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Jaffacake2 Wed 01-Nov-23 10:23:55

Just wondered how everyone coped with Halloween last evening. Did you all have lots of little children dressed up knocking on the door ?
I put up some orange balloons on the door to show I was happy to take part and a box of sweets. Really enjoyed the evening and the children were all polite and looked great in different outfits. 50 bags of sweets given out,except one little stroppy witch wanted chocolate not sweets so didn't get anything !!

Bella23 Thu 02-Nov-23 14:22:49

No one since pre-Covid at this house.In our last a little chap used to practise a magic trick and come around showing people and a few came around dressed up in homemade costumes.
One year we were busy and did not hear the knock and the next morning saw the eggs that had been thrown at the house. DH said it was pigeons until I pointed out they nested in Spring and not usually with a date stamp on them.
I was also asked by a group of parents to take down a Harry Potter Frieze in school as it went against their religion.
As children, we had turnip lanterns, apple ducking, or tried to bite apples suspended on strings with our hands behind our backs but it was no big thing.

Jaxjacky Thu 02-Nov-23 13:50:34

Lots of excited young children in our road, delightful to see, I’m glad the rain was only light.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 02-Nov-23 12:46:31

Thank you!

ExDancer Thu 02-Nov-23 12:41:45

We used to make TURNIP lanterns for Guy Fawkes night but had never heard of Halloween and pumpkins were in fairy stories.
A few years ago our then vicar used to quote a passage in the bible that condemns its, but I really can't remember where to find it.
Personally, I just find it a silly waste of money. And this is another household where you won't find any sweeties available to hand out to unknown children who turn up expecting free treats.

Grandma70s Thu 02-Nov-23 12:26:11

Germanshepherdsmum

I was brought up in a Christian family and have brought my son up to be a Christian. Nevertheless I loved a carved pumpkin with a candle in it at Hallowe’en, as did he. A bit of fun, hardly devil worship.
No children or teenagers round here (thank goodness),

How lovely to see somebody using the apostrophe, as I do. It makes so much more sense of the word, but it’s dying out. I’m sure many people have no idea what Hallowe’en means.

Witzend Thu 02-Nov-23 12:15:24

My Gdcs attend a C of E primary, and AFAIK there’s never been a word said against Halloween. To the Gdcs (and I dare say to the vast majority of children - if not all of them) it just means very excitedly dressing up, and going out after dark to collect sweets.

keepcalmandcavachon Thu 02-Nov-23 12:01:41

Cobowich, what lovely memories for your little grand-daughters, I bet they had a whale of a time!
I'd been looking forward to Halloween since sowing pumpkin seeds last spring- 12 luscious/ugly punkies this year grin

Cabowich Thu 02-Nov-23 11:39:29

I love Halloween and got just as excited as my grand-daughters this year. The house was decorated with spooky tat, I was made up as a witch, and my grandchildren as a cat, devil, and a black-garbed lady. My daughter was a vampire, and off we went.

There were lots of children out and about. People that didn't want to be disturbed made sure their houses looked unoccupied or, even better, left a bowl of sweets outside their front doors.

The mood was pretty festive, all in all. A celebration of Autumn and all things spooky. What's not to love?

welbeck Thu 02-Nov-23 11:29:25

i'd never heard of it as a child, and only vaguely when grown up.
i don't like it at all.

Daddima Thu 02-Nov-23 11:18:13

Serendipity22

Well I've never done anything as a child regarding Halloween, I've never done anything with my children regarding Halloween and i don't do anything as a grandma regarding Halloween.

Why ? Well, the reason is i was brought up in a Christian family so that takes care of the childhood aspect and when my children were small up to this present day I have faith and Halloween goes against everything I believe in.

Last yr my grandchildren wanted to show me their costumes, i said that i was going to bed for simple fact I can't show interest in something I don't go along with.

That's my take on the matter 😃

Wow, that’s quite hardcore! None of my fellow Catholic/Christian friends have ever objected to Hallowe’en, nor have any schools I have worked in, in fact they have all done some kind of fun, learning activity.
In our small village, the children all go out guising ( no Trick or Treating here!) together, and perform something together, usually having been tutored by the older ones. I think it’s a shame that they’re all dressed in shop bought costumes, when I think of how much we enjoyed making ours ( all mummies together one evening and lots of wine!) The guisers always finish up at the farmhouse, where Mrs Farm has been dishing out cakes and hot chocolate for years!

keepcalmandcavachon Thu 02-Nov-23 09:29:12

Norah, may I please come to yours next year ? Sounds lovelysmile

Witzend Thu 02-Nov-23 09:18:16

Last year nobody came, so although I’d put a pumpkin in the window I was expecting much the same. But we had 8 in the end - last 3 being 3 hulking great teen boys, who were very polite, though.

