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soop Mon 01-Apr-24 17:49:04

Here we are again...all good pals and jolly good company.
Enjoy the celebration buffet. Please continue to make our kitchen a special meeting place.

A group hug awaits every Granspal.

flowers sunshine cupcake wine and LOVE.

brook2704 Tue 11-Jun-24 17:31:37

A busy kitchen today, it’s so lovely to catch up on everyone’s news
Good to hear you are improving neine fingers crossed you’ll be ok for the big day on the 27th
So sad grannmarie, far too young
You’ve been very busy Blossoming hope you can enjoy a rest later
I’m pleased to say we actually saw some sunshine here today, not for long but it helped dry the washing and it was such a welcome change from the grey clouds
Thinking of everyone, especially nannyG4today, take care all x

Blossoming Tue 11-Jun-24 16:35:03

Good afternoon Kitchen friends. We have been busy today with shopping, laundry, bathroom cleaning, etc. The burglar alarm has been serviced and battery changed. MrB has been to a local farmhouse cheese maker so it’s cheese on toast for tea later. I have been keeping fit by going up and down the stairs several times, mainly because I forgot something grin. I have been counting my blessings and feel grateful that I am still able to do these things. I really don’t have anything to moan about 😎

Yiayia what a terrible shock that must have been. I hope the scans go well and the reason for your DH’s anaemia is soon diagnosed. The NHS is at its best at times like this. Massive virtual hug for you and your family ♥️

Sending love and strength to those going through difficult times, TOYA as always.

soop Tue 11-Jun-24 15:49:58

No one in the village knows the cat we call Sweetie Pie. He does look well. He never ever makes a sound. We cannot get too close...just close enough to place the bowls of food on a mat within reach.

I note that our kitchen will, in the not too distant future be closing. I shall keep a close watch and prepare for the opening of our new gathering place.

smile moon

Hellogirl1 Tue 11-Jun-24 15:42:18

Sweetie Pie does indeed look very well for a feral cat, are you sure he`s not spinning you a yarn Soop?
Billy`s medical scheme covers 2 check ups per year, his flea and worming medication, and some, not all, other medications.
I`m beginning to feel very old now, with 8 great grandchildren and another on the way!

Ladyleftfieldlover Tue 11-Jun-24 14:30:47

Sweetie Pie does not look like a feral cat!

soop Tue 11-Jun-24 14:20:44

A very warm welcome to HelterSkelter1

Yia I am sorry to hear of your dear husband's worrying symptoms. Please keep us updated regarding the scan result. flowers

I am well behind with all the messages that keep our kitchen humming. You lot are the finest Grans (in my humble opinion). wink

Thank you for the beautiful photographs. I have two to share with you. The "chick" seated in the cleft of the branches, we thought might be a thrush. However, a blackbird feeds it. So we guess it is a blackbird. Sweetie Pie, our visiting feral cat, has been absent for a few weeks. This morning, he graced us with a breakfast time visit, ate heartily and departed with as much as a meow. hmm

annsixty Tue 11-Jun-24 14:05:23

I am just reading my novel with my after lunch cuppa and a character said a phrase I had forgotten.
“ everything is fine until it isn’t “
I think that sums up life for many of us presently.

Grannmarie Tue 11-Jun-24 13:43:58

Doodle 💐
NannyG4 💐
Baggs 💐
Thinking of you all.

Doodle Tue 11-Jun-24 13:37:07

neine thank you.
NannyG hoping you have the strength you need to get through this time. Some peaceful walks by the sea will help.
Thinking of you x

Grannmarie Tue 11-Jun-24 13:36:50

Good afternoon, Soop and lovely Kitchen people. I was at a funeral Mass this morning so I'm just catching up on the Kitchen news.

YiaYia, I'm so sorry to hear that your DH is ill, thank goodness you managed to get home quickly and safely. There will be other holidays. Hoping and praying that your DH will be diagnosed and treated promptly. Thinking of you both. 💕🙏

Neine, it's good to hear from you. You've still got 18 sleeps til your special day, I'm hoping and praying that you will be much improved by then. You are very welcome to join Jaxjacky, Rosie'sMaw, me and several others in The Wonky Knees Club!

The funeral this morning was for the 39 year old daughter of my brother's childhood friend and his wife. A beautiful Mass, the Church was full, so many young people. Our new P.P. and Deacon spoke very movingly about the young woman, may she rest in peace. I was honoured to participate in the Liturgy by reading the Bidding Prayers. May God bless and comfort her poor parents and all who loved her. So very sad.

