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Who have you spoken to today?

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zakouma66 Thu 30-May-24 18:22:22

Research into so called Blue Zones indicates that connection is important.

Today, I spoke to a neighbour who was washing his car, an acquaintance in a charity shop, another neighbour who was closing her gate, somebody I haven't seen for years and my hairdresser.

Not bragging, there are days when its down to zero.

henetha Mon 10-Jun-24 23:28:58

Coffee and chat with neighbour.
Doctor's receptionist.

Witzend Mon 10-Jun-24 20:05:47

The postman.
The woman at the post office.
Swedish friend, over the phone - who told me the rain was bucketing down in Stockholm.

Norah Mon 10-Jun-24 19:26:21

My husband, our dogs, one daughter & GGG, our accountant.

AskAlice Mon 10-Jun-24 19:22:29

DH
Tortoise - contrary to popular belief they DO have ears, although their hearing is not brilliant (a bit like DH really!) She looks up and wags her head at me when I speak to her so I know she's taking it all in grin

DD1 normally phones most evenings to chat about what we've both got up to during the day. Just waiting for her call.

I'm quite self-contained so don't mind too much if I don't have contact with loads of people during the day. Happy to pass the time of day with neighbours if I see them, and thankful that I still have DH to keep me company if we happen to be in the same room at the same time, and in the evenings.

JamesandJon33 Mon 10-Jun-24 19:07:14

DH
Delivery man
3 neighbours plus 2 of their husbands
1 neighbour’s friend
My aunt
My sister
My DD

HowVeryDareYou2 Mon 10-Jun-24 18:44:05

today -
in person -
husband
friend
several ladies at aqua aerobics

text-
brother
1 DIL
2 other friends

Those of you who don't speak to anyone at all - AgeUk and Relate have a telephone friendship service, where a volunteer would ring you once a week (I used to volunteer). Just a thought.

MissAdventure Mon 10-Jun-24 16:26:15

Ah, that's miserable for you. flowers
It really makes a difference if people are kind, even of they're rushed.

And as for leaving soiled dressings on the floor... angry

Celieanne86 Mon 10-Jun-24 16:15:36

District nurse who came to dress my very sore foot apart from Good morning silent removal of the dressings commenting yes looking much better dear I’ll just put another dressing on and see you on Thursday, take care, bye 😵‍💫 Eleven minutes from start to finish and that included leaving the soiled dressings in a bag on the floor. I know they’re busy but that that was a bit of a knock back for an 86 year old in pain. I was so taken back I phoned my friend to have a moan and it went to answer phone, just not my day 😥

Greyduster Mon 10-Jun-24 15:51:44

No-one, if you don’t count my plants (we have a little chat every day), and the birds that are eating my plants (who get told off but don’t give a fig and just go on eating!).

Kate1949 Mon 10-Jun-24 14:44:40

In person -
Husband
Daughter
Granddaughter
Granddaughter's boyfriend
Cashier in Asda
By phone -
A friend
My brother
By WhatsApp
My two sisters

kittylester Mon 10-Jun-24 13:38:09

DH
Fellow customer at M&S
Dave the plumber

My friend's widower by phone

WhatsApp

My cousin
DS1
DD2
DD1
DGS3
DB x2
DN
Not so darling BiL.
Fellow volunteer

silverlining48 Mon 10-Jun-24 10:34:52

Busy day today…

Spoken to -

Dh- a man of few words
Physio - 10 minutes
Cleaner - still cleaning so won’t disturb her grin

Charleygirl5 Sun 09-Jun-24 21:20:08

Nobody

adrisco Sun 09-Jun-24 20:52:07

Daughter - on phone

Marydoll Sun 09-Jun-24 20:27:51

Husband in person
Daughter in person
Virgin Media 1 hour on telephone 😡😤😭
Virgin media again 1 hr on telephone😡😤😭🍷🍷🍷

HowVeryDareYou2 Sun 09-Jun-24 20:19:00

Sunday -
in person - my husband
text - brother, 1 friend, both DILs

Cabbie21 Sun 09-Jun-24 18:06:07

My son and daughter-in-law.
The lady who greeted me and said goodbye at church.
Text to/ from daughter and granddaughter.

DrBenjaminMc Sun 09-Jun-24 07:20:13

Family
office colleagues

nanna8 Sun 09-Jun-24 05:19:54

Around 20 or so at church this morning because I was rostered on doing the catering plus husband and one of the daughters on the phone. Usually not so many but this last week has been very ‘social’

henetha Sat 08-Jun-24 23:13:09

Absolutely nobody today. 😒

Marmight Sat 08-Jun-24 23:07:35

Daughter
Son in Law
Grandson
Granddaughter
Their dog
Their next door neighbour
Next door neighbour’s dog
Granddaughter’s friend
The dogs had more to say than the humans 🤣

swampy1961 Sat 08-Jun-24 22:22:26

Husband
Friend
Boss
Numerous customers!!
The cat!!

M0nica Sat 08-Jun-24 19:01:59

DH, then half a dozen neighbours at a plant sale in someone's garden. DD on the phone.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 08-Jun-24 18:02:10

I forgot to mention talking to myself …

DanniRae Sat 08-Jun-24 17:57:33

Mr R in person
My younger daughter on the phone