Did you or didn't you? Sex before marriage!

TMI

Crikey, do I want to know all that? No I don’t. Nor do I wish to share, thank you.

I tend to be suspicious of threads starting with intrusive questions like these.
1) because I have no interest in anybody else’s sex life half a century or more ago
2) I don’t expect to share mine with anybody else
3) I am aware of threads about grannies’ private lives and maybe loves appearing on Facebook or in the popular press.
Why would anybody want to know?

I can’t imagine why anyone would ask others or want to share. Presumably the OP is talking about her husband’s previous girlfriend with whom he recently ‘reconnected’. I wonder what he or the girlfriend would say about her post?

I agree to much information and no I don't want to share my experience.

Perv alert. 🔔

For me to know and absolutely no one else to find out.

Oh dear,I seem to have disturbed a hornet,s nest!And I thought we were in the 21st century!

I’m not a prude but some things are private - and I have to say I take a dim view of your sharing your husband’s experience with his previous girlfriend, about whom we have heard much from you already. Does it not occur to you that she, or someone who can identify her, might be on GN?

"She DIDN'T need a ring or the pill" your point being?

sounds like sour graped

grapes or gropes!!!

Not interested in the least in anyone's sex life.
Oh and I am not a prude!

grapes of gropes!!!

Isn,t it interesting!I have read quite a few posts where gn,s have discussed their partner,s/husband's ED issues.As well as those who openly discuss "how they miss intimacy" .What I would add,if you don't have anything interesting or constructive to add......maybe say nothing at all!!

Nana75

Oh dear,I seem to have disturbed a hornet,s nest!And I thought we were in the 21st century!

You’re not wrong there but there is something unsavoury about a woman of a certain age wanting to know about strangers sex lives.
As I’m sure you’re aware there are plenty of sites around where you would be welcomed with open arms.
This isn’t one of them.

Message deleted by Gransnet. Here's a link to our Talk guidelines.

I,now feel totally put in my place,thankyou MERYL.I think we have "crossed swords"on previous threads.

Exactly, it's the 21st century!

It doesn't mean some life events may get reclassified as public automatically

Thing is op. Not many people our age care about other people’s sex lives.
Because basically it’s a bit boring.
We’ve lived a lot & seen a lot.
Mumsnet have a dedicated sex topic for all things sex related ( or they used to when I was on there years ago ) & trust me, they discuss everything! - but they’re a lot younger over there so sex is more relevant I suppose - not saying sex stops at 50, but it’s not a subject older people are that interested in. Generally speaking.

Nana75

I,now feel totally put in my place,thankyou MERYL.I think we have "crossed swords"on previous threads.

Why am I not surprised.

No I would not share, it is private. Not open for discussion. In other words mind your own business.

MERYL:I can assure you I am neither "unsavoury or dim".Throwing insults is not warranted.Thanyou!

Nana75

MERYL:I can assure you I am neither "unsavoury or dim".Throwing insults is not warranted.Thanyou!

Dim I don't know, but I find the question nosey and unsavoury.