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What to buy for 18th birthdays?

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Katek Sat 20-Apr-24 10:28:38

Two of my grandchildren have their 18th birthdays in the next few weeks and I am totally stumped as to what to get them. Days of commemorative gifts such as watches, lockets etc are long gone, they have everything electronic they could ever need, both have part time jobs so are reasonably flush and both also have small cars after passing their tests earlier in the year. Parents have continued to top up the Government Trust Funds which were issued when they were born so first year university costs are covered. I'm stuck ....... any ideas??

Georgesgran Mon 22-Apr-24 18:15:07

The £3K was a gift from GPs. It was supposedly for her 18th, but we asked for it earlier to pay for the car - which they were happy to let her have.
Saving just £50 a month will give well over £10000 to a grandchild at 18.
I suppose a lot depends on the amount of children/grandchildren one has.

Grammaretto Mon 22-Apr-24 18:50:30

I cannot understand why cars are considered a suitable gift for teenagers.

Surely we should be reducing car dependency and encouraging public transport.

I love the idea of commissioning a portrait.
If they have a love of anything from animals to sport, music to art, there are endless ideas that don't have to involve large sums of money.

Katek Wed 24-Apr-24 18:29:26

I've decided to go down the experience road for both dgc with a small token gift each as well. Dgd has a Pandora bracelet so a nice charm for that is on order. Dgs is assembling a full Highland dress outfit with pieces coming from assorted relatives. Decent kilt outfit is well over a £1k so we're buying the two sgian dubh. There are loads of fantastic outdoor experiences around Inverness so I think we're going for a day's climbing instruction - they're both very sporty/physical as are most of the family(except myself and Grampy!) Dil has just completed her 200th Munro!!
I'd love to encourage use of public transport Grammaretto but we only have a bus service every 2 hours and you can either go north or south. That's it! Most of the kids here learn to drive at 17 out of sheer necessity, all of ours did.

Katie59 Thu 25-Apr-24 11:14:04

Grammaretto

I cannot understand why cars are considered a suitable gift for teenagers.

Surely we should be reducing car dependency and encouraging public transport.

I love the idea of commissioning a portrait.
If they have a love of anything from animals to sport, music to art, there are endless ideas that don't have to involve large sums of money.

If you’re living in a rural area a car for getting around is pretty much essential and an old small car (or motorbike) makes life bearable because there’s is no alternative. However there should be strict rules when they can use it and who they can carry, they need to get experience and it is no different wether they are 17 or 21 they are just as likely to have an accident.

Grammaretto Thu 25-Apr-24 12:01:35

I thought my comments would annoy some people and they weren't aimed at anyone in particular.

When I hear of teenagers being given a car for their birthday it just reminds me how everytime we have the COP conferences, and Paris agreement about Climate change, there are commitments made to reduce car use and we ignore them.

Driving lessons by all means but why not share a car?

annodomini Thu 25-Apr-24 12:39:34

DGS was 18 last August. He is already saving in an ISA so I knew cash would be safe with him. He has now bought a car - with a bit of advice from his Dad (my DS2). I think he did quite well in A-level Economics and Business Studies!