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RosiesMaw Sun 09-Jun-24 19:16:30

Not a problem I have experienced before but since my knees decided to go on strike I have become aware of how LOW some (public) loo seats are.
I had the pleasure of the loos at Euston Station, Pizza Express in St Martins Lane and the Coliseum yesterday.
There was no way I could have used the disabled loos (radar keys needed) but normally I have no compunction about using one if available and free, the seats are higher and there is usually a bar or something to help you stand up again.
So the verdict
Euston 8/10 . Fine, nothing to help me up but I coped.
Pizza Express 7/10 A bit lower but a strategically positioned loo roll box helped me steady myself
The Coliseum -4/10, I really thought I was there for the night. The lowest loo I have ever encountered, it would have suited a 5 year-old . Nothing on the sides of the cubicle to help either.
I kept telling myself “You can do this” , leaning forward and trying to stand upright but failing.

Clearly from the fact that I am here, I did effect an eventual escape but only after some uncomfortable moments.
I’m not yet at the stage of needing the sort of raised loo seat frame with arm rests that DH had in his last years , but
Down with dodgy knees and UP with loos .

(Please.)

2oaktrees Thu 13-Jun-24 12:45:48

Why dont you all just stand over loo?

Polwal Thu 13-Jun-24 12:45:47

That's so handy to know about premier inns..My 93 year old dad lives with us (we have all the disability aides here) but know if ever we went away overnight it would involve lots of research. Rooms that are joined would also be helpful but doubt they do that.

GrammarGrandma Thu 13-Jun-24 12:44:31

Oh, Gawd - another indignity of old age to look forward to!

Spuddy Mon 10-Jun-24 11:31:00

I bought my RADAR Key from coopersofstortford.co.uk for £6.99 and they delivered it in a neat little package only 3 days later!

But some TIC's have free ones.

Spuddy Mon 10-Jun-24 11:28:25

I know exactly what you're saying!

I don't know about the big places like London as I never go there but in other areas I've noticed it's really awkward and painful for me with my rheumatoid/osteo and painful back to sit on a loo because some are so low! I just have to squat over then ''throw'' myself on, clenching my teeth tight as pain rips through me then the same to stand up, rocking back and forth!

Thankfully I have a RADAR Key but not everywhere has disabled loos!

We're lucky where we live because there's normal loo's but there's also a disabled one at the TIC just over the road from the normal ones and I find I don't have any problem with the height of the normal ones!

Shelflife Mon 10-Jun-24 11:25:40

Thanks Nan Kate , I too have IBS , husband has Alzheimer's so this will be invaluable - just ordered one .

Granmarderby10 Mon 10-Jun-24 09:09:49

I had been thinking the same about low slung loos mine is relatively new so I’m wondering why anyone would go out of there way to install one such, Is there some hidden benefit to them being so low?- that is apart from those in an infant school🤔

NanKate Mon 10-Jun-24 07:43:04

Disability Rights U.K. is where you can buy an official Radar Key. No questions are asked when purchasing. I have IBS so having a key like this takes the worry away of finding an available loo. I take the key with me everywhere.

RosiesMaw Mon 10-Jun-24 06:53:48

You have no idea how reassured I am by all your posts!
Given that it’s not your average dinner table topic, I was worried it was “just me”. What a relief!(See what I did there?) gringrin

nanna8 Mon 10-Jun-24 06:49:38

Thanks grandMattie I haven’t heard of them. We tend to be a bit behind with things like that.

Grandmabatty Mon 10-Jun-24 05:51:12

Bump

grandMattie Mon 10-Jun-24 05:15:22

A radar key is one you buy so as to be able to unlock disabled loo doors.
Oh SueDonim, 🤣😂🤣 - it’s just the sort of thing I’d do!

