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Do you remember pre childbirth enemas?

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Eva3 Sat 04-Nov-23 14:31:39

Back in the day when we were given an enema at the start of labour, does any one remember the three Hs ? My jolly midwife told me that enemas' effectiveness was dependant on the three Hs. High, Hot...... and what was the third?

It's niggled me for decades! Sad I know.........

recklessgran Sat 04-Nov-23 14:35:31

Ha1 Eva 0- I remember those well. I think the saying was high, hot and a helluva lot if I remember rightly!

keepcalmandcavachon Sat 04-Nov-23 14:36:41

Heinous?

Eva3 Sat 04-Nov-23 14:39:18

Sounds right recklessgran! I'll await further responses. My , you Grans are quick off the mark!

RosiesMaw Sat 04-Nov-23 14:39:28

NO-why would I want to?
Some things are definitely best forgotten!
(In any case I think it was a suppository, but I’m happy not to know)

Farmor15 Sat 04-Nov-23 14:52:16

I remember the enema for first one but not the 3 Hs.

Scribbles Sat 04-Nov-23 14:55:01

RosiesMaw

NO-why would I want to?
Some things are definitely best forgotten!
(In any case I think it was a suppository, but I’m happy not to know)

Forty-nine years ago, mine was definitely an enema, RM. Euuuurgh. Once had, never forgotten!

BlueBelle Sat 04-Nov-23 14:56:12

Yes I had enemas but never heard of the 3 H s

Gillycats Sat 04-Nov-23 14:56:23

Humiliation? My enema caused quite a rapid reaction on a large scale. I was giving birth to twins at the time in a teaching hospital so there were a lot of students in the room watching. I often wonder if any of them gave up there and then!

Scribbles Sat 04-Nov-23 14:56:54

Oh, sorry, RM. I've just realised you said you're happy not to know....sad

Joseann Sat 04-Nov-23 15:02:58

Omg, why do discussions on GN always bring back past memories - some of which haunt me to this day? It was my "job" (1980) to administer enemas to ladies who came onto the ante natal ward in a London hospital prior to going into labour. I had to shave the area first, then warm up the enema and insert. I was actually thinking how good I was at it until one day a lady presented with such bad piles I couldn't see what I was doing and I didn't want to hurt her. The trouble was I couldn't leave her on the table to go and get assistance in case she toppled off. I think I eventually accosted someone passing in the corridor to fetch the sister. Embarrassing.
I reckon it was High, Hot and Hope for the best from the operator's pov, but maybe High, Hot, and Horrific for the patient.
Sorry TMI.

sharon103 Sat 04-Nov-23 15:12:10

Oh yes Eva3 I remember having the enema with my 1st in 1975.
That was awful. I don't know which was worse, the labour pains or the gut ache.
I remember the shave as well and all the itching when it was growing back.

Barmeyoldbat Sat 04-Nov-23 15:14:55

And they use to shave all your pubic hair off and it itched like made when growing back

silverlining48 Sat 04-Nov-23 15:19:32

1975
Enema tick
Shave tick
Pain tick never forgotten
3 Hs no recall at all

Squiffy Sat 04-Nov-23 15:21:29

Oh yes, the shaving for hygiene reasons. Great idea until they cut you, which happened to me! The enema I had just resulted in some interesting musical farts! blush 🤦‍♀️

thisisnotme Sat 04-Nov-23 15:23:57

I was a midwife in them there days..
The three Hs were high hot & a helluva lot.

I can remember woman turning up the hospital door requesting the three Hs in the hope they would go into labour ‘naturally’

MrsKen33 Sat 04-Nov-23 15:29:46

Yes thank you, And shaving

Joseann Sat 04-Nov-23 15:30:13

All so undignified. When did the practice cease?

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 04-Nov-23 15:31:35

I seem to have escaped this (1985).

Eva3 Sat 04-Nov-23 15:38:12

Thank you all! As you say , some things best forgotten but we all remember the pain. My query has been answered. So thank you!

sharon103 Sat 04-Nov-23 15:39:00

Joseann

All so undignified. When did the practice cease?

My 2nd was born in 1978 and didn't have the shave and enema then thank goodness

halfpint1 Sat 04-Nov-23 15:39:47

1981 had an enema, 1983 no enema but
Wished I had, the birth was quick along with everything else

Caleo Sat 04-Nov-23 15:46:01

I had the enemas just before my labours. Would the midwives please explain to me how , nowadays, it's considered not to matter if the babe arrived soiled by faeces?
One of the enemas did not empty me properly and my horrible husband complained to me about the smell!

Calendargirl Sat 04-Nov-23 15:46:29

I had enemas both births, 1974 and 1976.

The second one was administered in anticipation of being ‘started off’ later, as I was a few days late and hospitals seemed very keen on induced births back then.

The enema propelled me into labour whilst still on the loo. I can still recall the midwife sister coming to check on me( back on the bed by then), summing the situation up at a glance, then manhandling my bed down the corridor into the lift on the way to the delivery room. I said “ Will you give me any pethidine?” “No time for that” she replied.

Our son was born about 5 minutes later, no time for DH to come or anything.

kittylester Sat 04-Nov-23 15:48:03

My first sign of labour was always diarrhoea, despite that, I always had to have an enema too.