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What do you think is Naff?

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NanKate Fri 15-Dec-23 22:05:22

Matching pyjamas by whole family.

Opinions may vary 😀

Bazza Mon 18-Dec-23 14:43:57

Ooh yes Germanshepherds mum, I used to work for a wing commander which he insisted on using although it was many years out of date. He was a pillock as you would imagine. Also men with thinning hairlines and pony tails.

Gwenisgreat Mon 18-Dec-23 14:51:18

Slugs drawn across face where eyebrow used to be?

Gundy Mon 18-Dec-23 15:09:11

Lots of fun reading that I will have to finish later… but I do agree with so many of these posts. Lots of ridiculousness out there. Whatever happened to grace, good taste, class and style?

My pet peeves - those long fake nails, bulbous botoxed lips and fake eyelashes that
look like brooms. All female things… why do they do this to themselves?

Will have to come up with a male list. There’s stuff, believe me.

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 18-Dec-23 15:11:34

I used to live near a retired colonel, Bazza. Always used his old title and as pompous as they come. I wasn’t the only one who referred to him as Colonel Blimp.

Bella23 Mon 18-Dec-23 15:41:31

Calendargirl

And everyone has to ‘bond’ nowadays.

When I worked we were always being sent on bonding courses. Given tasks completely irrelevant to our jobs.
The children had to go on bonding courses at secondary school crawling through potholes. How does getting covered in mud, wet through and scared help you bond with each other?

4allweknow Mon 18-Dec-23 15:53:06

False eyelashes (especially the sweeping brush ones) plumped up lips, neck tattoos, false nails so long only the flat of the finger can be used to pick anything up, Christmas Eve boxes. Haven't I'm really got started - off to start a Gingerbread House.

Alison333 Mon 18-Dec-23 16:10:39

OldFrill

Old people with long hair

How old is 'old'?
What about shoulder length?
Getting worried!

pascal30 Mon 18-Dec-23 16:25:48

Old women with long hair in a plait can look fantastic or with their hair up in a french plait

grandtanteJE65 Mon 18-Dec-23 16:29:28

MaizieD

Houses lit up worse than Blackpool illuminations at Christmas. Blow up Santas.

Just wondering where the words 'settee' and 'serviette' came from and why Nancy Mitford should have regarded them with such horror that it persists for decades... grin

"Settee" was in daily use amongst my grandmother's generation in Scotland, "sofa" being considered by them to be lah-di-dah, and couch, vulgar" Did an expression such as "set thee there" for "sit down" morph into the piece of furniture you sat on? Anyone know? Yes, Chambers' Dictionary, but it is upstairs and I down, and I am too lazy to go and fetch said dictionary

Serviette is something that serves a purpose, I imagine the word does exist in French, although it may at one time have meant a cloth you wiped your bottom with rather than your mouth!

My mother used it in preference to napkin, as to her a napkin was the formal term for the homely article called a nappy in my childhood, whereas my great aunt happily distinguished between table napkins and babies' napkins and never spoke of a nappy for the last-name kind of napkin.

I doubt Nancy Mitford was solely responsible for the dislike of words like serviette - I think all Edwardians who considered themselves upper middle class scorned them.

And of course, well-educated Edwardians did tend to scorn Scottish, Yorkshire or , Tyneside or Scouse expressions, didn't they, and the farther away you got from London, the more common, in the sense of usual, these words became.

Witzend Mon 18-Dec-23 16:39:39

I forgot tattoos.
All of them.

PoppyFlower Mon 18-Dec-23 16:44:21

Fake grey/white hair.

Rainnsnow Mon 18-Dec-23 16:46:59

Body modification are a type of expression , but fashions age . The perm I wanted so much when young was thankfully no a permanent feature. I looked like I’d been in a wind tunnel. Also the magenta lipstick, again wiped off. It’s nice to experience something just not the expensive body modification that are around now . Ps I do like to look at the tattoos, lots of life stories.

Grandma70s Mon 18-Dec-23 17:22:30

When I was young it was ‘lavatory’ both at home and at school. I tend to say ‘loo’ now.

CanadianGran Mon 18-Dec-23 18:13:44

We don't use that phrase here, so I had to look it up. 'Lacking in style and good taste' says Miriam Webster.

But looking at some of the replies here, does it mean thinking something is classy when it isn't? For instance, it seems over now, but for a year or two, every young lady was going around in Hunter boots even when there was no chance of encountering mud or rain.

tictacnana Mon 18-Dec-23 19:32:11

The over long nails - FASCINATING ! How do these people function in the real world ? ( You know what I’m talking about .)

Tenko Mon 18-Dec-23 20:03:02

This is an interesting thread . I always thought naff was poor taste or style but many on here seem to associate it with being common or chavy.
Eg
Photos of Family’s in matching Christmas pjs are naff .
Men on holiday wearing football shirts, exposing a huge beer belly are chavy .
Maybe there’s a fine line 🤷‍♀️

Cressy Mon 18-Dec-23 20:21:54

Fur babies and rainbow bridge

LovelyLady Mon 18-Dec-23 21:30:05

For me it’s Tattoos that are definitely naff, cheap looking and lacking elegance. Tattoos are a complete turnoff. I listen to the arguments and the stories why folk get them, no no no tattoos please.
If a shop assistant has them, I go to the other cashier.

62Granny Mon 18-Dec-23 21:48:31

Dogs dressed in any type of human style clothing, I don't mind a doggie coat, but draw the line at Tutu , Halloween and Christmas costumes.

JustkeepswimmingDonna Mon 18-Dec-23 22:21:55

Oh god yes.... "Rainbow Bridge" 🤢

RosiesMaw Mon 18-Dec-23 23:21:06

Houses done up like Blackpool illuminations, flashing lights, coloured lights , flashing coloured lights.
Inflatable Santas I just take as ironic.

Esmay Tue 19-Dec-23 07:24:33

I quite like over the top Christmas decorations .
But my neighbour and I both suffer from migraine ( yesterday I had a real humdinger as my American friends say ) and our neighbour opposite has lights which strobe .
Negotiating with him over anything is so difficult .
He is horrendous to his immediate neighbour .

Iam64 Tue 19-Dec-23 08:24:42

I agree about false eye lashes, those talon like nails and ‘making memories’

A word of support for the cheeky elves. They’re causing chaos at our vet’s surgery, the daily reports of their antics are making me smile. They’re also running riot in my grandchildren’s homes. The children are thrilled

Norah Tue 19-Dec-23 09:34:12

RosiesMaw

Houses done up like Blackpool illuminations, flashing lights, coloured lights , flashing coloured lights.
Inflatable Santas I just take as ironic.

Do drop round Blackpool in the Fens. My elf has seemingly done up one million white lights. The lights in his rather tacky inflatables are a multitude of colours. Happy old man with happy grandchildren.

hollysteers Tue 19-Dec-23 09:47:40

LovelyLady

For me it’s Tattoos that are definitely naff, cheap looking and lacking elegance. Tattoos are a complete turnoff. I listen to the arguments and the stories why folk get them, no no no tattoos please.
If a shop assistant has them, I go to the other cashier.

I dislike tattoos too, but going to another shop cashier?
Seems rather extreme.