Did you or didn't you? Sex before marriage!

crazyH

It’s not my place to judge the OP on this platform, I just choose to keep my experiences to myself.

My husband would be horrified if I shared such information, because it is PERSONAL and PRIVATE

I did not have sex before marriage, and not much after, either. Are you surprised I’m divorced 😂

I wasn’t on herein 2016. It doesn’t change my view that asking people for their personal sexual experiences is very unsavoury, as is relating your own first sexual experience and that of your husband with another girl. Do you have no boundaries? Do you not care what your husband and his former girlfriend would think about what you have written?

By the way all you "condemners"gn did an expert forum on this very subject in 2016.It included the statement" we are products of the swinging 60,s!

Nana75

MERYL:I can assure you I am neither "unsavoury or dim".Throwing insults is not warranted.Thanyou!

Dim I don't know, but I find the question nosey and unsavoury.

MERYL:I can assure you I am neither "unsavoury or dim".Throwing insults is not warranted.Thanyou!

No I would not share, it is private. Not open for discussion. In other words mind your own business.

Nana75

I,now feel totally put in my place,thankyou MERYL.I think we have "crossed swords"on previous threads.

Why am I not surprised.

Thing is op. Not many people our age care about other people’s sex lives.
Because basically it’s a bit boring.
We’ve lived a lot & seen a lot.
Mumsnet have a dedicated sex topic for all things sex related ( or they used to when I was on there years ago ) & trust me, they discuss everything! - but they’re a lot younger over there so sex is more relevant I suppose - not saying sex stops at 50, but it’s not a subject older people are that interested in. Generally speaking.

Exactly, it's the 21st century!

It doesn't mean some life events may get reclassified as public automatically

I,now feel totally put in my place,thankyou MERYL.I think we have "crossed swords"on previous threads.

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Nana75

Oh dear,I seem to have disturbed a hornet,s nest!And I thought we were in the 21st century!

You’re not wrong there but there is something unsavoury about a woman of a certain age wanting to know about strangers sex lives.
As I’m sure you’re aware there are plenty of sites around where you would be welcomed with open arms.
This isn’t one of them.

Isn,t it interesting!I have read quite a few posts where gn,s have discussed their partner,s/husband's ED issues.As well as those who openly discuss "how they miss intimacy" .What I would add,if you don't have anything interesting or constructive to add......maybe say nothing at all!!

grapes of gropes!!!

Not interested in the least in anyone's sex life.
Oh and I am not a prude!

grapes or gropes!!!

sounds like sour graped

"She DIDN'T need a ring or the pill" your point being?

I’m not a prude but some things are private - and I have to say I take a dim view of your sharing your husband’s experience with his previous girlfriend, about whom we have heard much from you already. Does it not occur to you that she, or someone who can identify her, might be on GN?

Oh dear,I seem to have disturbed a hornet,s nest!And I thought we were in the 21st century!

For me to know and absolutely no one else to find out.

Perv alert. 🔔