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Looking Good - Who makes the effort?

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Jaxjacky Thu 28-Dec-23 12:41:06

WillowBreeze
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WillowBreeze59 Thu 28-Dec-23 12:37:14

What has happened Gransnet? Is it me or is everyone just seeing this on every single post?

GrannyGravy13 Thu 28-Dec-23 12:23:29

I make the effort for me and me alone, if DH benefits from this it’s a win win situation.

fancythat Thu 28-Dec-23 12:17:59

I do make a bit of an effort for DH. Not much as he is not very noticing.
But I will take notice for instance, if he says something like, "that outfit does nothing for you".

And we both tell each other if we have put on a few pounds.

Casdon Thu 28-Dec-23 12:04:08

It should be nothing to do with being in a relationship? Making the effort to feel and look good is all about us and our self esteem. I make the effort, for me.

Grand2dogs Thu 28-Dec-23 11:55:31

Relationships whether married or not are important to us all but in a relationship who makes the effort to look good or should we?. A few days ago a Grandma friend of mine said “I don’t bother for him any more, he’s lost interest” I found that strange, my wife is much younger than me and yes I make the effort. I wear things that I think makes me look good, I work out as I get beyond my 62 years I will continue. What about you guys? Do you think like me or the opposite and does it make a difference to you or is it a waster of time bothering.