Annsixty, I absolutely agree with your wise words. This Kitchen is indeed a blessing.
Thank you all for being there, in joys and in sorrows.

TOYA, wishing everyone the best possible Tuesday. I'm going now to visit my sister and her baby granddaughter, she's a wee tonic who will lift my spirits.

Doodle Tue 11-Jun-24 13:34:39

Yiayia what a shock for you. DH had the same thing early last year. They did all the tests but never found the source of the bleeding. The cause they think was a particular blood thinner which he’d been given for heart failure. They stopped that and after a couple of transfusions he was fine.
Of course you are worried but they are on it now and will keep monitoring him. Hope your DH feels better soon.

Yiayia4 Tue 11-Jun-24 11:48:57

Thank you all so much for your kind words it does help.
I managed to get the last 2 seats for the Sunday flight so yes we were lucky to get back home.Scans have been arranged for tomorrow.

Jaxjacky Tue 11-Jun-24 10:54:57

I’m not surprised you’re in shock Yia how very scary and well done getting back home, hopefully the cause will be found and swiftly treated, take care.
We were late back from quiz last night and it took me an age to get to sleep, so a tardy start to today finishing off yesterday’s voluntary work.
It’s very fresh, well no, it’s cold, ridiculous for June.
Good on you for driving corner needs must sometimes and we get on with it. I have happy memories of Hayling, but the summer traffic was a pain
Good you’re progressing neine my knee still reminds me of my incident in February on occasion, we don’t bounce so well now.
NannyG4 I’m glad you’re finding some solace in the sea, such a difficult time for you in a sort of limbo, I’m glad you found the kitchen x
Anyway, perhaps a quick vacuum will warm me up instead of sitting on my btm!

annsixty Tue 11-Jun-24 10:07:14

Good morning all from a dull but slightly warmer Stockport.
Yia such a shock for you and having to leave your holiday early.
A friend had similar anaemia results and it was bleeding from a stomach ulcer.
After treatment she recovered well and I pray that your H will do the same once diagnosed.

Neine how kind of you to comment on all our doings, my memory won’t allow me to do the same, I would take ages going back through posts and jotting down but my thoughts are with each and every one of you.
I am aware that some of you are living through very worrying and difficult times.
This thread with such lovely virtual friends is a blessing to offload our thoughts and worries.
Now, have the best day you can everyone.

Naughtyneine Tue 11-Jun-24 09:42:43

NannyG...the sea is my go to when I need to take stock of what's happening in my world... Many times a I've walked along the south beach in Tenby with the wind blowing a houli and tears pouring down my face ....and always it brought me a kind of peace. I'm glad it did the same for you. You and your family are in my prayers.
Doodle...Out of a sad day it seems that some happiness was found... Nothing can take away our precious memories... and love endures.
Baggs. Prayers for you also... You are a very brave lady.
Brook...I hope your little one is improving now...they go down so quickly don't they...but unlike us perk up so quickly too.
SueD....Your words...he's living a near normal life about your DS made my heart sing....long may that continue.
Yia... Thank God you are back on familiar ground and investigations are being done. Prayers for you both.
Corner... I'm sorry MrC isn't too good either... They really don't like giving up control of driving when when they are unwell do they...I hope now he's home he will feel much better.
Jax....glad you had a good time away.
Grandmarie... Yes you are so right... Life can change so quickly... Thankfully sometimes for the good as well ( unexpectedly meeting my DOH at 64 and finding love and life like I never knew it could be..)
Prayers as always for you and your loved ones.
Blossoming... You too are amazing...always upbeat in spite of all you contend with....💐
Urms... Much deserved happy times for you and Mr Urms...and plenty more to come I hope...I to hope you have kept a curl from little Miss.
Ann... The food sounded lush and it's lovely to read that you enjoyed yourself.
LlfL...fleas like nits in children throw me into an orgy of checking every 5 minutes...industrial strength treatments ( not really but you get the picture) and anything that has come into contact with them being boil washed into an inch of it's life.
I didn't post after I came out of hospital last week as I was a real Mrs Grumpy...I don't think the morphine helped so I stopped it and am now on Codeine ( GrandmaB.... Thoughts of your little GS and his predicament are on my mind!!!!!)
My knee was and is very painful but I refuse to give in and the washing was done within a few hours of being home and lots of planting has been done ( Albeit with lots of sit downs in between). I couldn't take the final 1st Communion prep class as I looked too scary...( Think wicked witch of the North in the Wizard of Oz and you'll get a good idea of the colour of my face) Today is day 10 and the bruises are fading now...I just look as if I've been in the sun wearing sunglasses and had a smack on the jaw too🤣🤣🤣 I'm off to get my hair done( I'm being driven as I'm not allowed to drive yet). Hopefully I'll be transformed into something that sort of resembles a human again...I know it's only a civil ceremony on the 27th but I'd like DOH to vaguely recognise the person he's marrying.

