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lizzypopbottle Sat 16-Dec-23 20:56:40

I just saw a headline about Anthony Armstrong Jones and his regular affairs. It said he had a secret 'love child' while married to Princess Margaret.

All three of my children were 'love children' but I was married to their father i.e. my husband. I really dislike the accepted idea of a 'love child' as the product of an illicit affair. What does that say about the child or children conceived and born within the marriage?

Do you have word of phrase you dislike?

Dempie55 Mon 18-Dec-23 13:45:03

Interviewers who say “I can’t wait!” when told of upcoming book/film/album/tour. Chief offenders are Alison Hammond, Alex Jones, Claudia Winkleman. Claudia loves to say, “I literally can’t wait!” Er, yes, you literally can!

AshleysGran Mon 18-Dec-23 13:44:31

"Absolutely" - does nobody ever say just plain "yes" any more?

And "sicth" for "sixth".

cc Mon 18-Dec-23 13:36:23

eddiecat78

I'm another who doesn't like "passed" rather than died (Passed what? The salt?)
Also when a man says THE wife, rather than My wife

Yes, "passed" instead of died. So coy and meaningless.

cc Mon 18-Dec-23 13:34:05

And "bleeeeessss" said in that awful whiney voice that people use....

cc Mon 18-Dec-23 13:33:15

"Impacted". I'm sorry, I know that it is now accepted English usage but I just don't like it.

Stella14 Mon 18-Dec-23 13:30:31

Oh and ‘fell pregnant’!

Stella14 Mon 18-Dec-23 13:28:34

And oh God how I hate being called ‘Hon’

Stella14 Mon 18-Dec-23 13:27:23

Speak to (an issue)
A big Ask (WTF happened to demanding, difficult, challenging etc?)
H pronounced Haitch (it’s aitch)

Dickens Mon 18-Dec-23 13:26:39

Another irritation is people commenting on social media about a matter on which they hold strong views, and insist that it's because...

"I was always brought up to believe that...".

Or - "my mother always taught me that..."

Neither of which circumstance necessarily makes the opinion or view any more valid than one which a poster may have decided for themselves.

Dickens Mon 18-Dec-23 13:19:46

PinkCosmos

People who say, 'I don't mean to be awful but....' - and then go on to say something awful, usually about another person. Does them saying that negate what they are saying in some way?

I also agree with the passed/ angel wings/ passed away - they are dead. Plus the rainbow bridge rubbish that they say about pets.

People being 'blessed' - mostly on social media

I don't mean to be awful but

Then of course there's "I'm sorry, but..."

Why not just admit you are in disagreement with what's being said or proposed?

Chicklette Mon 18-Dec-23 13:15:43

110% There’s no such thing!
Fur babies 🤮
Passed instead of died - I’m so glad so many of you agree.
Yourself/myself used incorrectly. As Hicaz46 says, me or you. It really puts me off people when they ask me to ‘ring myself’.

I could go on - I am such a pedant I could probably write an essay on things that annoy me 😂

springishere Mon 18-Dec-23 13:14:54

Bored of, should of, could of
Sticks in my craw
I was, like ......
Gobsmacked
Myself and ..............
Give it to myself

HooteNanny Mon 18-Dec-23 13:09:01

Social construct
Holibobs
Hubby
Haitch 😱

Katcoffee Mon 18-Dec-23 12:56:22

Gobsmacked - an awful word

hicaz46 Mon 18-Dec-23 12:49:13

Passed away where have they passed to? I always say died or even worse ‘ lost someone’ where?

MaggsMcG Mon 18-Dec-23 12:42:26

Un-alived. Is just another way of saying dead. Its all to do with what "triggers" peoples mental health. I'm sorry but just changing a word is not going to make that much difference it still means the same.

Axed instead of Asked.

It is what it is - it must be a new thing coz I dont recall it being used as much before.

PinkCosmos Mon 18-Dec-23 12:33:56

People who say, 'I don't mean to be awful but....' - and then go on to say something awful, usually about another person. Does them saying that negate what they are saying in some way?

I also agree with the passed/ angel wings/ passed away - they are dead. Plus the rainbow bridge rubbish that they say about pets.

People being 'blessed' - mostly on social media

hicaz46 Mon 18-Dec-23 12:26:58

The use of myself and yourself instead of me and you ie ‘could you send it to myself’ wrong, wrong, wrong is should be send it to me.

Quaver22 Mon 18-Dec-23 12:22:12

You guys

Palpable

Being called “love” by someone who doesn’t know me!

Musicgirl Mon 18-Dec-23 11:56:27

Bella23

Another favourite pet hate used by elderly women is "She had it all taken away'" usually followed by a knowing look.

My grandparents would always speak in hushed tones about the big operation Grandma had years ago. As a young adult, l realised she had had a hysterectomy, yet still the hushed tones continued. She also referred to underwear as unmentionables.
Yes, too, to "we're pregnant" and "Enjoy, you guys."

Musicgirl Mon 18-Dec-23 11:44:57

My bad
Meh
It gives me the ick/the rage
Would of/could of/should of
Rising to a crescendo. This is meaningless as any musician knows that the crescendo is the rising.
Train station - so babyish. When did people stop saying the correct railway station?
On MN, they will often say use your words. I find this one incredibly patronising.
I am a pedant.

Grandma2002 Mon 18-Dec-23 11:42:43

"Can I get "? instead of "May I have"? Aitch pronounced with an H.
You Guys, when we are all female in a group.
No worries or no problem.
Like! at the end of a sentence, my GD does it all the time.
(Some) simpering weather people, usually women. "Hope you have had a lovely (or will have) a lovely weekend", then proceed to tell us Storm ??? is on its way.

Candelle Mon 18-Dec-23 11:41:22

'Only'. Used when writing of vast sums for very little value.

'Up to 50% off'. As in when an item is discounted by 10%.

'Lost'. When someone has died. How very careless.

'Uni'. People cannot be bothered to say the whole (oh so long...) word.

Cossy Mon 18-Dec-23 11:39:42

At the of the day, I’m sat here, with four fun babies whilst the husband is off out seeing his old Mum. Later, of an afternoon , we will be watching some awesome progs on the tellybox staring some absolute legends.

Wow! Just Wow, thank all you hons, babes and ladies for bringing me a smile, & some cringes!

Have a great rest of your lives, bless!

Holsey Mon 18-Dec-23 11:38:28

Gob smacked.