOU do? 
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