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Singles discrimination

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Jaxjacky Sat 13-Jan-24 14:20:14

Single travellers, unless it’s a holiday specifically advertised as a singles, have generally drawn the short straw for years.

Aveline Sat 13-Jan-24 13:41:45

It's only January. Surely you'll be back on the reserved list by June. People do have to cancel. I agree that it's hardly fair though. Fingers crossed that you can go and have an interesting holiday.

aggie Sat 13-Jan-24 13:28:49

I’ve paid extra for a single room , but I’ve always ended up in a double room ! Maybe I have just been lucky ?
I mean a double room , but on my own !

Katie59 Sat 13-Jan-24 13:28:08

I’ve been on a few singles holidays and refuse to pay extra so I say I’ll share, about half the time I got a single room anyway, a twin room otherwise. Only once did I bribe the guide to move me, my room mate snored.

Callistemon21 Sat 13-Jan-24 12:58:57

It is discrimination.

Hotels that do offer single rooms are rarer now and the rooms are often small, dingy and cramped.

I don't know which hotel it is but some chains do offer stays with no singles supplements.

Freya5 Sat 13-Jan-24 12:55:48

Freya5

Perhaps hotels for singles only, or perhaps couples and families should paymore to allow for the extra work, cleaning, cooking etc. Just a idea.

That's a very silly me, they already charge more than double for couple and 1 child. No breakfasts either in some places,so of course they'll pick and choose,and not worry about disappointing us single travellers.
Such a shame, and hope you get some compensation, no help I know,but may help you find somewhere more friendly.

RosiesMaw Sat 13-Jan-24 12:50:56

Theexwife

The main purpose of a business is the income, single occupancy costs the hotel the same as double, cleaning, linens,maintenance and wages will be the same if there is one or two people in the room.

They also lose income if food and drink are extra and only one person is buying.

Meals are included - well breakfast and dinner. And being a group booking I imagine as much if not more drink might be consumed than by individual couples on holiday by themselves!
If feels like discrimination to me and personally an unwelcome reminder of my status. If the group booking was accepted on a numbers basis, that should be honoured - not last one in, first bumped off!

Freya5 Sat 13-Jan-24 12:46:09

Perhaps hotels for singles only, or perhaps couples and families should paymore to allow for the extra work, cleaning, cooking etc. Just a idea.

Theexwife Sat 13-Jan-24 12:22:51

The main purpose of a business is the income, single occupancy costs the hotel the same as double, cleaning, linens,maintenance and wages will be the same if there is one or two people in the room.

They also lose income if food and drink are extra and only one person is buying.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 13-Jan-24 11:39:29

That sounds terribly unfair. Do you know if any single friends have booked this holiday, and if so how they have been treated? I would feel knocked back too.

RosiesMaw Sat 13-Jan-24 11:34:49

We are all familiar with single occupation supplements on holidays or cruises I assume and given that I am now on my own and do not want to share a room, I have no problem accepting this - even if I don’t like it as a single room is often very much the poor relation of a double.
But taking the bit between my teeth I booked to go on an Arts Society holiday in June as I would know most of the others and I was assured it was not all “couple-y”
I put my name down in good time but now it seems that the “configuration” of the numbers means there was not a single room left so I am apparently now top of the waiting list.
I feel knocked back, to be honest.
Either the organiser has cocked up, or the travel company responsible or the hotel are playing silly b*goers and trying to maximise occupancy.
Why must everything be geared to couples?
It is only when you are no longer part of one that you realise that you are a second class citizen . It rubs it in frankly that you are on your own now.
Don’t tell me about a solo holiday companies, I know they exist just as no doubt somebody will suggest taking an adult daughter or other single relative.
I enjoyed a train holiday to Germany before the pandemic, the year after DH died and it took a bit of courage like when you first go down to dinner, join a table and are asked “if Mr RosiesPaw is on his way down?”
I coped and met some lovely people who never made me feel a “spare” after that first awkward moment.
But the principle remains.
And I wonder if I want to bother.