Mel1967
I don’t think that it’s anyone’s business, but her own.
There is more to life than work.
I remember, quite well, being told that life is too short and one only lives once - when I commented a year or so ago that no we wasted not a penny when we were young, no concerts, no trips to the Canaary Islands, nada.
So, which way is it? We were careful young, are quite careful with money as elderly. Posters can't have it both ways, can they?
As long as people earn enough to support themselves - I don't care, at any age. But don't whinge on about money if saving is neglected. Note, I didn't imply all can earn and save, just try.