Dh and I were obviously terribly disappointed that there were so many little packets of mini Cadbury’s chocolate fingers left over 🐷🐷.

NotSpaghetti Thu 02-Nov-23 09:14:13

Just found this:

The Feast of All Saints was originally only a local feast day to Rome. Pope Gregory III transferred the Feast of All Saints from May 13th to November 1st. Pope Gregory IV then extended this feast to the Universal Church.

Quite a lot on Wikipedia:

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/All_Saints%27_Day

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 02-Nov-23 09:14:05

I was brought up in a Christian family and have brought my son up to be a Christian. Nevertheless I loved a carved pumpkin with a candle in it at Hallowe’en, as did he. A bit of fun, hardly devil worship.
No children or teenagers round here (thank goodness),

Norah Thu 02-Nov-23 09:07:15

We'd lots of darling children over for pumpkin soup and ToT plus games and reading - delightful. We live out in the country, only our family were about.

I accomplished Halloween lunch for my husbands workers and easy biscuit sweets for them to take home to their families.

Lovely day and night!

Nannee49 Thu 02-Nov-23 08:58:45

Like notspaghetti, I seem to remember as a child that Halloween was only the slightly spooky precursor to the main events on November 1st and 2nd with the 1st being All Saint's day and a Holy Day of Obligation in my Catholic faith at that time when you had to attend Mass - very solemn & sombre - while the 2nd was All Soul's day when all the deceased in the family were remembered & honoured just as the Mexican Day of the Dead. But it was also my mate Valerie's birthday so a very jolly time in contrast was had with jellies in round fluted paper dishes & fairy cakes with icing & silver balls and lots of party games - know which I preferredgrin

Iam64 Thu 02-Nov-23 08:38:10

I didn’t put lights or other Halloween invitations out. This meant the only children who knocked were my grandsons, dressed as saviours of the Galaxy. It was so good to see them joining lots of other giddy boys and girls and so many good neighbours who made them welcome

NotSpaghetti Thu 02-Nov-23 08:32:02

Obviously most of the Christian festivals were overlaid on Pagan roots.

NotSpaghetti Thu 02-Nov-23 08:31:15

I just googled this. There's something to do with moving the All Hallows from spring to the November.

Can't immediately find it.
Presumably it was combined with Samhein at that point - but I'm nearly certain it existed separately before.

NotSpaghetti Thu 02-Nov-23 08:24:04

AmberSpyglass I think this is not the Samhein equivalent.
It was moved from the spring I think.

AmberSpyglass Thu 02-Nov-23 07:31:31

If we’re going to be pedantic, they started out as pagan festivals and were co-opted by early Christian settlers 🤷‍♀️

NotSpaghetti Thu 02-Nov-23 07:28:18

Serendipity - I think that (like Christmas and Easter) All Hallows Eve was a Christian festival that has been slowly commercialised and become largely secular.

As a child we had church services on both days, 31st October and 1st November to remember "those who had gone before us" All Souls and All Saints. I remember being told it was one of the popes (Gregory?) who brought it from Italy to Europe.

Calendargirl Thu 02-Nov-23 06:48:16

The first paragraph by Serendipity applies to me.

Had never heard of Halloween when a child myself, and nothing was made of it when my own children were young, (now late 40’s). GC have never gone trick or treating either.

Round here, unless you have a pumpkin or decorations up, no one seems to bother you, although judging by the posts on Facebook, in other parts of the town lots of T or T goes on.

Never have sweets in, so just as well we have no visitors.

Serendipity22 Wed 01-Nov-23 19:29:59

Well I've never done anything as a child regarding Halloween, I've never done anything with my children regarding Halloween and i don't do anything as a grandma regarding Halloween.

Why ? Well, the reason is i was brought up in a Christian family so that takes care of the childhood aspect and when my children were small up to this present day I have faith and Halloween goes against everything I believe in.

Last yr my grandchildren wanted to show me their costumes, i said that i was going to bed for simple fact I can't show interest in something I don't go along with.

That's my take on the matter 😃

AreWeThereYet Wed 01-Nov-23 18:44:27

M0nica

i forgot all about it and nothing happened to remind me of it.

Us too 😄 The front light came on at one point and we got up to see what had caused it but it must have been a passing cat. It was only later we wondered if a child might have wandered up, but no one knocked the door. Just as well as we had no sweets in the house.