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Maggierose Wed 31-Jan-24 18:09:46

Every time I buy my usual tinted moisturiser I always have the same conversation with the shop assistant. I buy Laura Mercier in the Nude shade. I point out that I am surprised that they haven’t changed the name of the shade because the shade is only suitable for white women whereas Nude could apply to any skin shade. They don’t really get my point; the last time I bought it in a Space NK shop I was assured that the product came in shades for all skin colours. The daftest response came in Selfridges where the assistant thought for a moment then said, “Well we do have it in Natural.” Am I being pedantic?

rafichagran Sun 04-Feb-24 18:30:00

Pippa22

For goodness sake maggierose , you must be losing the plot. The world is in chaos, maybe on the brink of WW3 and you are fussing about the colour of make up you buy. You are more than pedantic you must be really short of things in your life to get involved in. You must be really boring, get out and do something stimulating and useful, charities are always looking for volunteers.

Very rude post. People are aware of what's happening in the world, it does not stop them talking about every day things though.

Elegran Sun 04-Feb-24 18:14:24

It isn't really racist (conscious or unconscious) - which implies that the race being referred to is somehow inferior to the one doing the referring. It is the colour of the skin which the speaker or manufacturer is most accustomed to seeing nude and mentally imagines. It would be better described as old-fashioned, like mentally picturing phone boxes as red.

Scotgirlnick Sun 04-Feb-24 17:44:47

Makeup companies and tights manufacturers really need to wake up and realise that they need to change these descriptors, which are based in a subconscious racist outlook that nude skin is pink. Snag tights which fit a wide range of sizes have tackled this and call pale shades, milk bottle or coffee latte etc. referring back to 1922 and the OED , is only referring back to the lack of awareness in the past. We can do better

Madmeg Sun 04-Feb-24 17:12:44

Have I got the wrong end of the stick? Has the OP upset someone on here in the past? Surely she is just telling us about a conversation she has with a shop assistant, probably in a light-hearted manner, regarding something she imagines the assistant might be interested in and find amusing. Not expecting for it to be investigated or reported back to HO, but purely as a bit of conversation.

Surely she doesn't need to be told to get a life - she may well have a very good one, which includes making conversation with sales assistants. It's surely just chit-chat.

Grammaretto Sun 04-Feb-24 17:11:52

I have always assumed nude meant colourless/transparent so thanks for putting me right.
Not pedantic at all except annoying for the poor salesgirl but even she should be able to answer a simple question about a product she's selling

John Lewis take note. Their assistants used to be knowledgeable but not any more. I was in haberdashery looking for a particular size of circular needle. The member of staff replied with " I haven't a clue, sorry"😑

Gundy Sun 04-Feb-24 16:55:06

If you look at the Revlon display of lipsticks they have a whole color spectrum under the label of Nude(s). The colors range from light to dark - just like skin tones.

They use the term Nude to depict a look of not wearing anything of (bright or intense) color, meaning women can choose a shade as close to their lip/skin tone as they wish.

Some women who are not into full makeup still use a lipstick to keep their lips moisturized.

Personally I’m glad that trend of lifeless “nude” is phasing out. The In Look now is Intense, Bold Colors, and Red - thanks to Taylor Swift

payens1 Sun 04-Feb-24 16:44:15

Yes very!!

Missiseff Sun 04-Feb-24 16:33:18

What's it got to do with the shop assistant?

Theexwife Sun 04-Feb-24 16:04:07

Pippa22

For goodness sake maggierose , you must be losing the plot. The world is in chaos, maybe on the brink of WW3 and you are fussing about the colour of make up you buy. You are more than pedantic you must be really short of things in your life to get involved in. You must be really boring, get out and do something stimulating and useful, charities are always looking for volunteers.

With the world in chaos and far more important things going on why are you on social media reading trivial posts? Maybe you should be out doing something stimulating and useful.

Pippa22 Sun 04-Feb-24 15:51:44

For goodness sake maggierose , you must be losing the plot. The world is in chaos, maybe on the brink of WW3 and you are fussing about the colour of make up you buy. You are more than pedantic you must be really short of things in your life to get involved in. You must be really boring, get out and do something stimulating and useful, charities are always looking for volunteers.

ExaltedWombat Sun 04-Feb-24 14:55:12

Yes, 'nude' is an accepted colour description.
Yes, the name is obviously derived from it matching Caucasian skin tone.
Yes, there's an argument for ditching it, for the same reason that Elastoplast no longer just comes in 'skin tone' but in a choice of light, medium and dark skin tones, and that - taking an extreme case - 'N***er Black' is no long found on colour charts.
Yes, you're being a virtue-signalling twat for constantly raising the point with shop assistants!

fluttERBY123 Sun 04-Feb-24 14:11:46

Who cares, I love to pedant. The word nude has two separate meanings nowadays.
1. The flesh colour of the average Caucasian.
2. The state of being with no clothes on.
This is confusing and were I a black skinned person I might find this slightly irritating or even very annoying.
I don't think there is any harm in pointng out to anyone around that it is all a bit problematical.

netflixfan Sun 04-Feb-24 14:08:44

Yes 🤣

Mojack26 Sun 04-Feb-24 13:54:37

Yes

welbeck Sun 04-Feb-24 13:54:27

well, this OP works well as an advertisement;
i'd never heard of that brand name before.

Alison333 Sun 04-Feb-24 13:49:23

Yes, I agree it is a valid point but best not to harass a poor sales assistant! Write to the CEO. You can look up the email address of the CEO of Laura Mercier online.

I expect it's a product that's been around for a long time and nobody in Laura Mercier has bothered to stop and think about it.

grandtanteJE65 Sun 04-Feb-24 13:18:10

Actually, I think you are making a valid point, but as others say to the wrong people.

In these days, when we quite rightly have to beware of making assumptions or labelling things in a way that could seem racist, the only way we can avoid giving offence is if we demand that makers instead of just labelling something "nude" or "skin tone" for a shade that no woman on earth irrespective of ethnicity actually is, find some other way of describing their goods.

Stockings or make-up should come in a range of skin tones, advertised as "Find the shade that suits your skin tone" or the like.

Elegran Sun 04-Feb-24 12:52:40

It is up to the OP which topic she posts it under, but it might have been better under "Pedant's corner"

VioletSky Sun 04-Feb-24 12:37:00

Nude is a colour name, some brands do "transparent" though and that wouldn't actually be transparent for all skin tones as it does have colour to it, I know because I use it in winter

So, maybe some names changes would be appropriate

Aldom Sun 04-Feb-24 12:36:12

Lizhol77

There are more important issues to worry about than what to call a moisturiser

The post is in CHAT. OP is not worrying, she is chatting things over.
I'm sure OP knows about the state of the world etc., as we all do. But we all chat about all manner of inconsequential matters in our daily lives. We'd go mad otherwise. smile

grannybuy Sun 04-Feb-24 12:29:22

Nude, as a colour, implies the colour of bare skin. Considering that the colour of bare skin differs widely, it doesn’t really work as a colour.

Baggs Sun 04-Feb-24 12:26:21

With regard to make-up, nude for me is not wearing any at all. Keeps life simple 🤣

rowyn Sun 04-Feb-24 12:22:43

YES

Gwenisgreat Sun 04-Feb-24 12:12:52

My skin is peelly Wally it would probably suit me?

sandelf Sun 04-Feb-24 12:12:47

Pedantic yes - but right. Surely all foundation shades are 'nude' on the appropriate skin colour.