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A poignant day.

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Sago Sun 18-Feb-24 19:02:43

Our daughter was home at the beginning of the week with our grandchildren, she expressed an interest in seeing some old family documents.
Among the papers were the letters home from my husbands uncle, he was in Normandy 1944/5.
Sadly he never came home.

In the letters to his parents he kept mentioning “Littlebeck” he was asking when his parents would return and for how long, he wrote of his longing to be there with them again.

Last night we found Littlebeck on an OS map and this morning set off to hike around the area.
It’s between Goathland and Whitby in a secluded valley.
It’s hamlet with a Methodist chapel and a handful of houses, we were intrigued with the families connection and couldn’t figure out where they would have stayed, the only link was they were strong Methodists.

The hamlet is beyond beautiful, we walked and then went to the tiny chapel, there was a service starting so we stayed.
The service was led by a local farmer and his wife, they made us so welcome as did the 10 strong congregation!

It was so lovely to be in a Church where the family would have worshipped and a place that was clearly so special to them.

We learnt that the farm which has been in the same family for generations was a place of retreat for Methodists and they had a very strong connection with Hull, the farmers wife is going to dig out the visitors books from the era and see if she can find them.

My husband had never heard his parents or Grandparents mention Littlebeck so we can only assume it had been too painful for them to return without their son.

It was a very special Sunday.

Bette72 Tue 20-Feb-24 20:43:34

Oh I know,we all say that too. I know all of the places you mention very well.

Summerfly Tue 20-Feb-24 23:19:31

Such a lovely story Sago. Thank you for sharing.

Pearl30 Wed 21-Feb-24 00:04:17

Thanks for sharing your lovely story Sago. I too enjoy visiting places where past generations of my family lived - not too distant from yours mentioned.
Have you visited the Commonwealth Wargraves Commision’s website - www.cwgc.org/ ? You may find information on your husband’s uncle here.

Nannan2 Wed 21-Feb-24 00:05:08

Might try find it next time im at whitby.

Nannan2 Wed 21-Feb-24 00:06:29

Thank you for sharing a piece of your family history.

Sago Wed 21-Feb-24 08:46:09

Pearl30

Thanks for sharing your lovely story Sago. I too enjoy visiting places where past generations of my family lived - not too distant from yours mentioned.
Have you visited the Commonwealth Wargraves Commision’s website - www.cwgc.org/ ? You may find information on your husband’s uncle here.

We have lots of information on the Uncles war.
We visit the chateau where he died and pay our respects at his grave most years.
He died in a battle that was well documented, a lot of his men wrote to his parents after his death giving details.
My husband is named after him and our youngest son was born on his birthday.

Sasta Wed 21-Feb-24 11:37:10

How touching. What a lovely way to remember and honour your relatives. Thank you for sharing your family story 💐

Sago Wed 21-Feb-24 13:48:31

Here is a picture of our granddaughter visiting the grave for her first time.

“Into the mosaic of victory I lay a priceless piece, my son, so did the Father of us all” is the inscription on the headstone.
I hope that future generations will visit as we have.

Our sons as part of their history learning were given the name of a soldier from a headstone and had to research and follow their war.
At the end of the term they visited their soldiers grave and laid a poppy.

The Commonwealth War Graves Commission do such a wonderful job, the cemeteries are immaculate and peaceful places.

We once sat and ate our picnic in a WW1 cemetery on the Somme, a party of schoolboys arrived with their teachers and each read a war poem.
We were all so moved, the boys who were 6th formers were holding back the tears.

Such respect.

Sago Wed 21-Feb-24 13:48:58

Forgot the photo!