I have, of course, done that. What has been helpful is my FB contacts have liked and shared my despairing post and I've been invited to join several useful local groups that I could not have found myself. The word is well and truly out and shared widely.
Terrible relationship with DIL - am I the problem?
Gammon joint finshed in an air fryer?
Reform UK’s Richard Tice allegedly failed to pay £100,000 in corporation tax



And of course the card would still be missing….