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Is this forum just for Grandmas?

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Grand2dogs Sun 17-Dec-23 12:24:09

Hi everybody this forum was suggested to me by a very dear friend who a grandmother herself has told me that brilliant advice opinions and chat is often expressed however I am not a Grandmother but a 62 year old Grandfather to my daughters dogs. Is this site exclusively for Grandmothers, if so I will not intrude any more.

nanna8 Thu 02-Jan-25 23:17:52

This is a pretty old thread and I haven’t seen the OP on here since 2023.

Doodledog Thu 02-Jan-25 23:09:03

I haven’t changed my mind on this one (although listening to views on GN does change my mind on some things).

Men and women are both people, and there is no reason why a ‘male perspective’ should differ from a female one. I welcome men on here, but lose interest when they bang on about their maleness as though it matters.

Mention it in the interests of disclosure, or just out of interest, but as far as I’m concerned being male won’t buy any special treatment grin

merlotgran Thu 02-Jan-25 22:59:45

Must go to Specsavers. 😂

Allsorts Thu 02-Jan-25 22:36:27

Grandad2 you are more than welcome, it's nice to get a different perspective on things.

tanith Thu 02-Jan-25 22:29:28

Sadly the OP never returned to the thread which is over a year old.

merlotgran Thu 02-Jan-25 21:41:30

Welcome to Gransnet.

1hotpepper Thu 02-Jan-25 21:05:02

Hi there I jumped in at 62 had children later last one at 40. I work with the elderly 60’s- 100. O don’t expect to have grandkids anytime soon or maybe at all.
There is many folks over 50 single Aunts , Uncles, and no grandchildren parents over 50. This sight appeals to me because there is true wisdom given in a forum that’s not looking to date someone or make connections like an app . A great source of camaraderie for over 50 looking for opinions , advice, life events, without the “ ick” factor - just good wholesome thoughts n opinions with a side of humor more like Erma bombeck think Grass is greener over the septic tank in a new world order of technology and hmmmmmm equality?
Glad I found this forum. Working in assisted living gives you a whole new set of eyes. I need a comedy night .

Cossy Mon 18-Dec-23 09:31:48

Many many of here us on here have much loved dogs, I’m a granny to one human and three mini Daxies, who are currently snuggled up next to me whilst Mummy is at school (teacher). I am also Mum to 4 adult children, 1 wonderful step-daughter and 1 extremely naughty cocker spaniel.

Cossy Mon 18-Dec-23 09:28:37

Welcome! All comers welcome, you’ll soon see if this is your cuppa tea! X

Bonnybanko Mon 18-Dec-23 08:42:43

This site is open to men and women over the age of 50 regardless of whether you’re a grandparent or not. It’s a great platform to vent your feelings, get advice or just chat, welcome all newbies

Elegran Mon 18-Dec-23 08:30:10

Grand2dogs Welcome. There are posters on gransnet who are neither women, grandparents nor over fifty. One at least of the posts on this welcoming thread is certainly from a man, and there may be others.

Most of the time it is not obvious whether anyone is any or all of those things or not, but that doesn't matter. The important thing is that they want to chat with other people and discuss things together.

Sometimes they mention their age, sex or lack of grandchildren when it is relevant to what they are posting, sometimes they don't.

grumppa Mon 18-Dec-23 07:47:12

Welcome.

welbeck Sun 17-Dec-23 23:19:35

the site is open to anyone; there are no joining criteria.
it is aimed at the over 50s.
welcome aboard.

seadragon Sun 17-Dec-23 22:50:19

Welcome, Grand2dogs. I have my son's dog, Molly, while he is at work or away and he says she is my favourite grandchild although I am blessed with 3 of the human variety...but I do see more of the dog than the GC as two live hundreds of miles away and the eldest is 19...and busy!! Dogs are so uncomplicated....and easily pleased. Molly keeps me fit too....

nanna8 Sun 17-Dec-23 22:42:46

Welcome Grand2dogs! Do you have dogs? A lot on here do, we get a fair few threads about them.

Oreo Sun 17-Dec-23 22:39:40

Welcome to the forum🍹cheers!

Taichinan Sun 17-Dec-23 22:37:00

Welcome Grand2dogs!

Doodledog Sun 17-Dec-23 14:32:32

I don't know that a man's perspective is necessarily different from a woman's, really. Some men and some women will agree about some things, and others won't. It really doesn't matter.

I'm not a grandparent yet, and I don't find it an issue. Most threads aren't about grandchildren anyway.

M0nica Sun 17-Dec-23 14:31:47

Grandads are always welcome and I wish there were more of you on this site.

Whiff Sun 17-Dec-23 12:59:17

A man's viewpoint is just as valued as a woman's. And it doesn't matter if your aren't a grandparent. But you have age and experience on your side . Which would be welcome on various forums threads .
Welcome and talk about what you want and give advice , support and understanding if you have been through the same things as others.

Shelflife Sun 17-Dec-23 12:53:58

Welcome !

25Avalon Sun 17-Dec-23 12:53:03

We’ve had grandads/males on here before and it’s great to get a different perspective. You are very welcome Gran2dogs.

rafichagran Sun 17-Dec-23 12:48:46

Enjoy Gransnet.

Scribbles Sun 17-Dec-23 12:48:20

I don't have any grandchildren, either, Grand2dogs but my partner assures me that, as I was present at the adoption formalities, I'm now Grandma to his flock of rescue hens!

2020convert Sun 17-Dec-23 12:44:18

Welcome!