brook2704 Tue 11-Jun-24 09:23:26

Oh Yia so sorry to hear your DH is so poorly, I hope the iron infusion has helped he gets well again very soon ❤️

Grandmabatty Tue 11-Jun-24 09:15:09

Oh Yiayia I'm so sorry to hear your news. I hope they get to the bottom of it. I wish your dh well

HelterSkelter1 Tue 11-Jun-24 07:55:17

A friend's Dh approaching 80 had severe anaemia recently with similar symptoms. He also had an iron infusion. The hosp thought it was an internal bleed and he had a colonoscopy and gastrocopy, but neither showed anything suspicious. He has now vastly improved.
I hope your DHs tests go well and are helpful in diagnosis. Best wishes.

NannyG4 Tue 11-Jun-24 07:47:04

Thinking of you and your DH Yiayia4.....I know how you are feeling
my DH is very poorly with heart failure...
I hope you get some answers after the scans etc and can put your minds at rest.
I have to say the support I've received on this lovely thread has lifted my spirits..... Stay strong and dig deep.
With much love...

RosiesMaw Tue 11-Jun-24 07:39:26

Ladyleftfieldlover

I used to pay £11 per month for each cat. It didn’t cover the annual checkup or de-flea etc., or inoculations. It basically covered emergencies. So I stopped paying and a few months later Milo got in a fight and the bill was huge. They are now nearly 14 (72 in human years) so I imagine insurance would be quite high.

I didn’t mean insurance - that’s astronomical (just gone up from £74 to £90+ per month) but then, so are vets bills. Rosie’s dental procedure (3 teeth out) recently was just over £800.
But the “Health Club” probably breaks even.
Yiayia how wise of you to come home - and lucky you were able to. I hope his iron infusion (and possibly also a unit or two of blood?) will make a difference and that they get to the bottom of the problem.
NannyG4 this is a hard time for you I hope you can recharge your batteries with the GC and have something to make you smile too.
A trip to M&S today for a cuppa and a change of scene with a friend who has just lost her 51-year old daughter. She is still numb but being very competent and brave- I am worried about what will/may happen when the funeral is over and the adrenaline subsides.

Yiayia4 Tue 11-Jun-24 07:09:53

Hello Soop and dear Kitcheners.It very early but I’ve been awake for hours.

We had to leave Corfu 2 weeks early and arrived home on Sunday evening.DH became very unwell struggling to breathe and couldn’t even walk more than a few steps.We spent all day yesterday in A&E.At first they thought it was heart failure as he has a heart condition.However, it seems he has severe anemia causing the shortness of breath,this has happened over the last few months and they are concerned he has a bleed somewhere.He was given an iron infusion and has to go back on Friday so see if it’s helped or not!Also scans and scopes in the next 2 weeks.

We are both very scared and shocked and as SueD said ‘Life can turn on a sixpence.’
The NHS have been brilliant as have my sons giving support but,it helps to off load a bit on here as I know many are going through similar.Take care .

Pittcity Mon 10-Jun-24 23:46:01

It's late but GN is once again full of weird threads.
So I'm keeping safe here in the kitchen.

NannyG4 Mon 10-Jun-24 22:30:11

Good Evening Friends...

Thankyou again for all your good wishes it really does help.

I went for a walk on the beach this morning... wet and wild, but loved it, I stepped straight out of bed into my clothes and off I went ... Nobody knows me here... Who cares ! So uplifting ...

I really hope you've been able to have a good day, under your circumstances and have snatched at least a little happiness and smile....

Love to you all..... xx

Grannmarie Mon 10-Jun-24 22:27:16

Hello 👋 Hellogirl!

Ladyleftfieldlover Mon 10-Jun-24 22:24:08

I used to pay £11 per month for each cat. It didn’t cover the annual checkup or de-flea etc., or inoculations. It basically covered emergencies. So I stopped paying and a few months later Milo got in a fight and the bill was huge. They are now nearly 14 (72 in human years) so I imagine insurance would be quite high.

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