Bigred18 Mon 10-Jun-24 04:06:02

I'm still laughing SueDonim! Hilarious but so easily done.

nanna8 Mon 10-Jun-24 02:00:58

What is a radar key ? I don’t think we have them here.

maddyone Mon 10-Jun-24 00:06:03

SueDonim

I used a loo in Edinburgh airport recently and it was incredibly low, I sat down with a thud! blush Although I don’t normally have a problem standing up this was a challenge. As I left the cubicle I spotted the sign on the door which said Children’s toilet. 😂😂

Oh Sue, you made me laugh 😂

annodomini Sun 09-Jun-24 23:52:23

When I had my flat fully refurbished last year, I specified a higher level WC. Now, when I visit friends and family or use a loo in a public place, I congratulate myself on my foresight!

Scribbles Sun 09-Jun-24 23:47:44

My late husband had knee problems and, when we moved to this house, just about the first thing we did was to have both of the trendy, low-down, square loos (Square loos! What was that daft fashion all about?) removed and replaced by the highest ones we could get. Bliss! One of the best, simplest home improvements we ever made. Now, I dislike going anywhere else where the loos are "normal".

Blossoming Sun 09-Jun-24 23:14:36

I’m having our on suite shower room ripped out and replaced as it doesn’t really work for me. Lots of useful tips here regarding choice of sanitary ware.

In addition to my radar key I also have a MacMillan card on my key ring to show to shop staff and others if I need to go urgently when out and about.

Marydoll Sun 09-Jun-24 22:32:51

Whiff, we had a disabled room in a Travel Lodge in Edinburgh.It was so roomy and plenty of room in the shower to move, as opposed to some of the cupboards we have experienced.
A few years ago, while on holiday, I had to give up showering, as the shower room was so tiny, I couldn't get in and out of the shower.

Whiff Sun 09-Jun-24 22:25:53

Radar keys can be brought on eBay cheaply. I brought a pack of 3 with large blue head as my hands tremble and have problems with small things like buttons.

When I had my shower room done I had an Ease toilet looks like a normal loo but it's taller. I had a handle on the wall fitted at an angle so it's easy for me to use to get on and off. I am 5' 2" and my feet dangle but after having 16 courses of antibiotics few years ago for UTIs and kidney infections a nurse told me to make sure my knees and hips where in line that way you empty your bladder and bowel completely. So I put my feet on a children's step.

I always make sure to have my stick by me if the disabled loo is occupied and have to use a normal loo as I had to go at the hospital and couldn't get up from the loo and I had proper my stick by the door. I go to sit fit class and we do an exercise called sit to stand . So I tried it and got off the loo.. If I hadn't I would have had to call the hospital and asked someone to help me.

Until I had my bed bar I didn't realise I struggle to get in my bed I knew I had problems getting out. But didn't realise it was a struggle to get in .

Premier inns have accessible rooms for people like me and for wheelchair users. I highly recommend them. Beds are low ,comfy armchair and a massive shower room with rails..Toilet easy to use and the shower has a fold down seat with back and legs at the front and fold down arms like the sort I have at home. Plus you pay for the room not how many people are in it. I hate private hotels who charge you extra because you are on your own and only have a single bed which I would fall out of.

Marydoll Sun 09-Jun-24 22:25:43

Many restaurants and pubs here have the toilets in the basement and many stairs to negotiate. Thank goodness for a disabled toilet on the ground floor.
I may get down, but I would never get back up.

Marydoll Sun 09-Jun-24 22:20:13

I bought one because I am registered disabled. I have had it for so long now, that I can't remember from where I purchased it and if I needed proof of my many disabilities.

Jaxjacky Sun 09-Jun-24 21:39:31

I thought radar keys were for disabled users?
After tearing a knee ligament in Feb and having our en-suite redone in April - coincidence, a comfort toilet was fitted. Although not needed now, it doesn’t hurt and part of future proofing.

grandMattie Sun 09-Jun-24 21:22:12

I am 5’10” tall. The disabled loo I had removed (my bathroom leaked and was very mouldy) was SO high that my legs dangled off it. The DGDs loved it! 😂

Charleygirl5 Sun 09-Jun-24 21:18:13

Be careful- radar keys do not work everywhere. My local shopping centre for one so I have to use the ordinary loo.